Generations better flourish when they connect with inter-dependence to young and older generations.

1. Intergenerational Resilience
Care, Communicate, Connect, and Celebrate
Patricia Morgan

2. Empowering one another!

3. My first
generation.

4. Parent to the
next generation.

5. Grandparent
to the next.

7. BIAS

8. conservative and tech ignorant
Older or Younger?

9. conservative and tech ignorant
Older!

10. lazy and entitled
Older or Younger?

11. lazy and entitled
Younger!

13. The children now love luxury; they have
bad manners, contempt for authority; they
show disrespect for elders and love
chatter in place of exercise. Children are
now tyrants, not the servants of their
households. They no longer rise when
elders enter the room.

14. What year was this grumble made?
2000 1864 BC

15. 2001 1864 BC
Socrates
469-399 B.C.

16. Millennials 24 -- 40 years old
Boomers 66 -- 74 years old

19. Intergenerational Trauma
A term which asserts that trauma can be
transferred between generations.

20. “The bond that links your true family is not one
of blood, but of respect and joy in other’s life.”
Richard Bach

21. Choosefamilyifyourbio-
familycontinuestowound.

22. Intergenerational Resilience
A term which asserts that positive self-identify
can be transferred between generations.

23. The Four Cs of Intergenerational Resilience

24. Care

26. 2) Appreciate.

27. 3) Reciprocate.

28. Communicate

29. 1) Use different types of
communication.

30. Write and mail a letter.

31. Hi dear,
Just wondering what’s happening.
Love, Grandma
Note:
Emojis communicate emotions.

32. Hear the tone, pace and
emotions of the voice.

33. Hear, see,
connect.

34. Sense energy,
smell,
feel the vibe,
and TOUCH!

35. 2) Acknowledge differences in values and motivations.

36. 3)Ask.
Don’t assume.

37. 4) Get curious without invading.

38. 5. Be willing to teach and be taught.
Ask for advice.

40. marriage, work, parenthood
Before? or After?
When are younger generations interested in ADVICE concerning . . .

41. marriage, work, parenthood
Research by T. Brubaker & E. Brubaker
After!

43. 6. Minimize conflict.

44. Blamer Rescuer
Victim
Karpman’s Drama Triangle Niece
Jane
Uncle
Joe
Grandma
Sally

45. Blamer to
Challenger
Rescuer to
Coach
Victim to
Survivor &Thriver
Karpman’s Drama Triangle

46. https://www.solutionsforresilience.com/relationship-drama

47. Connect

48. 1. Take time to connect with yourself.

50. 2. Create bonds by activating the
love and trust hormone,
OXYTOCIN

51. 1) Listen with soft eyes.

52. 2) Share a meal.

53. 3) Use social media and technology
to connect, not disconnect.

55. 4) Say it!
“I love you!”

56. 5) Give and
receive hugs.

57. 6) Hold family
meetings.
SolutionsForResilience.com/family-meetings

58. Celebrate

59. Grate-full!
1. Count your blessings.

60. 2.Acknowledge
family virtues
and strengths.

61. 3. Celebrate special days.

65. 4. Play together
to stay together.

66. 5. Smile,
laugh and
get silly.

67. BE the resilience you want
in the generations!

68. BONUS

69. patricia@SolutionsForResilience.com
Email requesting Intergenerational Resilience Guide

70. Intergenerational Resilience
Care, Communicate, Connect, and Celebrate
Patricia Morgan