Men have a significant role in the prevention of family violence. This presentation demonstrates their importance, moves on to the significance of gender in family violence, the meanings of violence, processes that lead to violence, and strategies for prevention. Some of the content is difficult to think about..
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Wimps, Punks, & Sissies: Men's Roles in the Prevention of Family Violence
1. Wimps, Punks, & Sissies:
Menâs Roles in the Prevention
of Family Violence
Jane F. Gilgun, PhD., LICSW
University of Minnesota, Twin Cities USA
http://ssw.che.umn.edu/faculty/jgilgun.htm
Keynote Address to the Dakota Fatherhood Summit 3,
Fargo, ND, May 22, 2003
2. Overview
īŽ Importance of Men in Violence
Prevention
īŽ Significance of Gender in Violence
īŽ Meanings of Violence
īŽ Processes that Lead to Violence
īŽ Strategies for Prevention
3. "Men must now do
something themselves
about male violence."
Male Network, Governing Board of Save the Children Sweden, 1993
http://www.man-net.nu/engelsk/start.htm
4. Why?
īŽ One of three women in the United States
experiences physical assault by a partner in
their lifetimes
īŽ 2-4 million women a year in the United States
are assaulted by an intimate partner
īŽ About 2/3 of domestic abuse victims are
women; the rest are men
5. Why?
īŽ more than 3.3 million children are exposed to
physical and verbal spousal spousal abuse
each year
īŽ 60% to 75% of families in which a woman is
battered, children are also battered.
īŽ rape, physical assault, stalking and homicide
committed by intimate partners lead to health
costs that exceed $5.8 billion each year
(CDC)
6. Why?
īŽ 83% of arrestees for violent crime were
men
īŽ Men 3 times more likely to be murdered
than women
īŽ 90% of the murderers of men are men
(Uniform Crime Reports, 2001)
7. Why?
īŽ Hypermasculine attitudes and
behaviors are linked to perpetration of
violence
īŽ Beliefs about masculinity are the single
most important factor in the perpetration
of violence
8. Why are men important?
īŽ Men have credibility when promoting what it
means to be male
īŽ Men control most resourcesâsuch as media
īŽ Men enforce male gender roles
īŽ Consequences of not measuring up can
be horrendous
īŽ Men and boys are looking for models of how
to be men
īŽ Male look up to other males
9. Example of Menâs
Credibility
īŽ Spike Lee
īŽ Promoted a college education to the Black
Expo in Columbia, SC
īŽ Peers ridicule young black scholars as
âacting white.â
īŽ âBut if youâre on a corner, holding a 40,
smoking a blunt and holding your privates,
then youâre real.â
Role models not rappers (2003).
10. Resistance to Menâs
Involvement in
Prevention
âYou must be very tired spending a whole
day trying to get us to talk about what
we donât want to talk about. Itâs just the
way it is.â
Adolescent boy in Fergusson (2002)
11. Consequences of Menâs
Violence on Children
īŽ Silent victims: children exposed to
family violence
īŽ At risk for depression and anxiety
īŽ At risk to become aggressive adolescents
& adults
īŽ These adolescents often depressed
īŽ Often think violence is the natural way to deal
with others
īŽ Require loving attention of caring adults to
learn to adapt to, cope with, & overcome
these adversities
12. Consequences of Menâs
Violence on Children
īŽ Women victims of male violence
īŽ More likely to physically abuse their
children
īŽ More likely to be psychologically
unavailable to their children
īŽ More likely to be ambivalent toward their
children
13. Consequences of Menâs
Violence on Families
īŽ Women victims of male violence
īŽ Suffer personally, socially,
economically
īŽ May be charged with failure to protect
īŽ Children may be placed in foster care
īŽ Are at heightened risk to be murdered
14. Consequences of Menâs
Violence on Men
īŽ Every man can be stereotyped
as physically violent
īŽ Is that what men want?
15. Consequences of Menâs
Violence on Men
Men who harm their partners
īŽ Damage the quality of family/partner
relationships
īŽ Sometimes experience guilt
īŽ Make themselves vulnerable
īŽ to arrest and public shame
īŽ to workhouse, jail, prison time
īŽ to retaliation/self-protection from partner
and children
16. Consequences of Menâs
Violence on Men
īŽ Other men may share their views
that sometimes women deserve it
īŽ Helps their bonding with these menâ
often takes place in menâs rooms,
bars, boardrooms, golf courses
īŽ Shores up identities as masculine
men
17. Significance of Gender
What are little girls made of?
Sugar and spice and everything nice,
Thatâs what little girls are made of.
What are little boys made of?
Snips and snails and puppy dog tails,
Thatâs what little boys are made of.
Mother Goose
18. Violence is Gendered
īŽ Women
īŽ When they hurt others, they tend to do so
with words that threaten relationships
īŽ Men
īŽ When they hurt others, behaviors often are
physical and when men use words, they
tend to be direct and aggressive
19. Womenâs Violence
īŽ Relational Aggression
īŽ Harm or threaten to harm
relationships
īŽ Sense of belonging
īŽ Friendships
īŽ Reputations
(Crick, et al., 1998, p. 77).
20. Relational Aggression
īŽ Types of aggressive behaviors
īŽ Silent treatment/ignoring
īŽ Threat to end friendships
īŽ Gossip
īŽ Exclusionâor threat of ostracism
īŽ Motivations
īŽ Control others
īŽ Feel superior
īŽ Retaliation
â (Crick, et al., 1998, p. 77).
21. How do kids describe
relational aggression?
īŽ Tell a lie about other kids
īŽ Tell someone, âWeâre going to be in a
group and youâre not going to be in it.â
īŽ Pretend you donât see another kid.
īŽ Donât talk to someone.
īŽ Talk behind their backs
22. Relational Aggression
Among
Adolescents and Adults
īŽ âStealingâ someoneâs boyfriend
īŽ Spreading lies or gossip
īŽ Silent treatment
īŽ Withholding love and attention
īŽ Building a coalition against another
24. Female Socialization
īŽ Developing and maintaining relationships
īŽ Emotional expressiveness
īŽ Nurturing others
īŽ Fears that direct expression of anger will
damage relationships
īŽ Womenâs Gendered Aggression: A reversal of
these socialization patterns
25. Male Socialization
īŽ Competition
īŽ Aggression
īŽ Physical dominance
īŽ Higher tolerance for distance in
relationships
īŽ Less concern about expressions of
anger as threats to relationships
26. Male Socialization
īŽ Use aggression to achieve a goal
īŽ Do not have feminine qualities
īŽ Do not be weak, a punk, a sissy, a fag
īŽ Control:
īŽ Threaten/beat someone up if the other person
does not comply with a request
īŽ Shame another male in front of men to damage
his status in the eyes of other men (and some
women)
27. Father Involvement
Modifies Polarizations
īŽ Girls: expressed more competition,
aggression and less intense fear and
sadness
īŽ Boys: more expressions of
vulnerability, including fear and warmth,
less aggression, more empathy
Brody (1999)
28. Parentsâ Socialization
īŽ strong gender effects
īŽ Boys more likely than girls to use
aggression to express both anger
and sadness
īŽ Boys more often rewarded for
expressing these emotions
through attacks on others
29. Socialization in Families
īŽ Girls more likely to display negative
emotions such as anger and fear if they
believe others will respond with
understanding and comfort
īŽ Girls masked these emotions when they
sought to promote relationships with
others.
30. Socialization in Families
īŽ Girls: socialized to use prosocial and
norm maintenance displays of emotion
īŽ Boys: focus more strongly on
impression managementâwhat
kind of image do they have?
īŽ Are they being masculine?
īŽ Assertive/aggressive/independent/daring/stoic
31. Male Socialization
īŽ Fragile vs. flexible sense of how others
perceive their masculinity
īŽ Anxiety vs. acceptance of self as
masculine
īŽ Men define each other as as having
control over women and children
īŽ Deep fear of being perceived as not
masculine
32. Peers as Enforcers
īŽ Punish each other for âinappropriateâ
gendered expressions
īŽ Concern over how others perceive them
īŽ Status for boys: competition & control
īŽ Taking risks
īŽ Winning in competitions
īŽ Maximizing aggression, mocking others
īŽ Minimizing fear, warmth, vulnerability
33. Peers as Enforcers
īŽ Status for girls
īŽ Goals: intimacy and affiliation
īŽ Mutual vulnerability through self-disclosure
īŽ Priority is not to get into trouble
īŽ Emphasis on equality
īŽ Bragging less acceptable compared to boys
īŽ More exposure to women
īŽ More expressiveness of warmth & vulnerability
īŽ Works for both girls and boys
34. Peers as Enforcers
īŽ Even 4-7 year olds are aware of
status differences between males &
females
īŽ In play,
īŽ girls who play boys are more directive
īŽ Girls who play children are more
directive with âmothersâ than with
âfathersâ
35. Media Depictions of Men
īŽ Research shows media influences on
learning of gender roles and aggression
īŽ Portrayals of anti-social behaviors are
wide-spread
īŽ Violence depicted as justified
īŽ Targets of violence portrayed as
īŽ Deserving of violence
īŽ Weak
36. Social Constructions
of Gender in the Media
īŽ What it means to be âmanlyâ is
exaggerated
īŽ Being manly includes contempt for
things female
īŽ Scorn for âbleeding heartsâ
īŽ Mastery/Suppression of emotions such
as
īŽ fear, distress, joy
īŽ Hypermasculine role models for viewers
37. Social Constructions
of Male Gender
īŽ Men pursue
īŽ Excitement
īŽ Danger
īŽ Thrills
īŽ Violence is manly: normative and
acceptable
īŽ Toughness valued
īŽ To be masculine is to be not feminine
38. Social Constructions
of Male Gender
īŽ Culturally-based systems of meanings
and practices are
īŽ descriptive and
īŽ prescriptive for individual men in
particular situations
39. Social Constructions
of Male Gender
īŽ Individuals enact cultural themes and
practices and
īŽ do so in their own way
īŽ Therefore, individuals enact and
create culture
40. Enacting
& Creating Culture
īŽ Use violence to show others
youâre not weak
You can't think I'm a joke. If you
underestimate me, if you think I won't
do it and you think I'm a weak punk, I'm
going, I'm going to go to any extreme to
show youâĻ Don't mock me or
somebody's going to die. (Alan)
41. Aggression &
Achievement
of Manhood
âOne day he came home drunk and, it
was like enough is enough. I threw a
punch and knocked him down. And he
said, âOkay, youâre a man now.ââ
42. Needed
īŽ More wide-spread alternative definitions
of what it means to be masculine
īŽ Wide-spread challenges to
understandings what it means to be
male
īŽ Examination of processes that lead to
rejection of hypermasculine values
īŽ Examination of processes that lead to
violence
43. How?
īŽ Increased involvement of fathers in
child care from infancy to adulthood
īŽ Increased awareness of men
īŽ of their own vulnerabilities
īŽ Of the centrality of human connection
īŽ Bring this awareness to work
44. Some men are so afraidâĻ
of not being masculine
they do not see that it takes courage to
challenge unrealistic, dangerous standards.
Being called punk, wimp, & sissy is not
easy
46. What Violence Means
to Perps
īŽ Understanding what violence means to
perpetrators provides the foundation for
action
īŽ Violence means many things
īŽ All are linked to gender roles
47. Emotional
Gratification
īŽ Littleton, CO
īŽ "every time they'd shoot someone, they'd
holler, like it was, like, exciting."
īŽ "They were laughing after they shot. It was like
they were having the time of their lives.â
īŽ 14 year-old Barry Loukatis
"It sure beats algebra, doesn't it?" as he
stood over a dying boy who was choking on his
own blood.
48. Emotional
Gratification
īŽ Sexual abuse of children:
âwarm, comfortable, gentle.â
īŽ Rape
īŽ âI would be shaking, physically shaking. Teeth would
chatter, and I couldn't stop.â
īŽ "The excitement is worth giving a whole bundle for."
īŽ Burglary
âIt was like Christmas....Sometimes I got so excited I
had to have a bowel movement.â
49. Gratification &
Power
īŽ Intimidating others
īŽ âIt's a, it's like a rush, it's like shooting your arm
full of dopeâĻ. It's like a total body rush.â
īŽ âThey're giving me this high, this, this feeling of
control or power...I got power now, over these
people. Look, you know, and they telling me,
âOh don't hurt him, don't hurt him.ââ
50. Power, Gratification,
Image
īŽ âYou know man and, and I've got this power.
You know and I love that. You know I love, I
love people to dress me up.â
īŽ ââĻI wanted to fight, shoot at people. I don't
know just play like Al Capone, I guess.â
51. Image & Pride
īŽ â âWhat are you trying to do, you're trying to
shame me, you're trying to embarrass me.
You, you're not giving me any respect.â Those
are my famous words.â
īŽ âI be trying to instill that fear in everybody's
mind that's around me and say, hey look, if you
fuck with me, this is what's going to happen to
you.â
52. Image & Pride
īŽ âI've seen guys who killed for less than a
quarter you know, and how people talk about
that. I wanted that hero image . To me that
was the key word.â
īŽ âI don't want to be embarrassed and say
aww...you got your assed kicked.â
īŽ âCan't be disrespecting me and insulting my
pride...this is righteous anger.â
53. What They Donât Do
īŽ âI donât know why Iâm getting the feeling
of I donât want to burden nobody or
come to nobody with my little old, you
know, (chuckle) emotional whatever Iâm
going through.â
54. Relief
īŽ âThe more destructive that I've been toward
material things, I've tore them up, it's given me
relief. Even when I hurt people it gives me the
relief.â
īŽ âLike an elephant dropped off my back.â
55. Feeling Victimized
& Not in Control
īŽ âI get into a relationship and when I wasn't in
control of the relationship, that's when I
thought, I felt like I was a victim again.â
īŽ âPeople pushing my buttons, you know, parole
officer telling me to do this, go live in this
halfway house or do this, don't do that. It was
like I didn't have no control over my life at all.â
56. Feeling Victimized
īŽ âAll I want to do is get my point across that I'm right,
you're wrong. I guess what it was is I was feeling kind
of persecuted.â
īŽ âIt gets to the point where I just can't, I can't find
anything in myself that's, that's worth a diddlyâdang.
And the way I've learned is, and it sounds like an
excuse maybe, the way I've learned to take care of it
is to abuse someone else.â
57. Feeling Victimized
īŽ âHe never touched me after that. I think right at
that point in time, I think I finally felt like I won. I
think he had a sense that he lost.â
īŽ âThere's power in, well all that comes out of
hate is rage. Anger and rage, and there's a
rush in that for me, without a doubt. There's
power in anger and there's power in rage
âĻ.When I feel like a victim, I perpetrate.â
58. Control
īŽ âYou're going do every damn thing I tell you to
do and you have no choice.â
īŽ âI got control. You know I can, I can handle
this. I can deal with you. And you get that
adrenalin rush you know. Get all pumped up.
But then I get so pumped up my ears start
ringing.â
59. Boredom
īŽ "Life was boring, nothing, go to school, go
home, get drunk, got home to hear parents
fight, listen to friends verbally abuse me. That's
why."
60. Violence as Survival
īŽ âIf you're not violent, people will walk all
over you. Violence keeps people away.
It's safe.â
īŽ ââĻthey have to stand up for theirself
because they don't want to be considered
weak.
īŽ âNow if I let somebody put their hands on
me I'm gonna feel like a coward, a punk.â
61. Survival
īŽ âYou whip a man good enough so he
don't never want to come back after
you.â
62. Death Wish: Whose?
īŽ âI wanted to end it all.â
īŽ âI've felt really bad in my life. Sometimes I
wished I was dead.â
īŽ âI was going to end my pain. I was going to end
the kids' pain.â
63. Ownership
īŽ âYour body is mine, you know. You can't. We
get this tripped out thing about once a woman
gives herself to us, she can't ever give herself
to anybody else.â
īŽ âThen it would run in my head that she's mine
and always will be...It would run in my head
that she always will be mine.â
64. Take What They Want
īŽ âSex. I wanted sex. I wanted sex.â
īŽ âI wanted attention from them. The only way I
knew attention from a woman was sexual. I
want this woman just automatically to give into
sex.â
īŽ âI think I was more interested in my own need
or my own desire than I was in whoever I was
hurting."
65. Retaliation
īŽ â...and I believed do onto others before they
do onto you. I was taught if you, if I get the
first lick in, the person doesn't have time to
retaliate.â
īŽ âI do think about hurting people when they
do wrong to me.â
68. Moby Dick Bites Ahabâs Leg Off
īŽ Ahab is flooded with anger,
rage, and hatred
īŽ Powerlessness
īŽ Incompetence
īŽWorthlessness
īŽ These responses experienced
through gendered, cultured
lenses
69. Responses
īŽ Fantasies
īŽRevenge
īŽSelf-aggrandization
īŽSelf as scum
īŽ Memories triggered
īŽ Other noxious events
recalled
71. Human Agency
īŽ Ahab has choices about how to deal
with these strong responses
īŽ He wants to feel better
īŽ Powerful
īŽ Competent
īŽ Worthy
īŽ He can do so
īŽ Pro-socially
īŽ Anti-socially
īŽ Self-destructively
72. Pro-Social Responses
īŽ Core response: return to a secure
positive base
īŽ Internalized processes
īŽ Behaviors
īŽ Forgiveness
īŽ Adapt and learn
īŽ Cope positively with the remaining
âsoulâ wound
73. Anti-Social Responses
īŽ Revenge
īŽ Solace and relief
īŽ Some sexual abuse/rape
īŽ Some physical violence
īŽ Some destruction of property
74. Self-Destructive
Responses
īŽ Use of chemicals, food,
shopping, gambling
īŽ Cutting
īŽ Put self at risk
īŽ Ruminating
75. Basic Principles
īŽ Competent people have capacities
for effective self-regulation of
emotions, cognitions, and
behaviors.
īŽ Basic value: do no harm
īŽ To be human means we experience
anger, rage, and hatred.
76. Basic Principles
īŽ Cognitions and emotions are
integrated processes.
īŽ This idea is so novel that we donât
have a word for it.
īŽ Cultures of anger, rage, and hatred
exist
īŽ Organized in a variety of ways
īŽ geography, ethnicity, gender,
ideologies, and values
77. Basic Principles
īŽ How we regulate these powerful states
depends upon how we think we are
supposed to regulate our emotions
īŽ Emotions, memories, cognitions, psycho-physiological
processes
īŽ Internalized gendered ideas about our
entitlements and âoughtsâ
īŽ Who our audience is
īŽ Our perceptions of situations
78. Basic Principles
īŽ Many people have capacities to bypass
gender role prescriptions that lead to self
harm and harm to others
īŽ Many of these prescriptions are
âgenderedâ
80. Dysegulation & Outcome
Noxious Event
Dysregulation
Search for Coping Strategies
Human Agency
Outcome
Pro-social Anti-Social Self-destructive
81. Entitlement & Outcome
Perception of Wanting Something
Appraisal of How to Get it
Human Agency
Outcome
Pro-social Anti-Social Self-destructive
82. Both Types
īŽ Draw upon gendered cultural themes
and practices
īŽ Conclusion
īŽ Significance of challenging and
transforming what it means to be male
83. Family violence is one
of many ways that some
men measure and
maintain their
dominance.
84. What to do?
īŽ Gender equality
īŽ Gender balance
85. Humane Expectations
About Boys and Men
īŽ No matter what traumas a boy or
man has experienced
īŽ No matter how seriously victimized
īŽ No matter how psychologically
damaged âĻ
86. Gender Balance
īŽViolence would not exist if
we transformed social
constructions of gender
īŽ Father involvement in
families is key
87. Gender Imbalance
īŽ Most men do not see themselves
as having power
īŽ Yet men world-wide dominate all
social institutions, including families
88. Gender Imbalance
īŽ Men in positions of dominance rarely
articulate the ideologies that drive their
choices and behaviors
īŽ Gender equality can be attained
through collaboration between women
and men
89. Gender Balance
Will Lead Fathers
īŽ to think of themselves as
īŽ important parents
īŽ competent parents
īŽ to share
īŽ In the responsibilities of parenthood
īŽ In the satisfactions of parenthood
90. Emotional
Expressiveness
īŽ We need to create blueprints saying
that boys are real men when they
confess their pain, deal with it, and let it
go.
īŽ My research tells me that boys risk
severe punishment for sharing such
personal, sensitive material.
91. Male violence would
not exist if we had
humane expectations
for boys
and men.
92. The Rejection by MEN of
Male Violence
īŽNearly impossible for many
men
īŽDominance & control at heart
of male self-definitions
īŽConsequences of departure
too dire
93. Near Impossibility
īŽ Men benefit from unequal distribution of
power, privilege and prestige
īŽ Men donât want to be thought of as
īŽ Wimps
īŽ Punks
īŽ Sissies
94. Youâre not man enough to do
it.
You donât have the guts.
You throw like a girl.
95. Whatâs Needed for
Prevention
īŽ Transformation
īŽ What it means to be male
īŽDefinitions of masculinity
īŽ What it means to be female
īŽTransform misogyny
īŽ Promotion
īŽ Gender balance
96. Whatâs Not Enough
Create a culture
īŽ does not tolerate domestic violence
īŽ holds offenders accountable for their
actions
īŽ punishes criminal behavior.
īŽ Provides victim services
97. Whatâs Enough
Transform Gender Roles
īŽ Create balanceâchallenge both
extremes
īŽ Promote father involvement in families
īŽ Promote balanced men into positions of
power
īŽ Welcome balanced women into
positions of power
98. Strategies for Prevention
īŽ Take the experiences of boys and men
and girls and women as starting points
īŽ Be even-handed in dealing with
aggression that is characteristic of both
genders
īŽ View violent behaviors as processes
that have numerous points along which
the process can be interrupted
99. Strategies for Prevention
īŽ If individuals enact and create cultural
themes and practices
īŽ Why canât men create new cultural
themes and practices?
īŽ In fact, many men are
100.
101. Mentor Violence
Prevention Program
īŽ By focusing on bystander behavior, MVP
reduces the defensiveness and hopelessness
that many men and women often feel when
discussing men's violence against women.
īŽ MVP aims to construct a new vision for
society that does not equate strength in men
with dominance over women.
102.
103. Depression Common Among
Men with Histories of
Violence
īŽ Why?
īŽ If violent men are hypermasculine, how
does this affect their relationships?
īŽ What makes life meaningful?
īŽ Why is menâs depression untreated?
104.
105. Some Key Issues
in Preventing Male Violence
īŽ Glorification of violence
īŽ Humane expectations about boys
and men
īŽ Gender equality
From the Male Network, 2003, http://www.man-net.nu/engelsk/start.htm
106.
107. Men Stopping Violence
īŽ Shift norms that support subjugation of
women
īŽ Asserting oneself as male does not
have to involve proclaiming self not
female
108.
109.
110.
111. Effective Prevention
īŽ Gender is central in any prevention
program
īŽ Gender is a proxy for power
īŽ Power related to ethnicity and
social class central to prevention
programs
112. Effective Prevention
īŽ Start where participants are
īŽ Understand their values that support
violence
īŽ Understand the worlds theyâve constructed
īŽ Do participants have
vulnerabilities in addition to
values that support
violence?
113. Effective Prevention
īŽ Deal with vulnerabilities
īŽFears of being sissies, punks,
& wimps
īŽFears of exclusion
īŽSense of self as defective
īŽSelf-defeating inner working
models
114. Effective Prevention
īŽ Particular situations bring out different
aspects of gendered behaviors
īŽ Expectations of consequences central
to how persons enact gender and the
power attached to male genderisms
īŽ Each person struggles with mulitipe
identity issues
īŽ We cannot reduce each other to gender
stereotypes
115. Effective Prevention
īŽ Parent education
īŽ Involved fathers have children
whose gender roles are more
flexible and less stereotyped
īŽ Involved fathers provide role
models for gender equality
116. Effective Prevention
īŽ Enlarge choices
īŽ Understand schemas/scripts
īŽ Seek to change schemas/scripts
īŽ What do participants value?
117. Effective Prevention
īŽ Each person struggles with multiple
identity issues
īŽ We cannot reduce each other to
gender stereotypes
īŽ Human agency
īŽ Choices that are contrained
118. Effective Prevention
īŽ Increases range of choices
īŽ Provides schemas of what can be
īŽ Promotes interpersonal
connections
īŽ Promotes direct expression of
emotion
īŽ Leads to clarity in relationships
īŽ Negotiated sense of who we are and
what we want from each other and for
ourselves
120. References
Brody, Leslie (1999). Gender, emotion, and the family. Cambridge:
Harvard University Press.
Fergusson, Muriel McQueen (2002). Worlds apartâĻcoming together:
Gender Segregated & integrated primary prevention implementation for
adolescents in Atlantic rural communities. In Berman, Helene & Yasmin
Jiwani (Eds.), In the best interest of the girl child. Phase II report.
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