HEY YOU! VOCATION DISCERNMENT & THEOLOGY OF THE BODY
1. Hey, You!Hey, You!
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2. LORD, hear my prayer,
listen to my cry for MERCY;
come to my relief.
Bring me word of your unfailing love,
for I have put my trust in you.
Show me the way I should go,
for to you I entrust my life.
Teach me to do your will,
for you are my God;
may your good Spirit
lead me in ways that are upright and just. Amen.
--Psalm 143
3. Hey, You!Hey, You!
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4. “Then the man and the woman heard
the sound of the LORD God walking in
the garden
at the time of the
evening breeze.”
Genesis 3:8
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11. Everyone is Called to MarriageEveryone is Called to Marriage
Everyone is Called to VirginityEveryone is Called to Virginity
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13. Everyone is Called to MarriageEveryone is Called to Marriage
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15. Everyone is Called to MarriageEveryone is Called to Marriage
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16. 2 vocations:
marriage & consecrated virginity
3 states of life:
married, consecrated virginity
& single
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18. Everyone is Called to MarriageEveryone is Called to Marriage
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32. “The body is for the Lord
and the Lord is for the body.”
--1 Corinthians 6:13
33. God’s 5 “F”s of True
Love
(the language of the body /
sexuality)“THE OTHER”—relating as male to female, female to male
persons, not things………………….....FUNDAMENTAL
“YES”………………………………FREE
“YOU ONLY”—exclusive, total gift, mutual exchange(marriage)
…………….………………………FULL
“FOREVER”—commitment ……..FAITHFUL
“YES”—open to new life………….FRUITFUL
36. “For this reason a man shall leave
his father and mother and be joined to his
wife, and the two shall become one flesh.
This is great mystery,
and I mean in reference to
Christ and the Church.”
Ephesians 5:21-32
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38. “For this reason a man shall leave
his father and mother and be joined to his
wife, and the two shall become one flesh.
This is great mystery,
and I mean in reference to
Christ and the Church.”
Ephesians 5:21-32
46. Everyone is Called to MarriageEveryone is Called to Marriage
Everyone is Called to VirginityEveryone is Called to Virginity
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48. What to do if you feel called?What to do if you feel called?
67. CHASTITY =
integration of soul & body
with regard to sexuality
according to our vocation
sexual honesty, integrity, authenticity
wholeness, self-control, self-mastery
FREEDOM!
celibate chastity
married chastity
Go thru each, then: [Give a GIFT BOX and keep taking it back and giving it away!] for “YOU ONLY.” Once we give a TOTAL GIFT of ourselves, that’s it—it’s given. WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN, VICE VERSA, the most NATURAL THING is to want to express that SEXUALLY, right? (SEMO!) So, if it’s TRUE LOVE, go for it! BUT if it’s missing one of these 5 “F”’s, then it’s NOT TRUE LOVE—IT’S SOMETHING ELSE: (selfish pleasure, think it’s true love, emotions, infatuation, biological urges, manipulation, lack of self-control, “hooking up”—like scratching an itch.). “But what if you REALLY love someone?” EXACTLY—”TRUE LOVE.” Love always does what’s good for the OTHER person. If you really LOVE someone, you’ll WAIT for them. What’s the OPPOSITE OF LOVE (USE.) Is it OK to USE someone if they AGREE TO IT (like porn, prostitution, or even “hooking up”)? NO. We always TREAT PEOPLE ACCORDING TO THEIR DIGNITY, EVEN IF THEY DON’T’ WANT IT.
…priests are married to….the Church. Celibate people show that God is the spouse of every soul. In a sense, SINGLE PEOPLE show this too…. We can’t live without LOVE AND UNION AND COMMUNITY…..We were not created to be ALONE!! DON’T CHANGE SLIDE. Fr. Dave story…..