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The Courage and Compassion to Change
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The Courage & Compassion to Change @Lois Kelly Northeast Home Health Superhero Summit, Jan. 17, 2018@LoisKelly 1
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I. Beating ourselves up @LoisKelly 2
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PERSONAL STORY: OVER-CONFIDENCE, FEAR AND FAILURE @LoisKelly 3
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Telling people to be fearless is superficial and lacks empathy. @LoisKelly 5
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FEAR IS INVALUABLE DATA Signals desire or danger. Learn from it. Don’t be fearless. Have less fear. @LoisKelly 6
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When did fear propel you to take a courageous chance? @LoisKelly 7
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Beyond fear: what fuels courage? @LoisKelly 8
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What I learned at Courage Camp @LoisKelly 9
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How rebels sustain courage @LoisKelly 10
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II. Self-compassion: the essential superpower @LoisKelly 11
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Fear Courage Self-compassion builds our perseverance The path from fear to courage is rarely a straight shot @LoisKelly 12
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Courage Self-compassion SELF-COMPASSION: Essential leadership trait @LoisKelly 13
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Self-pity Self-indulgence Self-esteem Self-centered Self-confidence Selfish Self-kindness Sense of humanity Self-compassion isn’t: Self-compassion is: @LoisKelly 14
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Self-compassion develops: Resiliency Optimism Perseverance Less stress, anxiety Open-mindedness@LoisKelly 15
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Compassion: increases perseverance on difficult tasks by over 30 percent. Nudging the mind to be more patient and more self-less benefits everyone whom our decisions impact, including our future selves. This give us not only grit, but grace. Dr. David DeStano, Northeastern University @LoisKelly 16
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The more self-compassionate, the less severe stress, anxiety. Resiliency may be the most remarkable benefit of self-compassion. Dr. Kristin Neff Univ. of Texas/Austin @LoisKelly 17
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Self-compassion has all the advantages of self-confidence without the downside of delusion. Eric Barker Barking Up the Wrong Tree Self-compassionate people are better able to accept feedback and improve because of an objective view of reality. Beware the Dunning- Kruger Effect of self- confidence @LoisKelly 18
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Honesty Perseverance Bravery Enthusiasm Self-compassion cultivates the four traits of courage. @LoisKelly
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III. Developing self-compassion @LoisKelly 20
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“I’m having a bad brain day.” “I speak to my brain as though it is a group of children. Please stop bringing this stuff up. “Deciding that internal verbal abuse is not acceptable behavior is the first step in finding deep inner peace.” Dr. Jill Bolte Tayler ”My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey” @LoisKelly 21
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22 REFRAME I’m so excited. Not yet. This is an adventure. @LoisKelly
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What advice would a kind, compassionate friend give you? @LoisKelly 23
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…or an imaginary friend? @LoisKelly 24
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“Expressive writing is a far more powerful tool than we ever imagined." Dr. James Pennebaker Univ. of Texas/Austin ü Organizes jumble of thoughts. ü Constructs a new narrative. ü
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“We can recognize that everyone has times when they blow it, and treat ourselves kindly. “Maybe we weren’t able to put our best foot forward, but we tried, and falling flat on one’s face is an inevitable part of life. “An honorable part, in fact.” Dr. Kristen Neff, Self-Compassion @LoisKelly 26
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Learn from your fear. Be kind to yourself. Love your courage. @LoisKelly 27
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PERSONAL STORY: OVERCOMING A WORK TRAGEDY WITH EXPRESSIVE WRITING @LoisKelly 28
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LOIS KELLY @Lois Kelly RebelsatWork.com Foghound.com CourageCamp.net @LoisKelly 30
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