Every couple faces times in their relationships where things get a little stale. Spoil is here to help you fix that. We put together a list of actionable things you can do right now to spice up your life and surprise your wife. Remember, a surprise is something new! We aren't here to give you the same advice that every dating website gives. Get rid of that bouquet behind your back and browse our useful tips on how to stand out to the lady you love. You can start of with a surprise date night (with a twist). Go out and buy her a nice, beautiful fancy dress. Then book a restaurant for two. Then send the dress to her office with a note saying: "Wear this tonight. Meet me at Restaurant X at 5pm. Love you". Not only will you look thoughtful and romantic to the eyes of her coworkers, it is also a great way to break up the monotony of a work day. If you don't feel like going out, and want to enjoy a nice night in, we have advice for that as well. Get some nice and romantic candles. Put on some nice mellow music, open up a bottle of wine and enjoy the evening to yourselves. Part of rekindling that spark is getting out of your comfort zone. So go do something you wouldn't normally do as a couple. Go Go-Kart racing, take a dance class or take a few swings at the batting cage. This will give you guys plenty to talk and laugh about. Surprises are all about the right gestures, done the right way at the right time. Leave a little love note in places where she would least expect it. Put it in her lunch, in the sole of her shoes, in her jacket pocket. You never know when throughout the day she will find them, and be touched by your thoughtfulness. One important point, during all of these things, no matter which ones you are doing, keep your cellphones off. Don't text or take calls. Get out of the daily grind of your day and enjoy each other's company. Spoil is all about surprising and showing how much you care about the people that matter most to you. The happiest people are not those getting more, but those giving more.