1. How to Enjoy your
Life and your Job!
By: Dale Carnegie
2. This study will
help us to:
Add fulfillment in our lives
Adds our life a sense of harmony and
purpose
Best use of our inner resources
Eliminate / decrease our life’s frustrations,
boredom and fatigue
3. Who is Dale Carnegie?
Born in 1888 in Maryville, Missouri,
Poor farmer's boy, the second son of James
William Carnagey
In his teens, he needs to get up at 4 a.m. to milk
his parents' cows.
State Teacher's College in Warrensburg.
His first job after college was selling
correspondence courses to ranchers; then he
moved on to selling bacon, soap and lard for
Armour & Company.
4. Did you ever stop to thinks that most of
us spend the greater part of our lives
on the job, whatever that job may be.
5. How to Enjoy our Life and our Job!
Ways to peace and happiness
Some techniques in Handling people
Win people to your way of thinking
6. Ways to peace and happiness
Find your self and be your self
What makes you tired and what you can do
about it
Banish boredom
Count your blessings not your trouble
Remember that no one kicks a dead dog!
Never mind about unjust criticism
8. What makes you tired and
what you can do about it
The brain is
utterly tireless
Worry, tense and
emotional upsets
are three biggest
causes of fatigue
9. Banish boredom
“Where your interestare, there your energyalso”
So if you do not love your work:
Work as if you really enjoy it to
some extent
11. Remember that no one kicks a dead
dog!
Admiral Robert Peary – the 1st
human to reach the northern
most point of our globe
If you are criticize, it often
mean that you are
accomplishing something
and are worthy of attention
12. Never mind about
unjust criticism
Do what you feel in your heart to be
right –for you will be criticize
anyway- Teddy roosvelt
13. Some techniques in Handling people
If you want to gather honey , don’t kick over
the beehive
Give honest and sincere appreciation
Arouse in the person an eager want
Be genuinely interested in other people
Make the other person feel important and
do it sincerely
14. If you want to gather honey , don’t
kick over the beehive
Francis "Two Gun" Crowley – a well
known American murderer back in 1912
“This man will kill at the drop of
a feather” -police
Under my coat is a weary heart
,but a kind one –one that would
do nobody any harm -crowley
Don’t criticize or condemn!
15. Give honest and sincere appreciation
The deepest principle of human nature is
the craving to be appreciated – William James
16. Arouse in the person an eager want
Talk in terms of
what the other
person wants
17. Be genuinely interested in other
people
“You can make more friends in two months by becoming
interested in other people than you can in two years by trying
to get other people interested in you”
18. Make the other person feel important
and do it sincerely
Always make the
other person feel
important
Talk to people about
themselves and they will
listen for hours
19. Win people to your way of
thinking
Respect others opinion, never say you are
wrong
The high road to reason
Learn the secret of socrates
No one likes to take orders
20. Respect others opinion, never say
you are wrong
“If you tell a person straight out
that he or she is wrong .You only
succeed in stripping that person
of self-dignity and making
yourself unwelcome part of any
discussion”
Always use a little diplomacy
21. The high road to reason
If you come with me
with your fists doubled
, I think I can promise
you that mine will
double as fast as
yours- Woodrow Wilson
Gentleness and friendliness were always stronger than fury and
force….always begin in a friendly way
22. Learn the secret of Socrates
YES!
YES!
YES!
Ask questions on which the other
person would have to agree, kept
on winning one admission after
another until you had an armful of
yeses.- Socrates way
23. No one likes to take orders
Ask questions / make
suggestions instead of
giving orders
It saves a persons pride
and gives him or her a
feeling of importance.
24. You have now with you a hidden
assets within yourself that can make
your life glorious .All you need now is
the determination to uncover and use
them
God Bless
Bro. Joel Alisen
Editor's Notes
Hodgkin's lymphoma –he died
Tense muscles is a working muscle
Steve Wonder story
To catch fish use worm not bread,
People loves people who admire them!.....
Do unto others as you would have others do unto you…the golden rule
The high road to reason-begin in a friendly way Learn the secret of socrates – Get the other personsaying yes! Yes immediately How to criticize and not be hated How to criticize and not be hated- call peoplesmistake indirectly
If you ask a question or series of questions in which your respondent can readily agree, then ask a concluding question based on those agreements, you will receive a desirable response".[ citation needed