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Stages of Change
 “Change can be made by you or made to you.”
                               Gavin Webber




      LUCIA MERINO, LCSW
        NOVEMBER 2012
Stages of Change:
DiClemente and Prochaska Model


          Pre-contemplation:
          Not aware. Can’t see the problem.
          Contemplation:
          Problem acknowledgment.
          Thinking about changing.
          No specific plans in place.
          Preparation:
          Focus on solution (vs. problem) and future
          (vs. past). Small behavioral changes.
          Action:
          Observable behavioral changes
          Maintenance:
          Old behavior is still a temptation (possible
          relapse).
Pre-contemplation

Characteristics:
 The person is not even considering changing. They
  may be "in denial" about their problem, or not
  consider it serious. They may have tried
  unsuccessfully to change so many times that they
  have given up.
Strategies:
 Education on risks versus benefits and positive
  outcomes related to change
Contemplation

Characteristics:
 The person is ambivalent about changing. During
  this stage, the person weighs benefits versus costs or
  barriers (e.g., time, expense, bother, fear, loneliness).

Strategies:
 Identify barriers and misconceptions
 Address concerns
 Identify support systems
Preparation

Characteristics:
 The person is prepared to experiment with small
  changes.

Strategies:
 Develop realistic goals and timeline for change
 Provide positive reinforcement
Action

  Characteristics:
 The person takes definitive action to change
  behavior.

Strategies:
 Provide positive reinforcement
Maintenance & Relapse Prevention

Characteristics:
 The person strives to maintain the new behavior over
  the long term.

Strategies:
 Provide encouragement and support
Seven Stages of Change
  Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Model
Shock

 This reaction is usually
  immediate and it can be
  within a few hours of
  getting the news of the
  need for a change. Even
  if you have planned this
  change, the fact that it is
  actually upon you will
  give you a strange feeling
  of disorientation. This
  stage will last longer if it
  is unexpected.
Disbelief/Denial
 You have usually managed
 to get back to everyday life
 at this
 point. Intellectually, you
 know that the change has
 happened and what may
 happen, however
 emotionally, you may block
 out the new reality from
 daily life. You will
 probably be processing this
 new reality in your sub-
 conscious mind. Cognitive
 Dissonance usually occurs
 at this stage, and you are
 more likely to get stuck in
 this phase if you are change
 resistant.
Self Doubt
 This is a very                  You may doubt as to
  uncomfortable stage. Old        whether you have made the
  habits and beliefs are no       right decision or whether
  longer relevant, as are         you are up for the job. You
  some of the things that         also may want to seek
  used to be important to         isolation to mull it over
  you. Your sense of identity     further, and at the same
  will be shattered. You feel     time feel unmotivated.
  a sense of nothingness until
  you develop a new way of
  'being'. Your confidence
  will be low, and you may be
  fearful of the
  future, become
  angry, depressed, and have
  an overwhelming sense of
  guilt.
Acceptance
 You have come to the decision
  to accept the change and face
  the future. By letting go of
  the past reality, the pain goes
  away and finding your new
  way of being becomes exciting
  and a challenge rather than a
  loss. Your energy levels will
  be going up, as this stage
  usually begins just after rock
  bottom on the emotional
  scale. You still might not
  know what you are going to
  do, but at least you know that
  your reality has changed.
Experimentation
 You try something new from
  the new paradigm, but don't
  be surprised if you can't stick
  to the plan. You could be all
  over the place, trying little
  changes to fit with your new
  reality. You will still be
  working it out in your
  mind, however your energy
  levels continue to rise. Try
  little things before attempting
  any major change at this
  stage, because you may slip
  back to self-doubt if a large
  experiment goes pear shaped.
Search for Meaning
 When you have embarked
 on your journey towards
 your new reality, you may
 start to appraise where you
 were before the change
 occurred, what has
 happened since, and
 why. You will begin to fit
 your experience into your
 "life story" and re-examine
 your view of yourself and
 the world around you. You
 will start to make sense of
 it all.
Integration



 At the end of the change
 process, and all being
 well, you will be
 comfortable, confident, a
 nd a feeling that you
 belong or are seeking
 belonging in your new
 way of life.
And remember that:
“Change can be made by you or made to you.”
Where are you in your process of change?
Sources

 http://www.thepursuitofsassiness.com/2012/02/06
  /stages-of-change/
 http://www.greeningofgavin.com/2012/07/the-
  seven-stages-of-change.html
 http://www.adultmeducation.com/FacilitatingBehav
  iorChange.html

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Stages of Change

  • 1. Stages of Change “Change can be made by you or made to you.” Gavin Webber LUCIA MERINO, LCSW NOVEMBER 2012
  • 2. Stages of Change: DiClemente and Prochaska Model Pre-contemplation: Not aware. Can’t see the problem. Contemplation: Problem acknowledgment. Thinking about changing. No specific plans in place. Preparation: Focus on solution (vs. problem) and future (vs. past). Small behavioral changes. Action: Observable behavioral changes Maintenance: Old behavior is still a temptation (possible relapse).
  • 3. Pre-contemplation Characteristics:  The person is not even considering changing. They may be "in denial" about their problem, or not consider it serious. They may have tried unsuccessfully to change so many times that they have given up. Strategies:  Education on risks versus benefits and positive outcomes related to change
  • 4. Contemplation Characteristics:  The person is ambivalent about changing. During this stage, the person weighs benefits versus costs or barriers (e.g., time, expense, bother, fear, loneliness). Strategies:  Identify barriers and misconceptions  Address concerns  Identify support systems
  • 5. Preparation Characteristics:  The person is prepared to experiment with small changes. Strategies:  Develop realistic goals and timeline for change  Provide positive reinforcement
  • 6. Action Characteristics:  The person takes definitive action to change behavior. Strategies:  Provide positive reinforcement
  • 7. Maintenance & Relapse Prevention Characteristics:  The person strives to maintain the new behavior over the long term. Strategies:  Provide encouragement and support
  • 8. Seven Stages of Change Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Model
  • 9. Shock  This reaction is usually immediate and it can be within a few hours of getting the news of the need for a change. Even if you have planned this change, the fact that it is actually upon you will give you a strange feeling of disorientation. This stage will last longer if it is unexpected.
  • 10. Disbelief/Denial  You have usually managed to get back to everyday life at this point. Intellectually, you know that the change has happened and what may happen, however emotionally, you may block out the new reality from daily life. You will probably be processing this new reality in your sub- conscious mind. Cognitive Dissonance usually occurs at this stage, and you are more likely to get stuck in this phase if you are change resistant.
  • 11. Self Doubt  This is a very  You may doubt as to uncomfortable stage. Old whether you have made the habits and beliefs are no right decision or whether longer relevant, as are you are up for the job. You some of the things that also may want to seek used to be important to isolation to mull it over you. Your sense of identity further, and at the same will be shattered. You feel time feel unmotivated. a sense of nothingness until you develop a new way of 'being'. Your confidence will be low, and you may be fearful of the future, become angry, depressed, and have an overwhelming sense of guilt.
  • 12. Acceptance  You have come to the decision to accept the change and face the future. By letting go of the past reality, the pain goes away and finding your new way of being becomes exciting and a challenge rather than a loss. Your energy levels will be going up, as this stage usually begins just after rock bottom on the emotional scale. You still might not know what you are going to do, but at least you know that your reality has changed.
  • 13. Experimentation  You try something new from the new paradigm, but don't be surprised if you can't stick to the plan. You could be all over the place, trying little changes to fit with your new reality. You will still be working it out in your mind, however your energy levels continue to rise. Try little things before attempting any major change at this stage, because you may slip back to self-doubt if a large experiment goes pear shaped.
  • 14. Search for Meaning  When you have embarked on your journey towards your new reality, you may start to appraise where you were before the change occurred, what has happened since, and why. You will begin to fit your experience into your "life story" and re-examine your view of yourself and the world around you. You will start to make sense of it all.
  • 15. Integration  At the end of the change process, and all being well, you will be comfortable, confident, a nd a feeling that you belong or are seeking belonging in your new way of life.
  • 16. And remember that: “Change can be made by you or made to you.”
  • 17. Where are you in your process of change?
  • 18. Sources  http://www.thepursuitofsassiness.com/2012/02/06 /stages-of-change/  http://www.greeningofgavin.com/2012/07/the- seven-stages-of-change.html  http://www.adultmeducation.com/FacilitatingBehav iorChange.html