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WHY IS
MAY 5TH
FIVE BY FIVE
DAY?
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F I V E B Y
F I V E I S
A M I L I T A R Y
T E R M F O R …
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C O M M U N I C A T I N G
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S P E C I F I C A L L Y ,
H O W A
M E S S A G E I S
R E C E I V E D
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O N A S C A L E
O F 1 - 5 ,
T H E Y ’ D
M E A S U R E
V O L U M E A N D
C L A R I T Y
HIGH VOLUME
LOW VOLUME
L
O
W
C
L
A
R
I
T
Y
H
I
G
H
C
L
A
R
I
T
Y
I F Y O U W E R E
C O M I N G
T H R O U G H
P E R F E C T L Y ,
T H E
M E A S U R E M E N T
W A S …
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FIVE BY FIVE
W E S A Y F I V E B Y F I V E O N A D A I L Y
B A S I S , W E S I M P L Y C A L L I T
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LOUD AND CLEAR
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L A S T Y E A R O N
5 / 5 ,
A L A N H O F F L E R
A N D I
L A U N C H E D
S I L V E R
G O L D F I S H
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F I L L E D W I T H
6 4 T I P S , T H E
B O O K
U N C O V E R S T H E
1 0 K E Y S T O
B E I N G L O U D
A N D C L E A R
W H E N W E
C O M M U N I C A T E
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W A N T T H E B E S T T I P
I N T H E E N T I R E
B O O K .
O N E T I P T H A T W I L L
I N S T A N T L Y M A K E
Y O U A B E T T E R
S P E A K E R A N D
C O M M U N I C A T O R
Photo Credits: Unsplash
Know that the audience wants you to succeed. They
want to pay attention. They want you to capture their
mind and heart—to be louder than the noise in their
own head. They don’t require you to be perfect. In the
words of speaking coach Stephanie Scotti,
“It’s not about perfection when presenting; it’s about
connection.” If you want to be a great presenter, you
need to connect. Connection before content. And this
might seem counterintuitive, but the first thing you
need to do is …
Photo Credits: Unsplash
S.T.O.P.
Photo Credits: Shutterstock
This acronym is one of best speaking
techniques for establishing
connection. Coined by Andrew
Gilman, here’s how the acronym of
S.T.O.P. works. You deliver a
Single Thought to One Person
Photo Credits: Unsplash
You think of and compose your next thought while finding a
new person in the audience. You are not allowed to start
delivering the thought until you establish eye contact. Then
you deliver that next single thought. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Photo Credits: Unsplash
WHY S.T.O.P?
S.T.O.P. has four amazing benefits:
Photo Credits: Unsplash
1. S.T.O.P. eliminates filler words. This may be the
biggest benefit for the listener. Filler words (such as uh,
um, and , so) automatically disappear. According to
Susan Ward, “Using excessive fillers is the most
irritating speech habit. They distract your listener often to
the point that he or she doesn’t hear anything you say.”
NO “SO” FOR YOU
Photo Credits: Unsplash
2. It allows you time
to breathe by slowing
you down. Breathing
calms your nerves. It
allows needed
oxygen to your brain,
making you smarter
on your feet.
Photo Credits: Unsplash
3. It reinforces eye contact which allows
your audience the ability to connect with
you. The eyes are the window to the soul.
You’re seen as more trusted and you appear
more confident. S.T.O.P. also allows you to
monitor your audience’s response to what
you are saying.
Photo Credits: Unsplash
4. The pauses allow you to create flow and
tempo. They also allow the audience to filter
what you’ve just said. Our brains can’t effectively
multitask. The gaps between thoughts give the
listener needed time to process the information.
Photo Credits: Unsplash
PICK UP SILVER GOLDFISH, THE BOOK HAS
63 MORE TIPS AND TOOLS YOU CAN USE
“One of the things you want to be
sure to do is, whether you like it
or not, is get comfortable with
public speaking. That’s an asset
that will last you 50 or 60 years.
It’s a necessary skill.”
– Warren Buffett
Need a keynote speaker
or workshop facilitator,
let’s talk
THE GOLDFISH SERIES OF BOOKS
Stan Phelps
stan@purplegoldfish.com
919-360-4702
StanPhelpsSpeaks.com

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  • 1.
  • 2. WHY IS MAY 5TH FIVE BY FIVE DAY? Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 3. F I V E B Y F I V E I S A M I L I T A R Y T E R M F O R … Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 4. C O M M U N I C A T I N G Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 5. S P E C I F I C A L L Y , H O W A M E S S A G E I S R E C E I V E D Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 6. O N A S C A L E O F 1 - 5 , T H E Y ’ D M E A S U R E V O L U M E A N D C L A R I T Y HIGH VOLUME LOW VOLUME L O W C L A R I T Y H I G H C L A R I T Y
  • 7. I F Y O U W E R E C O M I N G T H R O U G H P E R F E C T L Y , T H E M E A S U R E M E N T W A S … Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 9. W E S A Y F I V E B Y F I V E O N A D A I L Y B A S I S , W E S I M P L Y C A L L I T Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 10. LOUD AND CLEAR Photo Credits: Shutterstock
  • 11. L A S T Y E A R O N 5 / 5 , A L A N H O F F L E R A N D I L A U N C H E D S I L V E R G O L D F I S H Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 12. F I L L E D W I T H 6 4 T I P S , T H E B O O K U N C O V E R S T H E 1 0 K E Y S T O B E I N G L O U D A N D C L E A R W H E N W E C O M M U N I C A T E Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 13. W A N T T H E B E S T T I P I N T H E E N T I R E B O O K . O N E T I P T H A T W I L L I N S T A N T L Y M A K E Y O U A B E T T E R S P E A K E R A N D C O M M U N I C A T O R Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 14. Know that the audience wants you to succeed. They want to pay attention. They want you to capture their mind and heart—to be louder than the noise in their own head. They don’t require you to be perfect. In the words of speaking coach Stephanie Scotti, “It’s not about perfection when presenting; it’s about connection.” If you want to be a great presenter, you need to connect. Connection before content. And this might seem counterintuitive, but the first thing you need to do is … Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 16. This acronym is one of best speaking techniques for establishing connection. Coined by Andrew Gilman, here’s how the acronym of S.T.O.P. works. You deliver a Single Thought to One Person Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 17. You think of and compose your next thought while finding a new person in the audience. You are not allowed to start delivering the thought until you establish eye contact. Then you deliver that next single thought. Lather, rinse, repeat. Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 18. WHY S.T.O.P? S.T.O.P. has four amazing benefits: Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 19. 1. S.T.O.P. eliminates filler words. This may be the biggest benefit for the listener. Filler words (such as uh, um, and , so) automatically disappear. According to Susan Ward, “Using excessive fillers is the most irritating speech habit. They distract your listener often to the point that he or she doesn’t hear anything you say.” NO “SO” FOR YOU Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 20. 2. It allows you time to breathe by slowing you down. Breathing calms your nerves. It allows needed oxygen to your brain, making you smarter on your feet. Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 21. 3. It reinforces eye contact which allows your audience the ability to connect with you. The eyes are the window to the soul. You’re seen as more trusted and you appear more confident. S.T.O.P. also allows you to monitor your audience’s response to what you are saying. Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 22. 4. The pauses allow you to create flow and tempo. They also allow the audience to filter what you’ve just said. Our brains can’t effectively multitask. The gaps between thoughts give the listener needed time to process the information. Photo Credits: Unsplash
  • 23. PICK UP SILVER GOLDFISH, THE BOOK HAS 63 MORE TIPS AND TOOLS YOU CAN USE
  • 24. “One of the things you want to be sure to do is, whether you like it or not, is get comfortable with public speaking. That’s an asset that will last you 50 or 60 years. It’s a necessary skill.” – Warren Buffett
  • 25. Need a keynote speaker or workshop facilitator, let’s talk