Volunteers are better engaged when they receive meaningful recognition, acknowledgment and appreciation.
Secret #1: Support Meaningful Contribution
Secret #2: Minimize Poison Words; Maximize Power Words
Secret #3: Deepen What Goes Well
Secret #4: Acknowledge Good Intentions
Secret #5: Listen Attentively
Secret #6: Offer Useful Feedback
Secret #7: Randomly Appreciate
3. Make a contribution 93%
• Use skills/experiences 78%
• Previously supported 59%
• To be with friends 50%
• Discover strengths 48%
• Meet new people 46%
• Improve job opportunities 22%
• To meet religious beliefs 21%.
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4. Engagement
Heightened emotional and
intellectual connection for the cause
(values), organization, role, or
specific people which influences
extra effort and commitment.
Adapted from Gibbons work
on Employee Engagement
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9. Acknowledge volunteer strengths:
• Thank you for demonstrating your . . .
• Please help us with your . . .
• Your . . . makes a positive
difference by . . .
11. When we use affirmative
and appropriate words and
phrases we are more likely
to evoke POSITIVE
reactions from people. 11
12. Decrease Increase
1. You 1. I
2. good/bad 2. useful, helpful
3. right/wrong 3. appropriate
4. should, must 4. want to,
choose to
5. but 5. and 12
13. Emphasize the Positive
Losada Zone
Losada concluded for every one
negative comment between 2.9013 to
11.634 positives are required to
maintain a stable relationship.
15. Martin Seligman describes 4 ways
We respond to accomplishments:
• Active and Destructive
• Passive and Destructive
• Passive and Constructive
• Active and Constructive
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16. Active and Constructive
• Tell me more?
• Who taught you that?
• How did you develop that . . .?
• How do you feel when you . . .?
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23. A) Acknowledge when all is going well.
B) Make a Request when almost all is
going well and you want change.
C) Use Seven-Step Feedback Model
when there is a serious problem.
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24. Acknowledge
1. Express appreciation for what was said
or done that supported or helped you.
Example: I appreciate your position.
Thank you for telling me you agree.
2. Describe any helpful or notable
strengths, skills or attitudes.
Example: I like your ability to stay calm
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25. Make a Request
3. Make a suggestion.
4. Give two reasons for the suggestion:
• what it will accomplish (the benefit).
• what it will solve (prevent).
3. Make an encouraging statement.
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26. Make a Request Example
Example: I suggest when you listen say
something like ‘Right’ (suggestion).
Then the speaker will know you’re
paying attention (benefit). It will also
help you not miss any important points.
(prevent). You already demonstrate
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wonderful care and support to others.
27. Seven-Step Feedback Model
1. State the problem
2. State situation-related consequences
3. Probe to identify the cause of the problem
4. Listen actively
5. Ask the volunteer for solutions
6. Develop a concise action plan with the
volunteer
7. Summarize and set a time for follow-up
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30. Meaningful Appreciation Example
1. Action: Thank you for getting that
summary to me as soon as you did.
2. Your need: I needed it as soon as
possible.
3. Emotion: I felt so relieved and
grateful when you managed to meet
my request
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31. Patricia Morgan lightens
your load, brightens your outlook
and strengthens your resilience.
Contact her for your
next event at
403—242-7796 or
patricia@SolutionsForResilience.com
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Editor's Notes
Support you/co-workers to better enjoy work—stay or leave 60 strength words
Support you/co-workers to better enjoy work—stay or leave 60 strength words