The document discusses how many people erroneously believe that success leads to happiness and a feeling of self-worth, when in reality success is defined differently by each person and true happiness comes from within, not from achievements alone. It notes that some who appear intelligent pursue success in a scattered, impulsive way without a clear vision or understanding of its true meaning. Many see material success as their sole goal and do not consider other important aspects of life.

1. ‫ﺳﻳﺟﻌﻠﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﻳﻅﻧﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻷﻧﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﻭﻕ‬
‫ﻭﺻﻑ‬ ‫ﻓﻘﺩ‬ .‫ﺑﺎﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺷﻌﺭﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻔﺳﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺭﺿﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺭﻏﺑﺔ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺣﺩﻳﺙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺱ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻡ‬ ‫ﺃﺑﻭ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﻭ‬ ،“‫ﺟﻳﻣﺱ‬ ‫”ﻭﻳﻠﻳﺎﻡ‬
‫”ﻭﺑﺎء‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻧﺳﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﺩﻯ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻠﺣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻧﺎﻧﻳﺔ‬
‫ﻳﺩﻋﻭﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺩﻳﺙ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﻥ‬ .“‫ﺍﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﻲ‬
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ .‫ﻣﻌﻧﺎﻩ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻔﻛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺣﻠﻲ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺇﺣﺳﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺅﻛﺩﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻳﺟﺎﺑﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺱ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻣﺎء‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬
‫ﻭﻫﺫﻩ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﻘﻭﺩﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻳﺟﺎﺑﻲ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﻳﺭﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﺎﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ،‫ﻟﻁﻳﻔﺔ‬ ‫ﻏﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻁﺭﻳﻔﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﺎﺭﻗﺔ‬
‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻌﺎﻛﺱ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺗﺟﺎﻩ‬
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‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﺳﺑﻕ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬
‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺗﺟﺎﻩ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﻳﺭﻭﻥ‬
‫ﻳﻣﻠﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻷﻧﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻫﺩﻯ؛‬ ‫ﻏﻳﺭ‬
‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﺣﻘﻳﻘﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬
‫ﻛﺛﺭﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﻛﻠﻣﺎ‬ .‫ﻛﻧﻬﻪ‬ ‫ﻳﺩﺭﻛﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺗﺳﺎﺅﻻﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺯﺍﺩﺕ‬ ،‫ﺇﻧﺟﺎﺯﺍﺗﻬﻡ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﺣﻭﻝ‬
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‫ﻭﺍﻟﻌﺷﺭﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺎﺑﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟـﻌـﺩﺩ‬
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‫ﻳﻠﻬﺛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻧﻬﻡ‬ ،‫ﺃﺫﻛﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﻳﺑﺩﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﺛﻳﺭﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﺷﺧﺎﺹ‬ ‫ﻫﻧﺎﻙ‬
.‫ﺿﻳﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺑﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺗﻬﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﻁﺎﺋﺵ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﺳﻠﻭﺏ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺍء‬
‫ﻳﻔﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺷﻐﻭﻟﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﺗﺗﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻫﺅﻻء‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬
‫ﻭﻳﺟﺭﺑﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺧﺎﺭﻗﺔ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺟﻬﻭ‬ ‫ﻳﺑﺫﻟﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﺅﻻء‬ .‫ﻳﻔﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﻓﻳﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺃﺫﻛﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺳﻭﺍ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻧﻬﻡ‬ ،‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻣﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺣﻘﻘﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﻐﺎﻣﺭﻭﻥ‬
‫ّﻡ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻳﻘ‬ ‫ﻋﺎﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﻌﻳﺵ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺑﺏ‬ .‫ﻳﻅﻧﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺇﻧﺟﺎﺯﺍﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻗﻊ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻧﺳﺎﻥ‬
‫ﻓﺎﻟﻛﺛﻳﺭﻭﻥ‬ .‫ﻓﻘﻁ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺎﺩﻳﺔ‬
‫ﻫﺩﻓﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﺗﺑﺭﻭﻥ‬
‫ﻳﺭﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻼ‬ ،‫ﻭﺍﻷﻭﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻛﺑﺭ‬
،‫ﻏﻳﺭﻩ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺷﻳﺋ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
ً‫ء‬‫ﺑﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﻘﻳﻣﻭﻥ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻅﺎﻫﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬
‫ﺃﻧﻔﺳﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﻧﺗﻘﺩﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬ ،‫ﻋﺩﻣﻪ‬
‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﻘﻘﻭﺍ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﺑﻘﺳﻭﺓ‬
‫ﻓﺈﻟﻰ‬ .‫ﺇﻟﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﻳﻁﻣﺣﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬
‫ﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﺟﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻳﺔ‬
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‫ﺷﻲء‬ ‫ﻷﻱ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﻣﺢ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﻼﻗﺎﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﻣﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﻟﺣﻳﺎﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺭﺅﻳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺣﺩﺩ‬ ❂
‫ﺍﻟﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻫﺩﺍﻓﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺭﻳﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻫﻭﻳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺟﻳ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻋﺭﻑ‬ ❂
‫ﻭﻣﻬﺎﺭﺍﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻗﺩﺭﺍﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻘﻳﻭﺩ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﺯﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻔﻛﻳﺭﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻘﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺣﺭﺭ‬ ❂
‫ﻣﺟﻬﻭﺩ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻗﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺫﺏ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﻛﺎﻟﻣﻐﻧﺎﻁﻳﺱ‬ ‫ﻭﻛﻥ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻹﺑﺩﺍﻉ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻟﻬﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﺗﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﺑﺎﺏ‬ ‫ﺍﻛﺗﺷﻑ‬ ❂
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‫ﻭﻛﻝ‬ ،‫ﻣﺳﺗﻣﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺭﺣﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﻭﺍﺣ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺳﺑﺎﻗ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬
‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺍﻛﺗﺷﺎﻓﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ .‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺷﻳﺋ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﺳﺑﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺧﻁﻭﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﺧﻁﻭﺓ‬
‫ﻭﻓﻬﻣﻪ‬ ‫ﻁﻠﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻌﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺑﺩﺍﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﺫﺍ‬ .‫ﺇﻧﺟﺎﺯﺍﺕ‬
‫ﻟﺩﺕ‬ُ‫ﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻬﺩﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﻭﺗﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺯﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺅﻳﺗﻪ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﻔﺗﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﻌﻁﻳﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﺣﻳﺣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﺫﻩ‬ .‫ﺃﺟﻠﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺻﺣﻳﺢ‬
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‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ ،‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺇﻳﻘﺎﻉ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺎﺭﻉ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻠﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻗﺗﺻﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﻳﺯﺩﻫﺭ‬
‫ﺍﻷﺳﻭﺍﻕ‬ ‫ﻓﻔﻲ‬ .‫ﺑﺎﻟﺭﻛﺏ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺣﺎﻕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺗﻣﻳﺗﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺣﺎﻭﻟﺗﻧﺎ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺷﺎﻱ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﻳﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺟﺩﻳ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺻﻧﻔ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﺟﺩ‬ ،ً‫ﻣﺛﻼ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺟﺎﺭﻳﺔ‬
‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺣﺗﻭﻱ‬ ‫ﻗﻭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﻧﻛﻬﺔ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﻣﻳﺯ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺑﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻣﻌﺭﻭﺿ‬
‫ﻟﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﺻﻣﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻧﺗﺞ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺩﺳﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﺯﻭﻉ‬ ‫ﺑﻭﺩﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺣﻠﻳﺏ‬
‫ﺗﻌﺗﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﻓﻬﻝ‬ !‫ﻓﻘﻁ‬ ‫ﻭﺯﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺣﺎﻓﻅ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﻭﻓﺭ‬
‫ﻟﻠﺭﻳﺎﺿﺔ؟‬ ‫ﺑﺩﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﻝ‬ ‫ﺎ؟‬ ً‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣ‬ ‫ﻣﺎﺋﺩﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻭﻓﺭﻩ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻁﺑﻳﻌﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻘﻬﻭﺓ‬ ‫ﺃﺻﺑﺣﺕ‬ ‫ﻟﻘﺩ‬ ‫ﻏﺑﺎء؟‬ ‫ﺃﻡ‬ ‫ﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻫﻝ‬
‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻘﻬﻭﺓ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺿﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺭﻋﺔ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻥ‬ ،“‫”ﻧﺳﻛﺎﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﻣﻰ‬
.‫ﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺗﺻﺑﺢ‬
‫ﻛﺎﻥ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﺳﺭﻳﻊ‬ ‫”ﺍﻟﻣﺟﺗﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺗﺎﺭﻳﺦ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﻏﻡ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬
‫ﺍﻷﻭﺍﻥ‬ ‫ﺁﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻘﺩ‬ ،‫ﺍﻹﻳﺟﺎﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺟﻭﺍﻧﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻪ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﻗﺻﻳﺭ‬
‫ﻛﻠﻣﺔ‬ .“‫ﺍﻟﻣﻬﻭﻭﺱ‬ ‫”ﺍﻟﻣﺟﺗﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺭﻋﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺟﺗﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻟﻧﺳﻣﻲ‬
‫ﻟﻳﺷﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺳﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻁﺏ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﺧﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﺻﻁﻠﺢ‬ “‫”ﺍﻟﻬﻭﺱ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﺟﻧﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫”ﺍﻟﻌﺑﻁ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﻭﻉ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻏﻳﺎﺏ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
‫ﻳﺗﺳﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﺯﺍﺟﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﺿﻁﺭﺍﺏ‬ ‫”ﻫﻭ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻌﻠﻣﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺻﻁﻠﺢ‬ ‫ﻭﺑﻠﻐﺔ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻻﺳﺗﺣﻭﺍﺫ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﻬﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺭﻛﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﻁ‬ ‫ﺗﺷﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻋﺭﺍﺽ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﻬﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﻣﺟﺗﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ .“‫ﻭﺍﻟﻛﻼﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻔﻛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺳﺭﻋﺔ‬
‫ﺑﺎﻟﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺳﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺭﻋﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻧﺗﺧﻁﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﺳﺭﻋﺔ‬ ‫ﻧﺗﺣﺭﻙ‬
‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻧ‬‫ﺃﺣﻳﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﺻﻠﺢ‬ ‫ﻗﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺭﻋﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺻﺣﻳﺢ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺳﻠﻳﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﻔﻛﻳﺭ‬
‫ﻓﻘﺩ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻭﺣﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻌﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺳﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻛﻧﻬﺎ‬ ،‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻣﻘﻳﺎﺳ‬
‫ﻧﺣﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺳﺎﺑﻕ‬ ‫ﺑﺳﺑﺏ‬ ‫ﻛﺛﻳﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻋﺎﻟﻣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺷﺭﻛﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﻬﺎﺭﺕ‬
‫ﻭﻁﺭﺡ‬ ‫ﺟﺎﻫﺯﺓ‬ ‫ﻏﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﻭﺍﻕ‬ ‫ﺍﻗﺗﺣﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺳﺑﻕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﻳﺎﺩﺓ‬
‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﻫﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻋﻼﻭﺓ‬ .‫ﻧﺎﺿﺟﺔ‬ ‫ﻏﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﺗﺟﺎﺕ‬
‫ﻛﻠﻔﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺟﻧﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻁﻣﻭﺣﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻋﻣﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺭﺟﺎﻝ‬
.‫ﻭﺣﻳﺎﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﺳﻌﺎﺩﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺻﺣﺗﻬﻡ‬
‫ﻋﻼﻗﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﺻﺎﺏ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻠﺑﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺄﺛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻫﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﻬﻣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﻌﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺇﻳﻘﺎﻉ‬ .‫ﻣﺫﻫﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﺟﺗﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﻳﺔ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﻘﺷﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﺇﻻ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻼﻗﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﻠﻣﺱ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺟﻌﻠﻧﺎ‬
‫ﻧﻘﻧﻊ‬ ‫ﺻﺭﻧﺎ‬ .‫ﻭﻋﻣﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﺇﻧﺳﺎﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﺣﻘﻳﻘﻲ‬ ‫ﺗﻭﺍﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﺩﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺭﺋﻳﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻧﺎﻭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﺗﺑﺎﺩﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺧﺗﺯﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻌﻼﻗﺎﺕ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﺗﻔﺎﺻﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﻐﻭﺹ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻛﻧﻧﺎ‬ ،‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻷﺧﺑﺎﺭ‬
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﻣﺎ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺣﻣﻳﻡ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺗﻭﺍﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﺕ‬‫ﻧﻔﻭﱢ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬
‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻧﺳﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻔﺭﻭﺿﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺿﻐﻭﻁ‬
‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻭﻭﺟﺩﺍﻧ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺍﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻔﺳﻧﺎ‬ ‫ّﺏ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻓﻧﻐ‬ ،‫ﺗﺗﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻁﻭﻝ‬
‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﺑ‬‫ﻣﻁﻠﻭ‬ ‫ﻛﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻓﺄﻳﻥ‬ .‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻭﻧﻔﺳ‬
!‫ﺍﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ؟‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﻘﻭﺩﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
¢SÉØfC’G •É≤àdG
‫ﺷﺧﺻﻳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻧﻔﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﻘﺎﻁ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻋﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻏﺭﺱ‬
‫ﻓﻠﻥ‬ ،‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺃﺑ‬ ‫ﻧﺗﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺩﻟﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻷﻧﻬﺎ‬
‫ﻭﻟﻥ‬ ً‫ء‬‫ﻫﺑﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﺭ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺿﻳﻊ‬ .‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺃﺑ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺟﻭﻫﺭ‬ ‫ﻧﻠﻣﺱ‬
‫ﻧﻌﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﻭﻧﺣﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﻧﺢ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﻣﻕ‬ ‫ﺑﺛﺭﺍء‬ ‫ﻧﺷﻌﺭ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻻﻟﺗﻔﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻭﻗﻑ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻁﺭﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺭﻋﻳﻥ‬
‫ﺫﺍﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻭﺍﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﻌﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﺩﻭﺩﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻟﺩﻗﺎﺋﻕ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻭ‬
.‫ﻭﻏﺎﻳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﻘﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺅﻳﺗﻙ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﺑﺎﺩﺓ‬ :‫ﻣﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻛﺛﻳﺭﺓ‬ ً‫ﺃﺷﻛﺎﻻ‬ ‫ﻳﺄﺧﺫ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻧﻔﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻘﺎﻁ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﻭﺳﻳﻘﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺭﻳﺎﺿﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﺄﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻘﺭﺍءﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﺩﺭﻳﺏ‬
‫ﻳﻌﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻭﻗﻑ‬ .‫ﺍﻷﺻﺩﻗﺎء‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﺿﺎء‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺳﺎﻋﺩﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻻﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺳﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻁﺎﻗﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻥ‬ ْ‫ﺷﺣ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﻭﺍﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺳﺎﻟﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﻏﺎﻳﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻫﺩﺍﻓﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﺫﻛﺭ‬
‫ﻭﻳﺟﻌﻠﻧﺎ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺧﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﻛﻣﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺫﻭﺍﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﻣﻕ‬
‫ﻳﻭﻓﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻭﻗﻑ‬ .‫ﺍﻻﺑﺗﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻗﺩﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﻔﺗﺣﻳﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺟﺭﺍﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺣﻣﻳﻧﺎ‬ ،‫ﺍﻷﺧﻁﺎء‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺟﻧﺑﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﺗﻧﺎ‬
.‫ﻭﺍﻷﺗﺭﺍﺡ‬
∫ƒ¨°ûe π«L
‫ﻋﻘﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ً‫ﺩﻟﻳﻼ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺋﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻧﺷﻐﺎﻝ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻁﺭﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ً‫ﺩﻟﻳﻼ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺳﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺯﺩﺣﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺟﺩﺍﻭﻝ‬ .‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﻋﻣﻭ‬
‫ﺃﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻌﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺗﺿﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ،‫ﻋﻅﻳﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﻧﺟﺎﺯ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬
.‫ﻣﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﻗﺭﻳﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﺟﺔ‬
‫ﻧﺻﻔﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻐﻭﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺟﻳﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﻗﺩ‬
‫ﺑﻣﻌﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﺎﺭﺟﻲ“؛‬ ‫”ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﺑﺻﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﺑـ”ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬
‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺱ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻧﻪ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻳﺷﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﺭﺋﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﻅﻬﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬
‫ﻣﺷﻐﻭﻟﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﺑﻘﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﺛﻳﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺇﻧﺟﺎﺯﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻧﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﻗﺩ‬ .‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻓﻌﻠ‬
‫ﺑﺳﺩﺍﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻐﻭﻟﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﺑﻘﻰ‬ .‫ﺑﺛﻣﺎﺭﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﺗﻣﺗﻊ‬ ‫ﻓﻼ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﻬﺎ‬
‫ﺑﻳﻭﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻟﻧﻌﻳﺵ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻭﻗﺗ‬ ‫ﻧﺟﺩ‬ ‫ﻓﻼ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻘﺎﺭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻗﺭﻭﺿﻧﺎ‬
‫ﻭﻳﻐﺎﺩﺭ‬ ،‫ﻭﻳﺗﺭﻛﻭﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻁﻔﺎﻟﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﻛﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﺛﻡ‬ .‫ﺃﺣﺑﺎﺋﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺑﻳﻥ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﺹ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﺑﺣﺙ‬ ‫ﻭﻧﺣﻥ‬ ،‫ﻭﻳﻧﺳﻭﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﺻﺩﻗﺎﺅﻧﺎ‬
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‫ﻣﺷﺎﻏﻠﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺍء‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﻧﻅﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﺎﺗﻳﺢ‬ ‫ﺃﺣﺩ‬
‫ﻟﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺗﻳﺢ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺗﻭﺍﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﺑﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻧﺑﺣﺙ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺯﺣﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺳﻁ‬ ‫ﻟﻧﻛﺗﺷﻔﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻓﺭﺻ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬
‫ﻭﺻﺩﺍﻗﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺟﺩﻳﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻁﻣﻭﺣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻟﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺧﻠﻕ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺷﺎﻏﻠﻬﺎ؛‬
‫ﻭﺍﻷﻋﻣﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻧﺷﻁﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﺩﺍء‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﻭﻓﻌﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺳﻌﻳﺩﺓ‬
‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺗﻭﻯ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﺗﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻣﺧﺗﻠﻔﺔ‬
‫ﺗﺭﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻛﻧﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻁﺭﺣﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﺋﻠﺔ‬
‫ﺭﺣﺎﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻧﺗﻘﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍﻻﻧﺷﻐﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﻭﺍﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺧﻁﻰ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
:‫ﺟﻭﺍﻧﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺑﺟﻣﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬
‫ﻣﺷﺎﻏﻠﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻛﺛﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺑﺳﺑﺏ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﺩﺍﺋ‬ ‫ﺃﺧﺳﺭﻩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ❂
‫ﻋﻧﺩﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﻔﻭﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺗﺧﺳﺭﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺷﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﺃﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﺫﻛﺭ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﺛﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﻁﻭﺍﻝ‬ ً‫ﻣﺷﻐﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺿﻭﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺗﻘﺿﻳﻪ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺫﺍﺗﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻧﻣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺧﻠﻳﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺭﺿﺎ‬
،‫ﺍﻻﺳﺗﺭﺧﺎء‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺻﻼﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﺍﻋﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻻﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﻳﺔ‬
.‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﺭﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺳﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬
‫ﺍﻧﺷﻐﺎﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻫﻝ‬ ‫؟‬ً‫ﻣﺷﻐﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﻟﻭ‬ ‫ﺳﺄﻓﻌﻠﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ❂
‫ﻣﻌﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﺩﻑ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻘﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺟﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺭﻏﺑﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺳﺑﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺋﻡ‬
‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻬﺩﻑ؟‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻘﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺧﻭﻓﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻡ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻌﺎﻳﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻌﻠﻳﻙ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﺭﺩﺕ‬
‫ﻭﺑﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺯﺍﺋﻑ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻧﺷﻐﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻣﻳﻳﺯ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺎﻋﺩﻙ‬
.‫ﻫﺩﻑ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻘﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺟﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻌﻲ‬
‫ﻗﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺋﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻧﺷﻐﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻧﺷﻐﺎﻟﻲ؟‬ ‫ﺃﺗﺟﻧﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ❂
‫ﻣﻭﺍﺟﻬﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﻬﺭﻭﺏ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻌ‬ِ‫ﻧ‬‫ُﻘ‬‫ﻣ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻧﻔﺳ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﻣﺑﺭﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ .‫ﻣﺳﺗﻘﺑﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺩﻳﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺣﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻼﺕ‬
‫ﻳﺟﻧﺑﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺳﻠﻭﻛﻲ‬ “‫ﻥ‬ّ‫ﻛ‬ َ‫ُﺳ‬‫ﻣ‬”‫ﻛـ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻧﺷﻐﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺣﺎﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﻐﻠﻭﻥ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﻐﺿﺏ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺣﺯﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﺎﻋﺭ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻧﻐﻣﺎﺱ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺳﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻷﻟﻡ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﻐﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﺷﻐﺎﻟﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻣﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﻣﻳﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ❂
‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺧﻠﻲ‬ ‫ﺿﺩ‬ ‫ﺩﻓﺎﻋﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻭﺳﻳﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺋﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻧﺷﻐﺎﻝ‬
‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺑﺎﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺛﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻣﺟﺎﺯﻓﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺳﻳﻁﺭﺓ‬
‫ﻷﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻧ‬‫ﺃﺣﻳﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﻧﺷﻐﻝ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻠﻘﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺧﺫ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﻠﻡ‬
.‫ﺍﺳﺗﻘﻼﻟﻳﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺧﻠﻲ‬ ‫ﻓﻛﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﺧﺎﻑ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺎ؟‬ ً‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ً‫ﺍﻧﺷﻐﺎﻻ‬ ‫ﺃﻗﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﻳﻑ‬ ❂
‫ﻧﺎﻓﺫﺓ‬ ‫ﺑﻣﺛﺎﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﺷﻐﺎﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺗﻐﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻣﻛﻥ‬
‫ﺍﺟﻌﻠﻪ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻹﺑﺩﺍﻉ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻻﺑﺗﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺧﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬
‫ﺻﻭﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻻﺳﺗﻣﺎﻉ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻏﻭﺍﺭ‬ ‫ﻟﺳﺑﺭ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺗﺣﺩ‬
‫ﺑﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﻳﺎﺩﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺑﺩﺍﺧﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬
.‫ﻭﻣﺅﺛﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺿﺣﺔ‬
‫ﻛﻠﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﺷﻐﺎﻟﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺧﻠﺻﺕ‬ ‫ﻟﻭ‬ ‫ﺳﺄﺳﺗﻔﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﺎﺫﺍ‬ ❂
،‫ﺍﻟﺳﺅﺍﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻺﺟﺎﺑﺔ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻛﺎﻓ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻭﻗﺗ‬ ‫ﻛﺭﺳﺕ‬
‫ﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻣﺗﺎﺯﺓ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﺟﺎﺑﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻭﺻﻠﺕ‬
.‫ﻟﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺣﺻﺭ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻓﻭﺍﺋﺩ‬
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‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺗﻭﻱ‬ ‫ﻷﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻧ‬‫ﻗﺎﻧﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﻠﺯﻡ‬ ‫ﻋﻘﺩ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬
‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ .‫ﺑﺗﻁﺑﻳﻘﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻠﺗﺯﻡ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﻭﺍﻓﻕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ “‫”ﺍﻟﻘﻭﺍﻧﻳﻥ‬
‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻧﺹ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻙ‬ ‫ﺷﺭﻭﻁ‬ ‫ﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻘﻭﺍﻧﻳﻥ‬
‫ﺗﺅﻫﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻣﻛﺎﻧﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺗﺩﺭﻙ‬ ‫ﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﺗﻔﻌﻠﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬
‫ﺷﺭﻭﻁﻲ‬ ‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺳﺅﺍﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﺟﺏ‬ ،ً‫ﺑﺩﺍﻳﺔ‬ .‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬
‫ﻋﻘﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﺷﺭﻑ‬ .‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻣﻠ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﺟﺎﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺭ‬ّ‫ﻓﻛ‬ “‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ؟‬
‫ﺗﺅﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺑﺎﺩﺉ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﻭﺍﻋﺩ‬ ‫ﻗﻭﺍﻧﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺑﺣﺙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺑﺎﻁﻥ‬
:‫ﺑﻧﺟﺎﺣﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺗﻣﺗﻊ‬ ‫ﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻟﺗﺯﺍﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﻭﺟﻭﺏ‬
‫ﺑﺄﺷﺧﺎﺹ‬ ‫ﻣﻠﻲء‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻡ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺟﺩﺍﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﻧﻭﻥ‬ -1
‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ؛‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻧﺎﺳﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺭﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺑﺣﺛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﻫﻭﺑﻳﻥ‬
‫ﻟﻛﻧﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻐﻣﻭﺭﺓ؛‬ ‫ﻋﺑﻘﺭﻳﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﺫﻛﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﺃﺷﺧﺎﺹ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ،‫ﻭﻟﻛﻥ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺳﺗﺣﻘﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻁﻳﺑﻳﻥ‬
‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﺑ‬‫ﻣﻭﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺫﻛ‬ ‫ﻛﻧﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻬﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ؟‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺩﺩ‬
‫ﺑﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺛﻘﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺑﺟﺩﺍﺭﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺇﺣﺳﺎﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﻥ‬ ،‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﻣﻠﺗﺯ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ – ‫ﺍﻷﻭﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺑﻣﺎ‬ – ‫ﺍﻷﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬
‫ﻗﺩﺭ‬ ‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺄﻝ‬ .‫ﻳﻬﺩﻣﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺑﻧﻲ‬
‫ﻛﺗﺑﺗﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﺭﻭﻁ‬ ‫ﺭﺍﺟﻊ‬ “‫ﺃﺳﺗﺣﻘﻪ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬
‫ﻟـ”ﺍﻟﻘﺎﻧﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻭﻓﻘ‬ ‫ﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻠﺯﻡ‬ ‫ﻷﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻳﺛﺎﻕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ .‫ﺑﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺿﻌﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﺷﺧﺻﻲ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﺅﻫﻼﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻬﺎﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻁﻭﻳﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﺋﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻳﺿﻌﻭﻥ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﺻﻣﺎﺩﻱ‬ ‫”ﻧﺳﻳﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﻛﺗﺏ‬ .“‫”ﻧﺭﻯ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻌﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﺑﺳﻳﻁﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺣﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻛﻠﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﻛﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺳﺭ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻔﺭﻧﺳﻳﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻼﺳﻔﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﻝ‬
‫ﻗﻭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺷﻛﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺿﺭﻭﺭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻋﻭﺍﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻣﻥ‬ .“‫ﻷﺭﺍﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻳﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻏﻣﺽ‬ ،‫ﺃﺗﻭﻩ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﻳﻥ‬ ،‫ﺃﻧﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﻥ‬ ‫”ﻭﻛﻧﺕ‬ :‫ﻗﺻﺎﺋﺩﻩ‬ ‫ﺇﺣﺩﻯ‬
.‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺃﻳﺿ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﻠﻭﺑﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺑﻌﻘﻭﻟﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬ ،‫ﺑﻌﻳﻭﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﻘﻁ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺱ‬ ،“‫”ﻧﺭﻯ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺧﻼﻟﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﺗﻌﻠﻡ‬
.‫ﺗﺑﺗﻐﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺛﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺻﻑ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﻳﺎﺗﻙ؟‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺭﻯ‬ ‫ﻓﻛﻳﻑ‬ ❂
!‫ﺗﻛﻭﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺭﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺎﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻧﺳﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺻﻑ‬ ‫ﻋﻼﻗﺎﺗﻙ؟‬ ‫ﺗﺭﻯ‬ ‫ﻭﻛﻳﻑ‬ ❂
.‫ﺗﻘﺩﻣﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺭﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻹﺑﺩﺍﻋﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﺳﻬﺎﻣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺻﻑ‬ ‫ﻭﺇﻧﺟﺎﺯﺍﺗﻙ؟‬ ‫ﻋﻣﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺭﻯ‬ ‫ﻛﻳﻑ‬ ❂
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4. ‫ﻟﻳﺱ‬ ،‫ﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻧﺳﺑﺔ‬ .‫ﺗﺟﺎﺭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺻﻔﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻋﺗﺑﺎﺭﻩ‬ ‫ﺷﻲء‬
‫ﻭﻻ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﺭﻭﻁﺔ‬ ‫”ﻏﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻠﺣﻅﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﺭﻑ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻫﻧﺎﻙ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺻﻌﻭﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﻭﺍﺟﻪ‬ .‫ﻫﺩﺍﻳﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﺢ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﻛﺎﻓﺂﺕ‬
‫ﺑﺄﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺅﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺩﻣﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺣﺏ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺗﻘﺑﻝ‬
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻫﻅﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﺎﺗﻭﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺟﻣﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻻﻋﺗﻘﺎﺩﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﺧﺎﻑ‬ .ً‫ﻗﺑﻼ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺩﺩﻫﺎ‬
.‫ﻁﺎﻗﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﻭﻕ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺛﻣﻥ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺿﺣﻳﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻋﺷﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻳﻭﻡ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻧﻘﺩﻡ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺗﺿﺣﻳﺔ‬ -5
‫”ﺍﻟﻣﺟﺗﻣﻌﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺳﻣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺣﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﺟﻝ‬
‫ﻭﺭﺍء‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﺩﺍﺋ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﻠﻬﺙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﻣﻬﻭﻭﺳﺔ‬
‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻧﺩﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﻭﺩﻧﺎ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻟﺻﻔﻘﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺎﻝ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺻﺣﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﻳﻣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﺎﺋﻼﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻼﻗﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬
‫”ﺍﻟﺗﺿﺣﻳﺔ‬ :‫ﻷﻧﻔﺳﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﻘﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﻧﻧﻔﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﺟﻝ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﺿﺣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻳﺷﺗﺭﻁ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ .“‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺷﺭﻁ‬
‫ﻓﺈﺫﺍ‬ .‫ﻣﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺑﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺣﺗﻔﺎﻅ‬ ‫ﺃﺟﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﻐﻳﺭ‬
‫ﺍﻷﺷﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺿﺣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﻬﻭﻣﻙ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﺩﻙ‬
.‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺣﻘﻳﻘ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺱ‬ ‫ﻓﻬﺫﺍ‬ ،‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻫﻣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﺔ‬
‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﺍﺛﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﺗﻧﻁﻭﻱ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻣﺛﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ -6
‫ﺳﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﻧﺹ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ “‫”ﺍﻟﻣﺛﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﻧﺩ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺭﺗﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺗﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ّ‫َﺯﻝ‬‫ﻳ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﻳﺧﻁﺊ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺣﻠﻳﻑ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺻﺣﻳﺢ‬ ‫ﻳﻔﻌﻠﻭﺍ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺑﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﺅﻻء‬ .‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺃﺑ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺛﺎﻧﻳﺔ‬
‫ﻳﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﻓﻠﻥ‬ ،‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ً‫ء‬‫ﻭﺑﻧﺎ‬ .‫ﺍﻷﻭﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺩﺭﺟﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﺣﺻﺩ‬ ‫ﺇﻻ‬ ‫ﻟﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻧﺳﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬
.‫ﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﺣﻘﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺧﺳﺭﻭﺍ‬ ‫ﻭﺇﻻ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺭﺗﺑﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﻣﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﺑﻠﻭﻍ‬
‫ﺗﻌﻠﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﺣﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺩﺭﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﻳﺩ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺫﻭﻕ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﺎ‬ ٌ‫ﻛﻝ‬ .‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻣﻁﺭﻭﺣ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺧﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻳﺱ‬
‫ﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﻘﺑﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﺭﺍﺣﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺭﺣﻠﺔ‬
.‫ﻟﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺳﺗﻌﺩ‬
“‫”ﺍﻻﺳﺗﻘﻼﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﻧﺩ‬ ‫ﺃﺩﺭﺟﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ :‫ﺍﻻﺳﺗﻘﻼﻟﻳﺔ‬ -7
‫ﺭﻣﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺏ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺷﺧﺹ‬ ‫ﻓﺄﻧﺕ‬ ،‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻳﺛﺎﻕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
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‫ﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﻟﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺭﻳﺩﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﻭﺍﺻﻔﺎﺕ‬
‫”ﻳﺟﺏ‬ :‫ﻷﻧﻔﺳﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻳﻘﻭﻟﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺟﺩﻫﻡ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﺣﻘﻭﺍ‬
‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺃﺑ‬ ‫ﺃﺧﻁﺊ‬ ‫ﺃﻻ‬ ‫”ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ﺟﺩﺍﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﺟﺢ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
‫ﺃﺻﻌﺏ‬ ‫ﻟﺧﻭﺽ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﺋﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﻌﺩﺍﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫”ﻳﺟﺏ‬
.“‫ﺍﻟﺟﻣﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﺣﺳﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫”ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﺗﺣﺩﻳﺎﺕ‬
‫ﻭﻟﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻧﺳﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻁﻌﻡ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻥ‬ ،‫ﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺩﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺄﻝ‬ .‫ﻳﺳﺗﺣﻘﻭﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻧﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻳﺷﻌﺭﻭﺍ‬
“‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ؟‬ ‫ﺃﺳﺗﺣﻕ‬ ‫ﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻓﻌﻠﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬
‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻗﻭﺍﻣﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﻠﺳﻔﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺷﺎﻕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﻝ‬ -2
‫ﻳﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ “‫”ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻧﻪ‬ ،‫ﻭﻛﺩﺡ‬ ‫ﻛﺩ‬ ‫ﻟﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺇﻻ‬ ‫ﻳﺄﺗﻲ‬
‫ﺗﺷﻌﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﺗﻭﺍﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺟﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﺑﺭ‬
‫ﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺑﺫﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﺣﺿﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻠﺳﻔﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﻥ‬ ،‫ﺑﺎﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬
‫ﺗﺣﺎﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻌﻠﻳﻙ‬ ،‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻳﻔﻠﺢ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﻥ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺟﻬﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﻁﺭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻣﻭﺍﻫﺏ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻠﺳﻔﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺗﺭﻑ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ .‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬
‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺩﺍء‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻧﺳﻳﺎﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﺩﻑ‬ ُ‫ﺑﺎﻟﺻ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻹﻟﻬﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺗﻠﻘﺎﺋﻲ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻹﻧﺟﺎﺯ‬
‫ﺑﻧﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﺍﺛﻳﻕ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺗﻭﻱ‬ :‫ﺍﻷﻟﻡ‬ -3
‫ﺇﻻ‬ ‫ﻳﻧﺟﺢ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﻁﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﻟﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﺧﺹ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﻧﺹ‬
‫ﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫”ﻻ‬ :‫ﺑﻣﻘﻭﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺅﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﻝ‬ .‫ﻣﺅﻟﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺟﺎﺭﺏ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺩ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺗﺿﻊ‬ ‫ﻓﺄﻧﺕ‬ ،‫ﻛﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻛﻧﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﺗﺭﺍﺡ“؟‬ ‫ﺩﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻛﺛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﺻﺎﺩﻓﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﺷﺧﺎﺹ‬ ‫ﻫﻧﺎﻙ‬ .‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻳﺛﺎﻕ‬
‫ﺗﺻﻁﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﺭﻭﻋﺎﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻌﺛﺭﺍﺕ؛‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺯﻣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
.‫ﺻﻌﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﻳﺎﺗﻬﻡ‬ ،‫ﻣﻌﻘﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﻼﻗﺎﺗﻬﻡ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﺣﺎﺋﻁ‬
‫ﻣﺩﻓﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻗﻭﺓ‬ ‫ﺑﻣﻭﻁﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﻣﺗﻌﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﻻ‬
‫ﻟﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻓﺳﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﻧﻘﺑﻭﺍ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﺫﺍ‬ ،‫ﺃﻋﻣﺎﻗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
.‫ﺭﺓ‬ِ‫ﻣ‬‫ُﺛ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﺍﻟ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻳﺎﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻛﺛﻳﺭ‬
‫ﺍﺳﺗﺣﻘﻘﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺩ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺗﻘﺩ‬ ‫ﻫﻝ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺗﺗﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻛﻠﻔﺔ‬ -4
‫ﺫﻟﻙ؟‬ ‫ﻣﻘﺎﺑﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻧ‬‫ﺛﻣ‬ ‫ﺗﺩﻓﻊ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻙ‬
‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺅﻣﻧﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﺄﻧﺕ‬ ،‫ﻛﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻛﻧﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﻥ‬
‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﻧﻅﺭ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺁﺧﺭ‬ ‫ﺷﻲء‬ ‫ﻛﺄﻱ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻧ‬‫ﺛﻣ‬
‫ﺍﻷﺳﺋﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﺟﺎﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﺎﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﻛﺭﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﺟﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﻟﺩﻳﻙ؟‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻌﺗﺑﺭﻩ‬ ً‫ﻓﻌﻼ‬ ‫ﺭﻩ‬ّ‫ﺩ‬‫ﺗﻘ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﻛﺭﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺁﺧﺭ‬ ‫ﻛﺎﻧﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﺗﻰ‬
:‫ﺍﻟﺗﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬
‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺷﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ -1
‫ﻧﺷﺎﻁﺎﺗﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺷﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ -2
‫ﻋﻼﻗﺎﺗﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺷﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ -3
‫ﺍﻟﻛﻳﻔﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻓﻛﺎﺭﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﺣﺿﺭ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﺣﻔﻳﺯ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻹﻟﻬﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﺭﺷﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺣﺻﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻧﺗﻅﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﻭﺩ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﺑﻘﻳﻣﻙ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﺋﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺿﻊ‬ ‫ﺣﺎﻭﻝ‬
.‫ﺃﻛﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻳﺻﺑﺢ‬ ‫ﻛﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﺧﺻﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻋﻣﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺳﻭﺍء‬ ،‫ﺑﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺇﺩﺍﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﻣﻛﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬
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،‫ﺍﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺷﻛﻼﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﻣﻭﻣﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻋﺑﺎﺋﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﺛﻘﺎﻟﻪ‬
‫ﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﺷﻌﺭ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻋﺗﻣﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﺗﻔﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬
‫ﻳﻌﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ .‫ﻭﻳﺷﻳﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺭﺟﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻣﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺻﻔﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺑﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﺍﺟﺗﻙ‬ ‫”ﺗﺑﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻙ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﺟﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﺧﺗﺭﺍﻉ‬ ‫ﺇﻋﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺗﻔﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ “‫ﻭﺣﺩﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻘﻭﺩﻫﺎ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﻔﻭﺯ‬ ‫ﺑﻁﻌﻡ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺗﻣﺗﻊ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻲ‬
IÉ«◊G áæ°S Ò«¨àdG
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﺗﻘﺩﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﺩﻯ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺣﺳﺎﺳ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﻭﺗﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﺿﺭﺏ‬ ‫ﺣﻘﻳﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬
‫ﻧﻔﺱ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﺳﻭﺃﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﺻﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﺑﻬﻰ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺎﻟﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﺻﺭ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﺎﺟﺋﺔ‬ ‫ﻁﻔﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺧﻳﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻘﻭﺩ‬ ‫ﺷﻬﺩﺕ‬ ‫ﻓﻘﺩ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻭﻗﺕ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﺩﻳﻣﻘﺭﺍﻁﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻧﺷﺭ‬ ‫ﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺷﻣﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺟﻭﺍﻧﺏ‬ ‫ﺟﻣﻳﻊ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻅﻬﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﺧﺻﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺭﻳﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﻏﻠﺑﺔ‬
‫ﻣﻌﺩﻻﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺭﺗﻔﺎﻉ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺳﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺿﻐﻭﻁ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻘﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻣﺭﺍﺽ‬
‫ﻧﺳﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺭﺗﻔﺎﻉ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺟﺭﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﻔﺷﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺃﻳﺿ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﺧﺎء‬
‫ﺗﺳﺭﻳﺢ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﺩﻻﺕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺑﻭﻗﺔ‬ ‫ﻏﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺯﻳﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﺎﻟﺔ‬
‫ﺯﻳﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﺣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﻋﺎﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺳﺑﻝ‬ ‫ﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﺣﺳﱡ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﻅﻔﻳﻥ‬
‫ﻣﻊ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻣﻌﺩﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻵﻓﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺿﻐﻁ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻘﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻣﺭﺍﺽ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﺗﺷﺎﺭ‬
.‫ﻳﻘﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺻﺎﺣﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻐﻳﻳﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬
،‫ﻟﻸﺳﻭﺃ‬ ‫ﻭﺑﻌﺿﻬﺎ‬ ،‫ﻟﻸﻓﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻐﻳﻳﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬
‫ﺍﻋﺗﺑﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ،‫ﻫﺩﻑ‬ ‫ﺩﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻐﻳﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺏ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺄﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺿﻬﺎ‬
‫ﻳﺣﺩﺙ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﻭ‬ .‫ﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﻣﺗﻭﺍﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻐﻳﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
.‫ﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ﻭﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﻛﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
π°ûØdG Iƒb
‫ﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﻟﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ،‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻧﺎﺟﺣ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻲ‬
‫ﺗﺧﺗﻠﻑ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻟﻔﻌﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻧﺯﺍﻫﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺳﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬
‫ﻓﻛﻼﻫﻣﺎ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻳﺛﺎﻕ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﻛﺛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬
.‫ﺍﻷﻓﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺩﺍﺱ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺍء‬ ‫ﻭﻛﺎﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻼﻭﻋﻲ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﺟﻭﺩ‬
‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻔﻬﻭﻣﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﻠﺳﻔﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻣﻳﺛﺎﻕ‬ ‫ﱢﺭ‬‫ﺑ‬‫ﻳﻌ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺛﻠﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺗﺟﺎﻩ‬ ‫ﺳﻠﻭﻛﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺑﺭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬
.‫ﻣﻌﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺎﻁﻳﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﻛﻳﻔﻳﺔ‬
‫ﺧﺑﺭﺍﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺗﻣﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﺎ‬ ٌ‫ﻟﻛﻝ‬
‫ﺗﺑﺩﺃ‬ .‫ﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺻﻳﺎﻏﺗﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺇﻋﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﻣﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﺧﺻﻳﺔ‬
‫ﺭﺋﻳﺱ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﻧﻭﺍﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺎﺳﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﻅﻡ‬
‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ﺗﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻻ‬ ‫”ﺣﺎﻭﻝ‬ :‫ﻋﺭﻳﺽ‬ ‫ﺑﺧﻁ‬ ‫ﻣﻛﺗﻭﺏ‬ ‫ﻛﺑﻳﺭ‬
‫ﻛﻬﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺷﻳﺋ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﻏﻡ‬ .“‫ﺗﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫”ﺇﻳﺎﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ﺗﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫”ﻻ‬
‫ﻧﻣﺭ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﻧﻧﺎ‬ ،‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻭﻣﺛﺎﻟ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﻣﻣﺗﺎﺯ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻌ‬‫ﻭﺍﻗ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﺎﻥ‬ ً‫ﻓﻌﻼ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﻟﻭ‬
‫ﺳﻳﺎﺳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﺧﺩﻣﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﻛﻳﻑ‬ .‫ﻣﺣﺎﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﺗﺟﺎﺭﺏ‬
‫ﺗﺣﺿﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻠﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ؟‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
‫ﻭﻟﻭﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺅﻭﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻹﻧﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻬﺭﻭﺏ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬
‫ﻣﺷﺎﻋﺭ‬ ‫ﻙ‬ ْ‫ﻭﺗﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﻣﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﺃﺱ‬ ‫ﺩﻓﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬
.‫ﻣﺅﺑﺩ‬ ‫ﺣﻛﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﻛﺄﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺑﻘﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻳﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﻳﻁﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﺟﻝ‬
‫ﺗﺗﺳﻡ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﻥ‬ – ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﺈﻣﻛﺎﻥ‬
‫ﻭﺗﺳﺗﺩﻋﻲ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻷﻟﻐﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﻁﺭﻳﻘﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﻔﺭﺵ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ – ‫ﺑﺎﻟﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬
‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﺟﺯﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﺎﻟﺫﻳﻥ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﻣﺯﻳ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻳﻭﺍﺟﻬﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻣﺎ‬ .‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﺃﺑ‬ ‫ﻳﻧﺟﺣﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬
.‫ﻟﻠﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﺳﺎﻧﺣﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﺳﺗﻐﻠﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺇﻗﺩﺍﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﺷﺟﺎﻋﺔ‬
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻠﻳﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺗﻁﻳﻊ‬
‫ﺍﻹﻳﺟﺎﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺟﻭﺍﻧﺏ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﺳﺗﻐﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺭﻏﻭﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺗﺎﺋﺞ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬
‫ﺃﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﻫﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻛﺭﺓ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﺍﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﻭﺃ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﺷﺭﻗﺔ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺎﺳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺿﻊ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺳﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩﻣﺎ‬
.‫ﺗﺭﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﺃﻓﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺻﺑﺢ‬
äGòdG AÉ°ü≤à°SG êPƒ‰
‫ﻋﻠﻳﻙ‬ ،‫ﺗﻭﺍﺟﻬﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻟﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ً‫ﺣﻠﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﺗﺟﺩ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﺭﺩﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﻔﻛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻔﺯﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻧﺎﺳﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺳﺋﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﺗﺑﺭ‬ .‫ﺗﻔﻌﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻋﺗﺩﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻋﻣﻕ‬ ‫ﺃﻭﺳﻊ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻓﻕ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺿﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﺻﻭﺭ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻁﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﺣﻭ‬ ‫ﺳﻠﻭﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻓﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﺗﻬﺎﺝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻌﺎﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺎﻋﺩﻙ‬
‫ﺯﻭﺍﻳﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺁﺧﺭﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻧﻅﺭ‬ ‫ﺑﻳﻧﻣﺎ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﺟﻭﺩ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﻣﻭﻫﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻓﺗﻘﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺩﻟﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﻧﻬﺎﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬
‫”ﺃﺣﺗﺎﺝ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﺍﻟﺗﺯﺍ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫”ﻳﺟﺏ‬ :‫ﻷﻧﻔﺳﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻘﻭﻟﻭﻥ‬ ،‫ﺷﺧﺻﻳﺎﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻳﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻠﻝ‬ ‫ﺇﺻﻼﺡ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺣﺎﻭﻟﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺇﻳﺟﺎﺑﻳﺔ‬
.‫ﻫﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻠﻭﻙ‬ .“‫ﺃﺧﺭﻯ‬ ‫ﻭﺣﻠﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﺩﺍﺋﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺃﻋﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫”ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﺩﻋﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
‫ﺗﺳﺗﺧﺩﻣﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺷﺭﻳﻁﺔ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﻠﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﺹ‬ ‫ﺃﻓﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻋﺗﺑﺎﺭﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﺭﺭﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﺍﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﻭﺃ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻧﻅﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﺟﻌﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻌﺎﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬
‫ﻟﺗﺗﺟﻧﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﻔﺎﺩﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﺩﻯ‬ ‫ّﻡ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻗ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺗﺟﺭﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﻠﻣﺗﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺭﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﺣﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﺛﻡ‬ ،‫ﻟﻠﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺭﺿﺕ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻣﻭﻗﻔ‬ ‫ﺗﺫﻛﺭ‬ .‫ﺑﺣﻧﻛﺔ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺗﻔﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺭﺱ‬ ‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺳﺄﻝ‬ ،‫ﺗﺄﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻛﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺭﺍﻫﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﺭﻭﻉ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻼﻗﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻓﻛﺭ‬ ‫ﺛﻡ‬ .ً‫ﻣﺳﺗﻘﺑﻼ‬
.‫ﺑﺣﺩﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ “‫ﻫﻧﺎ؟‬
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6. ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺣﺩﻭﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺧﺑﺭﺍﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻭﺩ‬ ‫ﻟﺗﺗﺟﺎﻭﺯ‬ ‫ﻟﻙ‬ ٍ‫ﺩ‬‫ﺗﺣ‬ ‫ﺑﻣﺛﺎﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺳﺅﺍﻝ‬
.‫ﺃﻓﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻟﺗﺻﻝ‬
‫ﺍﺳﺗﺧﺩﺍﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺳﺗﺑﻳﺎﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻣﻭﺫﺝ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻣﻡ‬ ُ‫ﺻ‬
‫ﻳﻣﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺷﺧﺹ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﻧﺹ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬
‫ﺃﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺳﺅﺍﻝ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﺗﻣﺩ‬ .‫ﻳﻭﺍﺟﻬﻪ‬ ٍ‫ﺩ‬‫ﺗﺣ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻝ‬ ً‫ﺣﻠﻭﻻ‬
‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ ‫ﻣﺛﻝ‬ “‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺧﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫”ﺍﻟﻛﻳﻣﻳﺎء‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺎﺩﺉ‬
‫ﺛﻡ‬ ،‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﻳﻭ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺟﻬﺗﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺫﻛﺭ‬ .‫ﻏﻳﺭﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻘﻳﻣﺔ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺑﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﺭﺷﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺳﺗﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺳﺋﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻁﺭﺡ‬
:‫ﻣﻌﻳﻧﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﺟﺎﺑﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻻﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﻭﺟﻬﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﺧﻠﻙ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ؟‬ ‫ﻣﺻﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -1
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺅﺩﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺣﺩﻱ‬ :“‫ﻣﻳﻧﻳﻧﺟﺭ‬ ‫”ﻛﺎﺭﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺳﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻁﺑﻳﺏ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﻝ‬
‫ﺗﻐﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫”ﺟﻌﺟﻌﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﻌﺎﻧﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
ً‫ﻣﻭﺍﺟﻬﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﺗﻣﺛﻝ‬ ،‫ﻧﺎﺣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻣﻥ‬ .“‫ﺍﻟﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﺗﻐﺭﻳﺩ‬
‫ﻳﻔﺳﺢ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺣﻳﻭ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺃﻣﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﺇﺩﺍﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻌﺗﺑﺭ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬
‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺧﺭﻭﺝ‬ ‫ﻭﺇﻟﻬﺎﻣﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺧﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺭﺅﻳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻣﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻁﺭﻳﻕ‬
،‫ﺧﻭﻓﻙ‬ ‫ﺇﺩﺍﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﺟﺩﺕ‬ ‫ﻛﻠﻣﺎ‬ .‫ﻭﺗﻭﺟﻳﻬﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻁﺢ‬
‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺫﻛﺭ‬ .‫ﺑﻛﻔﺎءﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺇﺩﺍﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﻁﻌﺕ‬
.‫ﺃﻛﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻟﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﻭﺳﻳﻠﺔ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﺣﺩﻱ‬ ‫ﻭﺳﺗﻛﺗﺷﻑ‬ ،‫ﻭﻣﺑﺭﺭﻩ‬ ‫ﺧﻭﻓﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﺻﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺣﺩﺩ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺄﻝ‬ .‫ﻳﻭﺍﺟﻬﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬
‫ﻫﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ؟‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ ‫ﺣﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﻣﻧﻌﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﻋﻘﻠﻲ‬ ‫ّﻝ‬‫ﺑ‬‫ﻳﻛ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻫﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺭﻓﺽ؟‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ؟‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻫﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﻭﺍﺟﻬﺔ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺻﺎﺭﺣﺔ‬
‫ﺑﻌﺿﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻷﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺧﺎﻭﻓﻙ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻧﺻﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺿﺭﻭﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﻣﺧﺎﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻣﺟﺭﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﻅﻣﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻥ‬ ،‫ﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﻧﻁﻭﻱ‬
.‫ﻣﻌﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻋﺎﺩﻳﺔ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﺔ؟‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -2
‫ﻏﺎﻳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺫﻛﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﺗﻭﺍﺟﻬﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬
‫ﻫﻧﺎﻙ‬ .‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺻﺩﻗ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺻﻠﻳﺔ‬
‫ﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﺳﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺗﻭﻳﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺛﻼﺛﺔ‬
:‫ﻫﻲ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬
:‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺟﺫﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺩﻳﺩ‬ ❂
‫ﻧﺣﺳﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺷﻳﺎء‬
‫ﻟﻳﺳﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﺣﺑﺎﻁﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺳﺑﺏ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻛﺫﻟﻙ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺳﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﺎﻟﺿﻐﻭﻁ‬
،‫ﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻟﻳﺳﺕ‬ ‫ﻧﻭﺍﺟﻬﻬﺎ‬
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‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﺭﺍﻋﺎﺕ‬ .‫ﻭﻧﺣﺩﺩﻩ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﻧﺑﺣﺙ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺁﺧﺭ‬
‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺗﺟﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺳﻡ‬
‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺷﺧﺻﻳﺔ؛‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺑﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻭﺍﺯﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﺩﻡ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻲ؟‬ ‫ﺳﺑﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍء‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺭﻑ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺑﻭﺿﻭﺡ؟‬ ‫ﻟﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﺟﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻻ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺩﻭﺍء‬ ‫ﻭﺻﻑ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﻬﻝ‬
‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺃﻋﺫﺍﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺭﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﺗﻘﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺅﻭﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﱡﻝ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﺗﺣ‬ ❂
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺅﻭﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﻠﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ،‫ﺷﻛﺎﻭﻯ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎءﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﱠﻝ‬‫ﺑ‬‫ﻭﺗﻘ‬
‫ﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﻟﻥ‬ :‫ﺍﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﺩﻕ‬ ❂
‫ﻳﺣﻝ‬ ‫ﻟﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻧﻪ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﺗﻳﺟﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺄﺟﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﻭﻯ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻧﻛﺎﺭ‬
‫ﺗﺩﻓﻌﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﺻﺎﺩﻓﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺻﻌﻭﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻫﺩﺍﻓﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻗﻳﻣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺭ‬‫ﱡ‬‫ﺗﺫﻛ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻷﻭﺳﻊ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻋﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻧﻅﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -3
‫ﺃﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﺧﺻﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺁﺭﺍﺋﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻧﺳﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻓﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺗﺑﺭ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻓﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻋﻭﺍﺋﻕ‬
‫ﺑﺈﻣﻛﺎﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ،‫ﺍﻷﻓﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ ‫ﺗﻐﻳﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﻠﻣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﺈﻥ‬ .‫ﻳﻌﺗﻧﻘﻬﺎ‬
‫ﻟﻠﺗﻁﻠﻊ‬ ً‫ﺳﺑﻳﻼ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻼﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﺗﺻﺑﺢ‬ ،‫ﻛﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﻐﻳﻳﺭ‬
.ً‫ﺷﻣﻭﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻭﺳﻊ‬ ‫ﺃﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﻅﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
‫ﻳﻣﻛﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫”ﻻ‬ :“‫ﺁﻳﻧﺷﺗﺎﻳﻥ‬ ‫”ﺃﻟﺑﺭﺕ‬ ‫ﻗﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﻧﻘﺗﺑﺱ‬ ،‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻭﻓﻲ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﻔﻛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺗﻭﻯ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺱ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻛﺑﻳﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻼﺕ‬ ‫ﻧﺣﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
.“‫ﺍﻷﺳﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻼﺕ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﺗﺞ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬
‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺄﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻔﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﻓﻳﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﺛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺅﺍﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ “‫ﻫﻧﺎ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺷﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻧﻅﻭﺭ‬
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻓﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻷﻓﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺟﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﺗﺢ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻟﺑﺻﻳﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬
.‫ﺗﻘﻭﺩﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺧﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺣﻛﻣﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺩﻉ‬ .‫ﺭﺃﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻁ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺗﺎﺣﺔ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻳﺎﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻻﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -4
‫ﺍﻟﺧﻳﺎﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻛﺗﺷﺎﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻧﻌﺟﺯ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻬﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻁﺑﻳﺏ‬ ‫ﻛﺗﺏ‬ .‫ﺍﻷﺯﻣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺧﺿﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻣﺎﻣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺗﺎﺣﺔ‬
‫ﺏ‬ُ‫ﺗﺳﻠ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫”ﺑﺈﻣﻛﺎﻧﻙ‬ :‫ﻳﻘﻭﻝ‬ “‫ﻓﺭﺍﻧﻛﻲ‬ ‫”ﻓﻳﻛﺗﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻔﺳﻲ‬
‫ﻋﺩﺍ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ،‫ﺷﻲء‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻧﺳﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺣﺭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺧﻳﺭﺓ؛‬ ‫ﺣﺭﻳﺗﻪ‬
‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﺗﻬﺎﺝ‬ ‫ﺣﺭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭ؛‬
‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﺭﻳﺩﻩ‬ ‫ﺳﻠﻭﻙ‬
‫ﻳﺗﻌﺭﺽ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﺍﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺩﺭﺏ‬ ‫ﺍﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺣﺭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻟﻬﺎ؛‬
‫ﻭﺍﻷﻓﻛﺎﺭ‬ ،‫ﻳﺳﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬
.“‫ﻭﻳﻁﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﻠﻕ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬
‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺃﻓﻛﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺷﺄﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺟﺩﻳﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﺎﻫﻳﻡ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺎﺩﺉ‬
‫ﻳﻣﺿﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺑﻌﺿﻬﻡ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﺏ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﺿﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬
‫ﻭﻣﻭﺍﻁﻥ‬ ‫ﺑﻬﻭﻳﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﻋﻳﻙ‬ ‫ﺑﺯﻳﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﻌﻠﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻳﺭﺗﺑﻁ‬ .‫ﻣﻌﻬﺎ‬
‫ﺳﻳﺳﺎﻋﺩﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﺣﻭ‬ ‫ﻭﻁﺎﻗﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺇﻳﻣﺎﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﺑﺗﻭﺟﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺭﺗﺑﻁ‬ .‫ﻗﻭﺗﻙ‬
‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻓﺷﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺃﺧﻁﺎﺋﻙ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﻣﺗﺧﻁ‬ ،‫ﻭﺍﻻﺯﺩﻫﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻣﻭ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬
‫ﻓﺎﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ .‫ﻭﻋﺛﺭﺍﺕ‬ ‫ﺣﺟﺎﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻓﺭﺻ‬ ‫ﻓﺗﺭﺍﻫﺎ‬ ،‫ﻋﺛﺭﺍﺗﻙ‬
‫ﺍﻏﺗﻧﺎﻣﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺣﻳﻠﻪ‬ ‫ﺷﻲء‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﺻﻳﺎﻏﺔ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﻳﺩ‬
‫ﻟﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﻌﺭﺽ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺄﻝ‬ .‫ﻣﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻻﺳﺗﻔﺎﺩﺓ‬
“‫ﺳﺄﺟﻧﻳﻬﺎ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺎﺋﺩﺓ‬ ‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺇﻳﺟﺎﺑ‬ ‫ﺃﻡ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺳﻠﺑ‬ ‫ﻛﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﺳﻭﺍء‬ –
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.‫ﺍﻟﺣﺳﺑﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﺇﻣﻛﺎﻧﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﻓﺭﺻ‬ ‫ﻳﺧﻠﻕ‬
،‫ﻣﺗﺗﺎﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﺩﺍء‬ ‫ﺗﺟﺭﺑﺔ‬ 50 ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻓﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻣﺛﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻧﺎﻙ‬
‫ﻭﺷﻛﻭﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﺧﺎﻭﻓﻪ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﻁﻔﺕ‬ ‫ﺑﻧﻔﺳﻪ‬ ‫ﺛﻘﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﻓﺗﺯﻋﺯﻋﺕ‬
‫ﻭﻫﻭ‬ ،‫ﻭﺍﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﺧﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺳﻭﻯ‬ ‫ﺃﻣﺎﻣﻪ‬ ‫ﻳﺑﻕ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻁﺢ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬
.‫ﺑﺈﻳﺟﺎﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺑﺳﻠﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
‫ﻣﻬﻧﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺧﻠﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻠﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭﺍﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﻁﻭﺕ‬
‫ﺍﻏﺗﻳﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺳﺎﺧﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺷﺧﺻﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺣﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺗﻣﺛﻳﻝ‬
‫ﻳﺣﺎﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﻛﺎﻥ‬ !‫ﺍﻟﺗﻣﺛﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻁﺎﻗﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺅﻭﻟﻳﻥ‬
‫ﺩﺭﺱ‬ ‫ﺛﻡ‬ .‫ﻭﺇﺣﺑﺎﻁﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﺳﺧﻁﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﻳﺎﺋﻪ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺱ‬‫ﱢ‬‫ﻳﻧﻔ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
‫”ﺭﺑﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﻭﺍﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻟﻪ‬ ‫ﻓﻼﺡ‬ ،‫ﺍﻹﻳﺟﺎﺑﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﺧﺗﻳﺎﺭﺍﺕ‬
‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﻣﻬﺗ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﺟﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺩﻭﺍﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﺩﺍء‬ ‫ﺃﺟﺭﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻓﺿﻝ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺩﺍﺧﻠﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺣﻛﻣﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺑﺩﺃ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﻧﺎ‬ .“‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺣﻘ‬ ‫ﺑﻬﺎ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺗﻔﺎﺩ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﺭﺱ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﻠﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -5
‫ﻟﻣﺷﻛﻼﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﻟﺩﻱ‬ ‫”ﻟﻳﺱ‬ :“‫ﻛﻳﺳﻳﻧﺟﺭ‬ ‫”ﻫﻧﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﻝ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺣﻥ‬ .“‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﺗﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﺯﺩﺣﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﺟﺩﻭﻟﻲ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻘﺎﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺳﺑﻭﻉ‬ ‫ﺟﺩﻳﺩﺓ‬
‫ﻧﺭﻯ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺑﺩﺍﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ .‫ﺇﻧﺫﺍﺭ‬ ‫ﺳﺎﺑﻕ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺗﺄﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻷﺯﻣﺎﺕ‬
‫ﻭﺟﺩﺍﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﺗﺭﺗﻳﺑﺎﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺩﺍﺧﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺟﺩﻳﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﻻﺣﻘ‬ ‫ﻧﺩﺭﻙ‬ ‫ﺛﻡ‬ ،‫ﻭﺗﻌﺭﻗﻠﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺎﻓﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻋﻣﺎﻟﻧﺎ‬
‫ﺗﺣﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻛﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻋﻣﺎﻟﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺟﺩﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻭﺍﻗﻊ‬
‫ﻭﺧﺑﺭﺓ‬ ،‫ﻧﺗﻌﻠﻣﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻳﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺩﺭﺳ‬ ‫ﻁﻳﺎﺗﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
‫ﻛﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻬﻣﺎ‬ – ‫ﺷﻲء‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ .‫ﻧﻛﺗﺳﺑﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺟﺩﻳﺩﺓ‬
‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﻘﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻣﻭ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺎﻋﺩﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻥ‬ – ‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺻﻐﻳﺭ‬
.‫ﺑﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺗﻐﻼﻟﻪ‬ ‫ﺃﺣﺳﻧﺎ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﺎﺋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺫﻫﺏ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺭﺍﺏ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﻭﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -6
‫ﺳﺄﺟﻧﻳﻬﺎ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬
‫ﻣﻠﻳﺋﺔ‬ ‫”ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻣﻘﻭﻟﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﻩ‬ ‫ﻳﺻﺩﻕ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﺑ‬‫ﺗﻘﺭﻳ‬ ‫ﺟﻣﻳﻌﻧﺎ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻬﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻷﻧﻪ‬ ،‫ﺣﻘﻳﻘﻲ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ .“‫ﻭﺍﻟﻔﺭﺹ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻣﻧﺢ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻋﻁﺎﻳﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﻧﺳﻰ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﺣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺯﻣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺧﺿﻡ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﺍﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺧﻼﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﺅﺍﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻔﺳﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻁﺭﺣﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻟﻭ‬
‫ﺃﻧﻔﺳﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﺳﻧﺟﺩ‬ “‫ﺳﺄﺟﻧﻳﻬﺎ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺎﺋﺩﺓ‬ ‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻌﺻﻳﺑﺔ‬
‫ﻭﺍﺻﻠﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻭﻟﻛﻥ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺣﻝ‬ ‫ﺇﻳﺟﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﺎﺟﺯﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺑﺩﺍﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﻔﻛﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺎﻋﺩﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻣﻛﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻣﻥ‬ ،‫ﺇﺟﺎﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺑﺣﺙ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﻬﺭﺏ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ً‫ﺑﺩﻻ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺯﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻳﺟﺎﺑﻲ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﺭﺹ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺑﺈﺻﺭﺍﺭ‬ ‫ﻳﺑﺣﺙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺟﺢ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﻧﺳﺎﻥ‬ .‫ﻣﻧﻬﺎ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺻﺧﻭﺭ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺕ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺗﺯﺍﻣﺎﺗﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺗﺑﺎﺩﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -7
‫ﻧﺣﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻧﺭﻛﺯ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻌﺻﻳﺑﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻭﻗﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻔﺭﺹ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺗﻔﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻛﺎﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺩﻋﻡ‬ ‫)ﻣﺛﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻳﻪ‬
‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻧﺭﻛﺯ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺃﻳﺿ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺿﺭﻭﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻥ‬ .(‫ﺍﻟﻣﻧﺎﺳﺑﺔ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ – ‫ﺗﻧﺗﺞ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻼﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﺭﺍﻋﺎﺕ‬ .‫ﻧﻌﻁﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺇﺷﺎﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﻭﻫﺫﻩ‬ .‫ﺍﻻﻟﺗﺯﺍﻡ‬ ‫ﻋﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﺳﺑﺏ‬ – ‫ﺍﻷﺣﻳﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﻅﻡ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺯﻳﺩ؛‬ ‫ﻧﻌﻁﻲ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﺩﻝ‬
‫ﻭﻣﻥ‬ ،‫ﻭﺍﻻﻧﺗﺑﺎﻩ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻫﺗﻣﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻥ‬ ،‫ﻭﺍﻟﺣﻳﻭﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻁﺎﻗﺔ‬
‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﻁﻲ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩﻣﺎ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺛﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻥ‬ ،‫ﻭﺍﻟﺻﺭﺍﺣﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﺩﻕ‬
‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬ ‫ﻧﺣﻭ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﺳﺗﻠﻬﻡ‬ ،‫ﻟﻠﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺗﻁﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﺑﺩﺍﻉ‬
‫ﺗﻭﺍﺟﻬﻙ‬ ‫ﺣﻳﻥ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﺑ‬‫ﻣﻧﺳﺣ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺭﺍﺟﻊ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻣﻐﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺳﻬﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺃﻳﺿ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻐﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻥ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻌﻘﺑﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺷﻛﻼﺕ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬
.‫ﺍﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﻠﻭﻡ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﻠﻘﻲ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺩﻓﺎﻋ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺳﻠﻭﻛ‬ ‫ﺗﺗﺧﺫ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬
:‫ﺗﺗﺿﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺷﺟﺎﻋﺔ‬ ‫ﻟﻛﻥ‬
‫”ﺃﻛﻭﻥ“؟‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻧﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﺎﺫﺍ‬ :‫ﺑﺎﻟﻛﻳﻧﻭﻧﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻟﺗﺯﺍﻡ‬ ❂
.‫ﺇﻟﺦ‬ ‫ﺎ؟‬ ً‫ﺗﻔﺗﺣ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﺎ؟‬ً‫ﺻﺩﻗ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﺍ؟‬ً‫ﺻﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬
‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ “‫”ﺃﻓﻌﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻧﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﺎﺫﺍ‬ :‫ﺑﺎﻟﻔﻌﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻟﺗﺯﺍﻡ‬ ❂
‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺇﻧﺻﺎﺗ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻗﻝ؟‬ “‫”ﺃﻓﻌﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻧﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﺎﺫﺍ‬
.‫ﺇﻟﺦ‬ ‫؟‬ً‫ﺍﻧﺷﻐﺎﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻗﻝ‬ ً‫ء‬‫ﺍﺳﺗﺭﺧﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ ‫ًﺎ؟‬‫ﻣ‬‫ﻛﻼ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻗﻝ‬
‫ﺃﻋﻁﻲ؟‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻧﻧﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﺎﺫﺍ‬ :‫ﺑﺎﻟﻌﻁﺎء‬ ‫ﺍﻻﻟﺗﺯﺍﻡ‬ ❂
.‫ﺇﻟﺦ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺏ؟‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﻘﺩﻳﺭ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺯﻳﺩ‬
‫ﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺗﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻳﺳﺗﻁﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺗﻌﺎﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -8
‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﻭﺕ‬ ‫ﻳﻔﺿﻠﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺽ‬
‫ﺑﺎﻻﺳﺗﻘﻼﻟﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﻬﻭﻭﺳﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﺅﻻء‬ .‫ﻏﻳﺭﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
‫ﻭﻗﺗﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻌﻳﻘﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
‫ﺩﻟﻳﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻅﻧﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻳﻬﺎ؟‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺗﺎﺟﻭﻥ‬
‫ﺃﻓﻛﺎﺭﻫﻡ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ً‫ﺑﺩﻻ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﻌﺗﻣﺩﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬
‫ﻟﻛﻥ‬ .‫ﺟﺩﻳﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺣﻠﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺗﻭﺻﻝ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﺎﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺗﺟﺎﺭﺑﻬﻡ‬
‫ﺟﻣﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﻋﻥ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ً‫ﺑﺣﺛ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺣﺩ‬ ‫ﻛﺗﺎﺏ‬ ‫ﻗﺭﺍءﺓ‬ ‫ﻳﺷﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻼﻓﻌﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﺫﺍ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﺣﻳﺎﺓ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻹﺟﺎﺑﺎﺕ‬
،‫ﺍﻟﻔﻌﻝ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺱ‬ ‫ﻣﻣﺎﺭﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺻﻠﺕ‬ ‫”ﺇﺫﺍ‬ :‫ﺗﻘﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻫﻧﺎﻙ‬
‫ﻻ‬ .“‫ﺍﻟﻧﺗﻳﺟﺔ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺱ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻓﺳﺗﺣﺻﻝ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻁﺭﻳﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﻧﻔﺱ‬
‫ﺗﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﻛﻳﻑ‬ ‫ﺗﻌﺭﻑ‬ ‫ﻛﻲ‬ ‫ًﺎ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺫﻛ‬ ‫ﺗﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺗﺎﺝ‬
‫ﺷﺟﺎﻋﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺳﻳﺧﺗﺑﺭ‬ ‫ﺫﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺇﻻ‬ ،‫ﺣﻭﻟﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺷﻳﻭﻋ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﻭﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﺳﺑﺎﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻛﺛﺭ‬ .‫ﻭﻛﺑﺭﻳﺎءﻙ‬
.‫ﻋﻠﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﺻﻭﻝ‬ ‫ﻋﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﺧﺷﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬
،‫ﺇﻟﻳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﺣﺗﺎﺝ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺗﻁﻠﺏ‬ ‫ﻟﻡ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ،‫ﻭﻟﻛﻥ‬
‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺿﻊ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻣﺣﻘﻕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﺳﺗﻛﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻣﺣﻘﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﺎﻟﻧﺗﻳﺟﺔ‬
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‫ﺃﺛﻕ؟‬ ‫ﺑﻣﺎﺫﺍ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﺛﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -9
‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﺟﺎﺣﻙ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻓﺷﻠﻙ‬ ‫ﻳﺣﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﻫﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺛﻘﺔ‬
‫ﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﺻﺏ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻣﻛﻧﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻫﻭ‬ ‫ﺛﻘﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﺿﻊ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ .‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬
َ‫ﻡ‬‫”ﻓﻳ‬ :‫ﺍﻷﺯﻣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺄﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺿﺭﻭﺭﻱ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ .‫ﻗﻭﺗﻙ‬
‫ﻭﻳﺗﺟﺎﻫﻠﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺧﻭﻓﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﺛﻘﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻧﺩﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻳﻔﺷﻝ‬ “‫ﺃﺛﻕ؟‬
‫ﻭﻻ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻗﺩﺭﺗﻬﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﺛﻘﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫ﻓﻬﻡ‬ .‫ﻗﻭﺗﻬﻡ‬
‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﺩﺭﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﺭﺣﻣﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﷲ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻳﺛﻘﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﻻ‬ ،‫ﺍﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
.‫ﺍﻟﻣﺣﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺧﺭﻭﺝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﺳﺎﻋﺩﺗﻬﻡ‬
‫ﻭﺃﻥ‬ ،‫ﺇﻳﺟﺎﺑﻲ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺳﻠﺑﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﺃﻱ‬ ‫ّﺭ‬‫ﻳ‬‫ﺗﻐ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺛﻘﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺗﻁﻳﻊ‬
‫ﺍ‬ً‫ﺩ‬‫ﻣﻔﻳ‬ ‫ﺎ‬ ً‫ﺩﺭﺳ‬ ‫ﺛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﻭﺛﻘﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﻓﺭﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻔﺷﻝ‬ ‫ﻝ‬‫ﺗﺣﻭﱢ‬
‫ﻧﻬﺎﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻝ‬ّ‫ﺗﺣﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺛﻘﺔ‬ .‫ﺗﺻﺎﺩﻓﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻟﻙ‬ ‫ًﺍ‬‫ء‬‫ﻣﺧﺑﻭ‬
‫ﻭﻓﻁﺭﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺣﻛﻣﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺑﺄﻥ‬ ‫ﺗﺛﻕ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺑﺷﺭﻁ‬ ،‫ﺟﺩﻳﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺑﺩﺍﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬
‫ﺇﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﺩﻭ‬ ‫ﻝ‬‫ﺗﺣﻭﱢ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺛﻘﺔ‬ .‫ﺃﺯﻣﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﺇﺧﺭﺍﺟﻙ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﺩﺭﺓ‬
.‫ﻟﻛﻠﻳﻛﻣﺎ‬ ‫ُﻠﻳﺎ‬‫ﻌ‬‫ﺍﻟ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻛﻣﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺛﻘﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﻭﺿﻌﺕ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ‬ ‫ﺻﺩﻳﻕ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻲ؟‬ ‫ﻫﺩﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﺍﻟﻐﺎﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺑﺩﺃ‬ -10
‫ﺗﺗﺫﻛﺭ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﻌﺏ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ،‫ﻣﺣﺗﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﻧﻘﺎﺵ‬ ‫ﺃﻭ‬ ‫ﻋﺭﺍﻙ‬ ‫ﺧﺿﻡ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﻣﻝ‬ ‫ﺑﻳﺋﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﻓﻲ‬ .‫ﺑﺎﻵﺧﺭﻳﻥ‬ ‫ﻟﻌﻼﻗﺗﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻬﺩﻑ‬
‫ﻏﺎﻳﺗﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﻓﻧﻧﺳﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﻳﺭﺍﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻛﺎﻓﺣﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻭﻗﺕ‬ ‫ﻣﻌﻅﻡ‬ ‫ﻧﻘﺿﻲ‬
‫ﻧﻔﻘﺩ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻻﺭﺗﺑﺎﻙ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺗﺷﺗﺕ‬ ‫ﻳﺟﻌﻠﻧﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺯﻣﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻭﻓﻲ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﺣﻘﻳﻘﻳﺔ‬
‫ﻣﻭﻗﻑ‬ ‫ﻛﻝ‬ ‫ﻭﻓﻲ‬ .‫ﺍﻟﻬﺩﻑ‬ ‫ﻭﻳﺿﻳﻊ‬ ‫ﻣﺷﻭﻫﺔ‬ ‫ﻓﺗﺻﺑﺢ‬ ،‫ﺍﻟﺭﺅﻳﺔ‬
‫ﻫﺩﻓﻲ‬ ‫”ﻣﺎ‬ :‫ﻧﻔﺳﻙ‬ ‫ﺗﺳﺄﻝ‬ ‫ﺃﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻓﺿﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻛﻭﻥ‬ ،‫ﺻﻌﺏ‬
.“‫ﻫﻧﺎ؟‬
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Robert Holden
Success Intelligence: Essential Lessons and Practices
from the World’s Leading Coaching Program on Authentic
Success
Hay House (May 1, 2009)
978-1401921712
408
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‫ﻫﻭﻟﺩﻥ‬ ‫ﺭﻭﺑﺭﺕ‬
‫ﻗﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻓﻳﻪ‬ ‫ﻳﺗﻌﺎﻭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺫﻱ‬ “‫ﻭﺍﻟﺳﻌﺎﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻧﺟﺎﺡ‬ ‫”ﺫﻛﺎء‬ ‫ﻣﺷﺭﻭﻉ‬ ‫ﺻﺎﺣﺏ‬
‫ﺇﺳﻬﺎﻣﺎﺗﻪ‬ ‫ﻅﻬﺭﺕ‬ .‫ﻭﺍﻟﺳﻳﺎﺳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺗﻌﻠﻳﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺻﺣﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﺭﻋﺎﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﻋﻣﺎﻝ‬
‫ﻭﻫﻭ‬ .“‫”ﺃﻭﺑﺭﺍ‬ ‫ﺑﺭﻧﺎﻣﺞ‬ ‫ﻣﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻛﺛﻳﺭﺓ‬ ‫ﺗﻠﻔﺯﻳﻭﻧﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﺭﺍﻣﺞ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻓﻛﺎﺭﻩ‬
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