Mindfulness is well-known for reducing stress but how does it fit with agile and lean thinking and the business world?
It does very well as it supports developing authentic human beings who know when to lead and when to follow. It helps to grow responsible, resilient and courageous individuals who contribute to a ‘whole’ by delivering value in a sustainable manner. And it all starts with your self/selves. Be curious!
In this session, we will first focus on language, identity and awareness and how these rather basic ‘human things’ are relevant for modern leaders. I will guide you with the help of a validated psychological model how to identify and strengthen your personal leadership abilities. Together we will make connections to where you are right now and which techniques you can take right away to integrate mindfulness directly in your (business) life to actually take the next step towards your best possible self/selves.
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Multiple Selves?! Growing leaders applied. (Agile Tour London #ATLDN 2018)
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Multiple Selves?!
Growing leaders applied.
Cosima Laube
Agile Tour London, 2018
#ATLDN
Why are YOU here?
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cosima@laube:~$ whoami
Why am I here?
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Well, that escalated
happened quickly...
Product Development
is People Work
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Fight
Flight
Feed
Freeze
Fear
… back to university!
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Bridge Builder & Travel Guide
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Leadership starts with YOURSELF
“[…] the first person
I need to lead is me.
The first person
that I should try to change
is me.”
[John C. Maxwell]
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What is a
good first step?
Leadership starts with YOURSELF
Leader-ship
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Leadership
Leadership starts with YOUR SELF
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Why are YOU here?
Quick Outline
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Some science…
„Multiple Selves“ Model
Even more science…
How does the model
work in detail?
How to grow
(with) others?
Where to start
YOUR journey…
How to grow yourself?
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„Multiple Selves“
Model
[Atkins & Styles, 2015]
process story
perspec
tive
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1. Self as story
story
Self as story
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Pro:
• predictability
• coherence
Con:
- too past-oriented
- often too rigid
- limiting yourself
Self as story
2. Self as process
process
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Self as process
Self as process
• socially useful ( predictability)
• basis of self-regulation
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3. Self as perspective
perspec
tive
Self as perspective
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pro-
cess
story
pers
pecti
ve
pro-
cess
story
pers
pecti
ve
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process story
perspec
tive
process story
perspec
tive
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Psychological Flexibility ++
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Seeing the „whole“ picture
Honoring your values and goals
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More options per situation
YOU being the driver
Psychological Flexibility
Flexible,
authentic,
responsive
Self
[Atkins & Parker, 2012]
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Psych. Flexibility
Leadership skills
increases
Leadership
Motivation
Self-Management
Self-Awareness
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How does it work ?
Multiple Selves Identity
= behaviour + mental relations
[Atkins & Styles, 2015]
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Identity
= behaviour + mental relations
= what we do + what we think about it
[Atkins & Styles, 2015]
Identity
= behaviour + mental relations
= {
3 senses of self,
social experiences,
human ability to refer to past / future
}
[Atkins & Styles, 2015]
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Psych. Flexibility
Leadership skills
Identity
increases
„… [identity] is NOT a reflection of
some underlying true self.“
[Atkins & Styles, 2015]
Identity
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„… [identity] is NOT a reflection of
some underlying true self.“
„[how] a person talks about [their]
self is the act of creating an identity“
[Atkins & Styles, 2015]
Identity
Main driver for Identity:
Language
[Relational Frame Theory: Hayes et al. (2001)]
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Psych. Flexibility
Leadership skills
Identity
Language
creates
increases
Where to start ?
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1. Getting aware
2.
3.
Talking & learning
about the 3 Selves
is a (self-)coaching intervention
[Berger & Atkins, 2009]
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1. Getting aware
2. Self-Talk
3.
Psych. Flexibility
Leadership skills
Identity
Language
creates
increases
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proce
ss
story
pers
pecti
ve
Self-talk
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I‘m the most
important one
here….
„I am the king of
<FooBar42>…“
„I‘m the
hero!“
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Which examples of self-talk
come to your mind?
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Where did it make a difference
how
you talked to yourself?
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Best possible Selves
(take-home exercise)
[King, 2001; Blickhan, 2015]
pro-
cess
story
pers
pecti
ve
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pro-
cess
pers
pecti
ve
story
1. Getting aware
2. Self-Talk
3. Mindfulness
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Mindfulness
Psych. Flexibility
Leadership skills
Identity
Language
creates
increases
facilitates
Leadership
Motivation
Self-Management
Self-Awareness
Mindfulness
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Mindfulness
„A self-regulated attentional stance
oriented towards present-moment experience
that is characterized by
curiosity, openness, and acceptance.“
[Dahl, Lutz, Davidson (2015)]
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pro-
cess
pers
pecti
ve
story
Mind-
ful-
ness
What kind of practise
is that ‚mindful practise‘?
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Three breaths
pro-
cess
pers
pecti
ve
story
Mind-
ful-
ness
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pro-
cess
pers
pecti
ve
story
Mind-
ful-
ness
pro-
cess
pers
pecti
ve
story
Mind-
ful-
ness
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process
pers
pecti
ve
Mind-
ful-
ness
story
process
pers-
pective
Mind-
ful-
ness
story
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process
story
pers-
pective
process
story
pers-
pective
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How to grow
with others?
One minute to arrive
(individually
or as group check-in)
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Noticing
(a.k.a. „Name it to tame it.“)
Leadership
Empathy
Motivation
Self-Management
Self-Awareness
Mindfulness
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Shift to connection
(variation of 3 breaths)
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Three breaths
Shift to
connection
Noticing /
Name it to tame it
Minute to arrive
/ Check-in
Best possible
selves
Leadership starts with your SELF
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That‘s all I have…
http://cosima-laube.de
Day Parenting
(take-home)
[Bonifer & Shternshus, 2015]
[Cosima Laube L.I.S.T.E.N. Blog]
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Sources
on the „Multiple Selves“ model
Atkins, P. W. B., & Styles, R. (2015). Mindfulness, identity and work: mindfulness training
creates a more flexible sense of self. In J. Reb & P. W. B. Atkins (Eds.), Mindfulness in
Organizations: Foundations, research, and applications (pp. 133–162).
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/290490487_Mindfulness_identity_and_work_Mi
ndfulness_training_creates_a_more_flexible_sense_of_self
Atkins, P. W. B., & Parker, S. K. (2012). Understanding Individual Compassion in
Organizations: The Role of Appraisals and Psychological Flexibility. Academy of
Management Review, 37(4), 524–546. https://doi.org/10.5465/amr.2010.0490
Hayes, S. C., Barnes-Holmes, D., & Roche, B. (2001). Relational Frame Theory: A Post-
Skinnerian Account of Human Language and Cognition. New York: Plenum Press.
https://doi.org/10.1016/S0065-2407(02)80063-5
Berger, J. G. and Atkins, P. W. B. (2009). Mapping complexity of mind: using the subject-
object interview in coaching. Coaching: An International Journal of Theory, Research and
Practice, 2 (1), 23-36.
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/233282213_Mapping_complexity_of_mind_Usin
g_the_subject-object_interview_in_coaching
Sources
on Mindfulness, Work and Leadership
Good, D. J., Lyddy, C. J., Glomb, T. M., Bono, J. E., Brown, K. W., Duffy, M. K., Lazar, S.
W. (2016). Contemplating Mindfulness at Work: An Integrative Review. Journal of
Management, 42(1), 114–142. https://doi.org/10.1177/0149206315617003
Shapiro, S. L., Carlson, L. E., Astin, J. A., & Freedman, B. (2006). Mechanisms of
mindfulness. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 62(3), 373–386.
https://doi.org/10.1002/jclp.20237
Dahl, C. J., Lutz, A., & Davidson, R. J. (2015). Reconstructing and deconstructing the
self: cognitive mechanisms in meditation practice. Trends in Cognitive Sciences, 19(9),
515–523. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.tics.2015.07.001
van Dierendonck, D. (2011). Servant Leadership: A Review and Synthesis. Journal of
Management, 37(4), 1228–1261. https://doi.org/10.1177/0149206310380462
Systematic iterature review on Mindfulness and Leadership (Bachelor thesis, Cosima
Laube 2017) – available on demand
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Sources
Books, exercises & more (1)
Listening and Clean Language
• Hartley, Tamsin(2017): The Listening Space – A New Path to Personal Discovery
Positive Psychology
• Blickhan, D. (2015). Positive Psychologie: ein Handbuch für die Praxis. Paderborn:
Junfermann Verlag.
Best Possible Selves Exercise
• King, L. A. (2001). The health benefits of writing about life goals. Personality and
Social Psychology Bulletin, 27(7), 798–807. doi: 10.1177/0146167201 277003,
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/247895325_The_Health_Benefits_of_Writing
_about_Life_Goals
• See pages 152/153 in Blickhan (2015) for a short description in German
Karate Kid: Wax on, Wax off
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ynryUjGFt8
FITNESS TRAINING.
Sources
Books, exercises & more (2)
Improvisation / gamification of mindfulness for business organisations:
• Bonifer, Mike & Shternshus, Jessie (2015): CTRL-Shift
Day Parenting Exercise:
• Cosima Laube L.I.S.T.E.N. Blog: http://blog.cosima-laube.de/blog/20180419_ctrl-
shift_dayParenting
The Hanselminutes Tech Podcast with April Wensel on Compassionate Coding
• https://hanselminutes.com/641/compassionate-coding-with-april-wensel
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• 4 days (best) in a row
• 20 minutes per day
• 1 life domain per day
(health, work, partner/family, friends,
treating yourself, …)
Best Possible Self – in a nutshell 1
• first minutes: step mentally into your
future best possible self in that life
domain
• ~15 minutes: be your best possible self
• Write continuously
• How are you?
• What do you do?
• What is important to you?
• Don‘t stop writing!
• Don‘t judge.
• Be surprised!
Best Possible Self – in a nutshell 2
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Picture sources & credits
slide 11, 22, 38-42: Cosima Laube
slide 61/665 photos from illustrations taken from the German version of the book „Quiet
the self“ by Matthew Johnstone (therefore not included in public versions of these slides!)
all others: http://unsplash.com