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Let me teach you how to
seduce the women of your
dreams
Congenital heart defect
Several operations
Insecurity because of young looks, acne and scars
Depressive teenager
Lost...
Transformation:
I took over responsibility for my life
I graduated from university
Moved out of my parents house
I bro...
Today:
I organize my life the way I want it and I do what I
want. I live my life according to my ideas…
selfish?
No, just ...
Accept the current situation
Take over responsibility for your life
Ask yourself what you really want
Take action
Hon...
Don‘t lie to yourself
Facade at the beginning= facade later on
Acceptanze as a foundation for your personal
development
Stop blaming other people
Don‘t go the comfortable path
It is YOUR life, therefore YOU are responsible for it
Personal...
I want to fuck hundres of women!
I want to prove it to everyone who rejected me!
I want that because this or that coach...
It is more comfortable and easier to not do anything
The only way to change your life is by doing
something
„Do or do n...
Be honest to women
Be honest to yourself
Honesty leads to respect and appreciation
Honesty allows honesty
1500€ for a bootcamp vs. 1500€ for 30 Prostitutes
What provides you with more sex in the short term?
Well, what is it a...
Destroying your fears
Personal development
Live the life of your dreams
To feel as a man
What do you link to freedom?
Self-determination, personal responsibility and
limitless possibilities…
In the past it wa...
Where does „one“ get to know his dream partner?
- Friends and acquaintances (30%)
- at a night out/parties (30%)
- At wor...
Does something catches your eye? There is something
missing…
Café, bus, tram? 1%
Shopping centres, street, train statio...
What does that tell us?
On the one hand…
We are dazzling personalities
We have more courage than 99,9% of people
We ut...
on the other hand…
Many people don‘t utilize their freedom!
Many don‘t consider their freedom as possible
Freedom isn‘t...
like a prisoner who shrinks in front of an open prison
door, just because the jailer (the society) tells him, he
is not a...
Many people who are in a relationship are
unhappy!
Many singels have no clue how they could meet
somebody
Many people h...
How high is the chance that the good friend, of the friend
of your best friend is the girl of your dreams?
How high is t...
Your Friends, your family, your boss serve your
partner
For sure not your dream partner but…
…you take what you can get...
Adopt your freedom
Act autonomous
Take over responsibility for your life
Utilize the limitless opportunities
And above all…
…. Learn to appreciate this freedom!!!
…there is no try (Yoda)
try:
indecisiveness 
insecurity 
inner doubt
It doesn‘t matter if you do it or not, you tried ...
Do:
no comfortable alternatives
no backdoor
Responsibility for your life
Do you want it? Then do it
Don‘t you want it? Th...
„he has changed so much…“
„Cobbler, stick to your trade…“
Example: Fear of starting a business
What is the worst conse...
You have no success with women? Then change it!
You have never faced your fears? Then change it!
You have never approac...
Afterwards:
Overcome your fear in a certain area of life
Impact on every aspect of life
reframing: change = positive
Life...
evolutionary biology approach:
Rejection of a woman Disgrace in the whole village
Approaching the wrong woman Lambaste...
social conditioning:
„don‘t speak with strangers!“
„don‘t do that, you are not allowed to do this“
„That isn‘t appropri...
Who are „the rest“ / „the people“? Zombies…
…who don‘t realize what is happening around them
…who don‘t give a fuck abo...
It is your life and not „other peoples“ life
Who gives you the right to lay your decision-making
ability in the hands of...
…if I approach a woman:
That you have more courage than 99,99% of men?
Yes!
That you are self-confident and that you ta...
“You want to approach THIS beauty in THIS outfit?”
“Just look at her, she for sure has a boyfriend”
“You are not handsome ...
They can‘t be ignored
They can‘t be deleted
They get less noisy
You can reduce their intencity
Develop an awareness for them
Yoga, meditation, autogenous Training
Learn to accept them
Act anyway
Core self-confidence
Situational self-confidence
Self-acceptance:
Do you accept yourself or do you lie to yourself?
Self-worth:
Which value do you see in yourself? Has...
Would I approach a woman on the street? YES!
Would I fight against a professional Thai-boxer in a
cage? NO!
Why?
Reference experiences
Experiences
Therefore the knowledge:
„Nothing bad can happen“
You can only build it by going out...
In case you are german your heart must beat heavy
now. The following1.000.000.000 slides will show
some facts about the ma...
How can I make guys feel less intimidated by me?
I have a problem where many man feel intimidated by me immediately, befor...
98% are delighted by it…
…even in the political correct emancipated
Germany ;-)
2% can‘t deal with it. You don‘t really...
Women fantasize about being approached in the
everyday life
Women consider it as a compliment
Women respect you for doi...
The women in germany are deperate
How often I‘d been asked: „You can‘t be German!?“
They ask in forums if everything is...
“oh my god, that never happened to me before. You
made my day, no my whole week. I am so sorry but I
have a boyfriend but ...
They get out of bed being tired
They get up early, to do their make-up and to prepare
their outfit
„Why do I do that an...
On to a boring job
Exausted they go home
Boredom infront of the TV
The soaps in the evening are about passion and
roma...
…and there you are.
You approach her, give her a compliment
You are tossing her out of her daily routine
Suddenly her ...
“No man on this planet, no male porn director is able
to imagine the filthy things that women’s brains
produce.”
Men love sex and women love sex.
Women sense the feelings during sex more intensely
„good girl image“
Seems innocent =...
Madonna/whore complex
Seems prudish= madonna
seems promiscuitive = whore
Fragmentation in „good girl“ and „bad girl“ is...
Truth:
good girl =
bad girl =
SAME GIRL
Socially acepted image
In bed every woman wants to celebrate her femininity
EVERY woman has both sides inside her
„cle...
What goes around, comes around:
Do you condemn women for their sexuality?
You shoot yourself in the foot!
Delete the word „slut“ from your vocabulary
I respect her even more if it comes to sex quickly…
why?
The woman frees he...
The prettier the woman is the lonelier she is,
because no man has the courage to approach her.
(Charlie Harper, Two and a ...
These women are the loneliest, react in the most
positive way on a direct approach and often they are
even the most insec...
Are these women really lonely?
Do you have the courage to approach a model? Do
you think the man next to you has the cour...
Are these women really lonely?
How are they able to get to know a good man when
nobody has the courage to talk to them?
T...
Are these women really lonely?
Man don‘t have the courage to go near her
Women see competitors in them and avoid them
the...
Do these women really react the most positive way?
They want to be approached like every other girl
Besides „asocial wo...
Do these women really react the most positive way?
They are accustomed to „cool behavior“ and insecurity
Approach them in...
How is it possible that such women are the most
insecure?
insecure or overcompensated beahvior of men
dismissive or jealo...
How is it possible that such women are the most
insecure?
they provoke all kinds of reactions on other people,
(jealousy,...
How is it possible that such women are the most
insecure?
They just get honored for their looks
Why do you think there ar...
Women Want To Be With Men Less Physically
Attractive Than They Are
Why Women Gladly Date Ugly Men (And
Probably Even Pre...
They are not in need of:
They get enough attention
They don‘t have to „upvalue“ themselves
They search their partner af...
She ugly after a movie: „God I can never have a guy
again who hasn‘t such a body“.
Me in my thoughts: „Don‘t give up un ...
Women want to be desired:
„The people should gaze after HER…
…and not after HIM!“
Courtney Cox saied “she only wants to ...
I look at it as a obligation , to make women
compliments
Everything else wouldn‘t be appreciative
Tanning salons, nail ...
Women invest hundreds of € per month in their looks
They tweeze their eyebrows, vanish their nails, shave
their whole bo...
And for what???
Therefor, that nobody makes her a compliment?
Therefor, that nobody tells her how beautiful she is?
Ho...
I wonder why women in Germany walk around
scruffy?
They NEVER get acknowledgement!
Why apply a lot of effort?
So pleas...
How can I continue after my wonderful tribute to
my male and my female compatriots?
I know how!
It‘s do or die now…for all...
Don‘t worry, I am not talking about „approaching
women, but rather „hardcore pick-up“.
In a few seconds I will tell you wh...
A week ago I approach a HB 7.5678 as a set and I
instantly managed to get a number close and a kiss
close at the instant d...
Cool? No  Nerd
It brings about more damage than you think
You go out to „sarge“, to approach a „set“ and to
get a „lay...
„Set“ is no kitchen set but a human being
Lack of respect for women
She is receptive to an interaction and a
conversati...
Women are seen as an object
Every interaction with a woman is an interaction with
a human being
Go out to make women sm...
22. November, 5:30 pm:
“What the hell is your problem? Just let us alone, you
assholes! With what kind of fucked up tric...
I was shocked
I assured her that I was just honest
She continued to insult me
She wanted to run away
I asked her to share her experiences with me
She sat down on a bench with me and told me her
story…
…how she has been l...
She was young and naive
It was love on the first sight
He pretendet to love her and promised a relationship
After the ...
He braged about how he „talked the cutie around“
How would you feel? Would you still have trust?
Would you still be open...
I was sympathetic to her
Nevertheless, no phone number, no facebook
Her trust in men was destroyed…
…and I could under...
Why do I tell you this story?
Don‘t be a manipulative PUA
Be respectful
Be honest
Be authentic
For every logic and fact based person this passage will
require a lot of tolerance…
…what do I talk about, you read the en...
Vibration, what does he mean with vibration?
Every human being vibrates on a certain frequency
Characteristics, attitud...
There can only be an attraction between things
that are on the same vibration level/ energy level
Now this whole thing is ...
Pete Doherty – Kate Moss
Both of them are mentally fragile and take coke like
crazy
Depressive couples want to „support...
“Dear god, this woman was so unbelievably
boring, she spends her life with drinking and
partying and she probably has nev...
Women who are intelligent, honest and lead an
interesting life are interested in me.
Women who don‘t really interest you...
Have you really made the first move or has she maybe
initiated it?
Is it really coincidence, that exactly she attracted ...
In over 50% of the cases a woman is the initiator of an
interaction
Most men have to less awareness to recognize this
fa...
Crossed legs, playing with the hair, biting on their
lips
Some singals are conscious, some unconscious
Yoga, meditation...
Women send signals and men???
Eye contact is YOUR signal!!!
Your most powerfull resource is eye-contact
„I got lost in...
Many men have problems to look women straight into
the eyes
Fimtip: „Alfie“ with Jude Law
Seductive smile + direct eye ...
Exercise:
- Become aware of the following: Are you able to
maintain eye contact with women?
- train it with a good female ...
…of a German:
Where are you from?
What do you do?
What are you studying?
What semester are you in?
Are you here ofte...
Person = job description?
No german interview style
You know facts but you know nothing about the person
She met such ...
Build an emotional connection
Passions and interests
Find similarities
Get to know each other as human beings
Arouse ...
Direct…but not at all cost
I wrote: „come on, let‘s just have really good sex“
I should have written: „let‘s talk a lit...
Approach a woman „high energy“ like you would
do it in a club
 Heart attack
Approach a woman directly in tram next to ...
Perfectionism shows weakness, vulnerability
shows strength!
Why?
Because perfectionism doesn‘t exist per definiton
Unfortu...
perfectionism:
You are not honest
You won‘t be able to maintain this ideal image
Perfectionism is intimidating
You nev...
Vulnerability:
You don‘t hide anything
You can get involved with the woman
Honesty shows strength
She wants to get to...
You overcome your fears
You expand your comfort zone
You become fearless
Don‘t mistake stupidity with courae in all yo...
courage:
It takes a lot of courage to approach a woman
It takes a lot of courage to apply for your dream job
It takes a...
stupidity:
It borders on silly to approach a woman right next to
her boyfriend
It borders on silly to just quit your job...
The boundary between courage and stupidity is a thin
rope on which you have to learn to poise. Be careful
that you don’t f...
Social conditioning even by choosing women
Towhat extent does your „dream woman“ really
correclate with YOUR imagination...
Society and media propagate what is beautiful
Own experiences: scaled-down models with harsh
facial features ? Thank‘s n...
Phone numbers and dates get more and more easy
beautiful, intelligente, self-confident, caring,
humorous and interesting...
There are more than enough depressive, boring,
indifferent and insecure women
The illusion: perfect figure, make-up, sty...
Or do you really think that a amazingly beautiful,
educated, adventurous, loves to travel and extroverted
woman is attrac...
Courage to approach is the first step
An interesting life is the main part
There are so many drags
Drags are attractin...
Yoga, sport, personal development, travel, meditate,
read, friends
v.s.
watching tv and playing computer games
“Where th...
I've failed over and over and
over again in my life and that is
why I succeed.
Michael Jordan
You as a baby when you learned to walk: „I fell
down, crap, I should give up“
 you would still crawl
parents: „Behave ...
You only learn by making mistakes
You only get better by making mistakes
The most successful people failed over and ove...
It is impossible to get better in your interactions with
women without making mistakes!!!
run risks
 make mistakes
 have...
one short wink in the present
It was just in the past
Future in a few seconds
Countless alternatives
Countless possib...
This moment, as short and as unimpressive it might
be determines the rest of your whole life.
…You live in the moment. The...
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  1. 1. Let me teach you how to seduce the women of your dreams
  2. 2. Congenital heart defect Several operations Insecurity because of young looks, acne and scars Depressive teenager Lost my virginity with 18 Four-year relationship
  3. 3. Transformation: I took over responsibility for my life I graduated from university Moved out of my parents house I broke up with my girlfriend I took a bootcamp I moved to a foreign country I experienced adventures
  4. 4. Today: I organize my life the way I want it and I do what I want. I live my life according to my ideas… selfish? No, just heatly self-love
  5. 5. Accept the current situation Take over responsibility for your life Ask yourself what you really want Take action Honesty and authenticity
  6. 6. Don‘t lie to yourself Facade at the beginning= facade later on Acceptanze as a foundation for your personal development
  7. 7. Stop blaming other people Don‘t go the comfortable path It is YOUR life, therefore YOU are responsible for it Personal responsibility as a way to success
  8. 8. I want to fuck hundres of women! I want to prove it to everyone who rejected me! I want that because this or that coach told me to! STOP What do YOU really want?
  9. 9. It is more comfortable and easier to not do anything The only way to change your life is by doing something „Do or do not. There is no try“ Yoda
  10. 10. Be honest to women Be honest to yourself Honesty leads to respect and appreciation Honesty allows honesty
  11. 11. 1500€ for a bootcamp vs. 1500€ for 30 Prostitutes What provides you with more sex in the short term? Well, what is it all about?
  12. 12. Destroying your fears Personal development Live the life of your dreams To feel as a man
  13. 13. What do you link to freedom? Self-determination, personal responsibility and limitless possibilities… In the past it was unattainable, today it is not possible to imagine life without it What exactly has freedom to do with seduction?
  14. 14. Where does „one“ get to know his dream partner? - Friends and acquaintances (30%) - at a night out/parties (30%) - At work (9%) - Through the internet (1,5%)
  15. 15. Does something catches your eye? There is something missing… Café, bus, tram? 1% Shopping centres, street, train station, parks, stores, bus stops… …don‘t even exist in the statistics
  16. 16. What does that tell us? On the one hand… We are dazzling personalities We have more courage than 99,9% of people We utilize our freedom
  17. 17. on the other hand… Many people don‘t utilize their freedom! Many don‘t consider their freedom as possible Freedom isn‘t even in their reality
  18. 18. like a prisoner who shrinks in front of an open prison door, just because the jailer (the society) tells him, he is not allowed to go through that door. And so the prisoner remains in his (thought-) prison for the rest of his entire life. Everything he has to do to live a life of freedom is to go through that goddamn door. It seems so easy…
  19. 19. Many people who are in a relationship are unhappy! Many singels have no clue how they could meet somebody Many people have partners that son‘t match their imagination of a dream partner WHY???
  20. 20. How high is the chance that the good friend, of the friend of your best friend is the girl of your dreams? How high is the chance that the drunk idiot who has the courage to approach a girl in the club is her dream partner? How high is the chance that the new coworker in your department, with whom you start a relationship after a while, is really your dream partner?
  21. 21. Your Friends, your family, your boss serve your partner For sure not your dream partner but… …you take what you can get happy?
  22. 22. Adopt your freedom Act autonomous Take over responsibility for your life Utilize the limitless opportunities
  23. 23. And above all… …. Learn to appreciate this freedom!!!
  24. 24. …there is no try (Yoda) try: indecisiveness  insecurity  inner doubt It doesn‘t matter if you do it or not, you tried it at least…
  25. 25. Do: no comfortable alternatives no backdoor Responsibility for your life Do you want it? Then do it Don‘t you want it? Then don‘t do it It‘s that simple…
  26. 26. „he has changed so much…“ „Cobbler, stick to your trade…“ Example: Fear of starting a business What is the worst consequence??? An apartment and enough to eat!?!
  27. 27. You have no success with women? Then change it! You have never faced your fears? Then change it! You have never approached a woman before? Then change it!
  28. 28. Afterwards: Overcome your fear in a certain area of life Impact on every aspect of life reframing: change = positive Life is change and change means life…
  29. 29. evolutionary biology approach: Rejection of a woman Disgrace in the whole village Approaching the wrong woman Lambasted from the alpha male with a club
  30. 30. social conditioning: „don‘t speak with strangers!“ „don‘t do that, you are not allowed to do this“ „That isn‘t appropriate“ Do I set against the social norm by doing this? Yes, and a good thing, too!
  31. 31. Who are „the rest“ / „the people“? Zombies… …who don‘t realize what is happening around them …who don‘t give a fuck about you
  32. 32. It is your life and not „other peoples“ life Who gives you the right to lay your decision-making ability in the hands of some idiots? No other human being is able to carry this burden
  33. 33. …if I approach a woman: That you have more courage than 99,99% of men? Yes! That you are self-confident and that you take your life in your own hands? Yes! That you are an honest and authentical human being? Yes! And…I don‘t even want to say it out loud , that you are, God forbid, heterosexual???? Yes!
  34. 34. “You want to approach THIS beauty in THIS outfit?” “Just look at her, she for sure has a boyfriend” “You are not handsome enough to have a chance with such a beauty” “I don’t know what to say!” “I am not good enough to get a woman like her!” “What if she rejects me?” “What if I become a laughing-stock?” “All the people are looking at me already!” “This will be a train wreck…for sure!” “I can’t do it…”
  35. 35. They can‘t be ignored They can‘t be deleted They get less noisy You can reduce their intencity
  36. 36. Develop an awareness for them Yoga, meditation, autogenous Training Learn to accept them Act anyway
  37. 37. Core self-confidence Situational self-confidence
  38. 38. Self-acceptance: Do you accept yourself or do you lie to yourself? Self-worth: Which value do you see in yourself? Has a female model more value? Self-perception: Do you have a positive or negative self-perception?
  39. 39. Would I approach a woman on the street? YES! Would I fight against a professional Thai-boxer in a cage? NO! Why?
  40. 40. Reference experiences Experiences Therefore the knowledge: „Nothing bad can happen“ You can only build it by going out and doing it…
  41. 41. In case you are german your heart must beat heavy now. The following1.000.000.000 slides will show some facts about the mankind and the womankind. That these „facts“ are only my opinion, will be ignored, for me they are facts ;-)
  42. 42. How can I make guys feel less intimidated by me? I have a problem where many man feel intimidated by me immediately, before I say or do anything. The first reason is that I'm 6'2". Also, I'm a D-cup (not to brag, but I think it's a factor). Men are intimidated by my physical appearance, and I'm not very open and friendly right away. That's something I could work on. I just think that guys assume I won't be interested in them, or they feel inadequate and start to feel nervous. I'm totally harmless, actually I'm beyond harmless, I'm very open to people. It just doesn't show right away. I don't want to miss out on great guys because they're frightened away. Any thoughts on how I can make them feel more comfortable with me?
  43. 43. 98% are delighted by it… …even in the political correct emancipated Germany ;-) 2% can‘t deal with it. You don‘t really want these women.
  44. 44. Women fantasize about being approached in the everyday life Women consider it as a compliment Women respect you for doing it Unfortunately, most women never experience it…
  45. 45. The women in germany are deperate How often I‘d been asked: „You can‘t be German!?“ They ask in forums if everything is all right with them, what they do wrong Homework: tipe „Why don‘t I get approached“ into google and be amazed
  46. 46. “oh my god, that never happened to me before. You made my day, no my whole week. I am so sorry but I have a boyfriend but this is totally awesome. You should do that more often; all men should do that more often. I really thank you for doing this!”
  47. 47. They get out of bed being tired They get up early, to do their make-up and to prepare their outfit „Why do I do that anyway? Nobody even recognizes it…“
  48. 48. On to a boring job Exausted they go home Boredom infront of the TV The soaps in the evening are about passion and romance And in their life? Where are these things?
  49. 49. …and there you are. You approach her, give her a compliment You are tossing her out of her daily routine Suddenly her female energy awakes and she shines Give her the chance to shine!
  50. 50. “No man on this planet, no male porn director is able to imagine the filthy things that women’s brains produce.”
  51. 51. Men love sex and women love sex. Women sense the feelings during sex more intensely „good girl image“ Seems innocent = innocent?
  52. 52. Madonna/whore complex Seems prudish= madonna seems promiscuitive = whore Fragmentation in „good girl“ and „bad girl“ is bullshit
  53. 53. Truth: good girl = bad girl = SAME GIRL
  54. 54. Socially acepted image In bed every woman wants to celebrate her femininity EVERY woman has both sides inside her „clean sheet“ is WAY more important for women than it is for men
  55. 55. What goes around, comes around: Do you condemn women for their sexuality? You shoot yourself in the foot!
  56. 56. Delete the word „slut“ from your vocabulary I respect her even more if it comes to sex quickly… why? The woman frees herself from social conditioning The woman acts self-determined
  57. 57. The prettier the woman is the lonelier she is, because no man has the courage to approach her. (Charlie Harper, Two and a Half Men)  This sentence tells the truth
  58. 58. These women are the loneliest, react in the most positive way on a direct approach and often they are even the most insecure. Too good to be true? Above all, why is that?
  59. 59. Are these women really lonely? Do you have the courage to approach a model? Do you think the man next to you has the courage? Nobody has the courage, at least no „normal“ guy Out of desperation they take the asocial idiot as a boyfriend
  60. 60. Are these women really lonely? How are they able to get to know a good man when nobody has the courage to talk to them? They are often incredibly lonely!
  61. 61. Are these women really lonely? Man don‘t have the courage to go near her Women see competitors in them and avoid them they are happy if somebody behaves „normally“ aound them
  62. 62. Do these women really react the most positive way? They want to be approached like every other girl Besides „asocial wolf-whistelers“ nobody has the courage…
  63. 63. Do these women really react the most positive way? They are accustomed to „cool behavior“ and insecurity Approach them in an honest and direct way! They react positive and are delighted
  64. 64. How is it possible that such women are the most insecure? insecure or overcompensated beahvior of men dismissive or jealous behavior of women The main part of their interactions are NOT honest and authentic
  65. 65. How is it possible that such women are the most insecure? they provoke all kinds of reactions on other people, (jealousy, fear) just not those that they intend (authenticity, honesty)  Insecurity
  66. 66. How is it possible that such women are the most insecure? They just get honored for their looks Why do you think there are so many jokes about blondes? They define their „value“ over their looks Every pimple, every gram that is too much, leads to insecurity
  67. 67. Women Want To Be With Men Less Physically Attractive Than They Are Why Women Gladly Date Ugly Men (And Probably Even Prefer Them) Why do the most beautiful women prefer men that are uglier than them?
  68. 68. They are not in need of: They get enough attention They don‘t have to „upvalue“ themselves They search their partner after their imaginations (personality)
  69. 69. She ugly after a movie: „God I can never have a guy again who hasn‘t such a body“. Me in my thoughts: „Don‘t give up un that dream, don‘t give up on it…“ Who do you think made no statement?  the beautiful women
  70. 70. Women want to be desired: „The people should gaze after HER… …and not after HIM!“ Courtney Cox saied “she only wants to date ugly guys, saying that it would be really uncomfortable for her to date someone that looked better than she does.”
  71. 71. I look at it as a obligation , to make women compliments Everything else wouldn‘t be appreciative Tanning salons, nail salons, beauty salons, mals, perfumeries, cosmetic surgeries
  72. 72. Women invest hundreds of € per month in their looks They tweeze their eyebrows, vanish their nails, shave their whole body, wear make-up, straighten their hair, get holes in their ears, wear uncomfortable tight jeans, break their nuckles with high heels, they freeze their ass off in winter wearing a skirt…
  73. 73. And for what??? Therefor, that nobody makes her a compliment? Therefor, that nobody tells her how beautiful she is? How demotivating and frustrating…
  74. 74. I wonder why women in Germany walk around scruffy? They NEVER get acknowledgement! Why apply a lot of effort? So please reward her for her effort
  75. 75. How can I continue after my wonderful tribute to my male and my female compatriots? I know how! It‘s do or die now…for all you hardcore PUAs: Time for „Inner Game“, „Lifestyle Designe“ and… …food for thought
  76. 76. Don‘t worry, I am not talking about „approaching women, but rather „hardcore pick-up“. In a few seconds I will tell you why…
  77. 77. A week ago I approach a HB 7.5678 as a set and I instantly managed to get a number close and a kiss close at the instant date. The moment I wanted to escalate there was last minute resistance, which I faced with a freeze out. Then the set took a running jump and there was no lay for me. Probably I didn’t do enough DHVs and I fucked up the rapport phase…
  78. 78. Cool? No  Nerd It brings about more damage than you think You go out to „sarge“, to approach a „set“ and to get a „lay“. Like a soldier, who wants to conquer the „fortress woman“ by all means
  79. 79. „Set“ is no kitchen set but a human being Lack of respect for women She is receptive to an interaction and a conversation, but she doesn‘t want to be gamed She wants to enjoy sex with you but she doesn‘t want to get „laied“.
  80. 80. Women are seen as an object Every interaction with a woman is an interaction with a human being Go out to make women smile and to show up as a man …
  81. 81. 22. November, 5:30 pm: “What the hell is your problem? Just let us alone, you assholes! With what kind of fucked up trick do you want to get me into your bed, huh you awesome pick up artist???”
  82. 82. I was shocked I assured her that I was just honest She continued to insult me She wanted to run away
  83. 83. I asked her to share her experiences with me She sat down on a bench with me and told me her story… …how she has been lied to, how she was exploited and manipulated and thrown away
  84. 84. She was young and naive It was love on the first sight He pretendet to love her and promised a relationship After the sex he never called her again
  85. 85. He braged about how he „talked the cutie around“ How would you feel? Would you still have trust? Would you still be open to an encounter with a stranger? No, of course not
  86. 86. I was sympathetic to her Nevertheless, no phone number, no facebook Her trust in men was destroyed… …and I could understand it
  87. 87. Why do I tell you this story? Don‘t be a manipulative PUA Be respectful Be honest Be authentic
  88. 88. For every logic and fact based person this passage will require a lot of tolerance… …what do I talk about, you read the english version of my presentation, so you are supposedly no German. Therefore you are maybe emotionally open, outgoing and spiritual ;-)
  89. 89. Vibration, what does he mean with vibration? Every human being vibrates on a certain frequency Characteristics, attitudes, frames of mind affect your vibration
  90. 90. There can only be an attraction between things that are on the same vibration level/ energy level Now this whole thing is explained with practical example…
  91. 91. Pete Doherty – Kate Moss Both of them are mentally fragile and take coke like crazy Depressive couples want to „support“ each other Associal gangster types with a BWM 3 and a stupid bitch
  92. 92. “Dear god, this woman was so unbelievably boring, she spends her life with drinking and partying and she probably has never read a book in her whole life. She must be totally impressed by my lifestyle.” No, she wasn‘t, but….but …Who on earth wants such women? The answer: men who are the exact same way.
  93. 93. Women who are intelligent, honest and lead an interesting life are interested in me. Women who don‘t really interest you are also not interested in you! Give them th chance to find the suitable awful bore, drug addict and dumbass that they attract into their life by themselves.
  94. 94. Have you really made the first move or has she maybe initiated it? Is it really coincidence, that exactly she attracted your attention and that you choose exactly her?
  95. 95. In over 50% of the cases a woman is the initiator of an interaction Most men have to less awareness to recognize this fact They don‘t accept the offers
  96. 96. Crossed legs, playing with the hair, biting on their lips Some singals are conscious, some unconscious Yoga, meditation, simple observation help you to develop an awareness Exercise: go in a club an observe the people
  97. 97. Women send signals and men??? Eye contact is YOUR signal!!! Your most powerfull resource is eye-contact „I got lost in his eyes“
  98. 98. Many men have problems to look women straight into the eyes Fimtip: „Alfie“ with Jude Law Seductive smile + direct eye contact= wet and red cheeks
  99. 99. Exercise: - Become aware of the following: Are you able to maintain eye contact with women? - train it with a good female friend …you transmit sexual interest but you are just a friend!?  funny reactions - Walk through the city and look women deeeep in their eyes
  100. 100. …of a German: Where are you from? What do you do? What are you studying? What semester are you in? Are you here often? How old are you? What are your hobbies? What is your phone number?
  101. 101. Person = job description? No german interview style You know facts but you know nothing about the person She met such idiots before in her life How should a flirt look like? just the opposite way!
  102. 102. Build an emotional connection Passions and interests Find similarities Get to know each other as human beings Arouse good feelings inside her
  103. 103. Direct…but not at all cost I wrote: „come on, let‘s just have really good sex“ I should have written: „let‘s talk a little bit at my place, before I kick you out later“  social intelligence!!!
  104. 104. Approach a woman „high energy“ like you would do it in a club  Heart attack Approach a woman directly in tram next to other people  „uhhh okaaaay“ Translation: „damn, if I say yes everyone is looking at me and lables me as a slut“
  105. 105. Perfectionism shows weakness, vulnerability shows strength! Why? Because perfectionism doesn‘t exist per definiton Unfortunatelly men and women lead each other to belive it
  106. 106. perfectionism: You are not honest You won‘t be able to maintain this ideal image Perfectionism is intimidating You never get to know EACH OTHER
  107. 107. Vulnerability: You don‘t hide anything You can get involved with the woman Honesty shows strength She wants to get to know YOU As soon as you show vulnerability you allow her to do the same
  108. 108. You overcome your fears You expand your comfort zone You become fearless Don‘t mistake stupidity with courae in all your euphoria
  109. 109. courage: It takes a lot of courage to approach a woman It takes a lot of courage to apply for your dream job It takes a lot of courage to move to another city
  110. 110. stupidity: It borders on silly to approach a woman right next to her boyfriend It borders on silly to just quit your job without thinking about your future It borders on silly to abord the contact with good friends, just becasue they have another worldview now
  111. 111. The boundary between courage and stupidity is a thin rope on which you have to learn to poise. Be careful that you don’t fall down.
  112. 112. Social conditioning even by choosing women Towhat extent does your „dream woman“ really correclate with YOUR imaginations External influence  Ideal image Your image or the image of the society?
  113. 113. Society and media propagate what is beautiful Own experiences: scaled-down models with harsh facial features ? Thank‘s no, not my type YOU alone should decide what kind of woman YOU find attractive
  114. 114. Phone numbers and dates get more and more easy beautiful, intelligente, self-confident, caring, humorous and interesting women? They are hard to find „amazing women“, dream women are rare
  115. 115. There are more than enough depressive, boring, indifferent and insecure women The illusion: perfect figure, make-up, stylish clothes, simulated self-confidence and an artificial smile. In case you meet such a dream woman, concentrate on her and…  attract her in your life!!!
  116. 116. Or do you really think that a amazingly beautiful, educated, adventurous, loves to travel and extroverted woman is attracted to you if your only hobby is to watch football, get drunk and watch TV?
  117. 117. Courage to approach is the first step An interesting life is the main part There are so many drags Drags are attracting drags Horror vision: “All things considered everything is pretty good. Principally I can’t complain.”
  118. 118. Yoga, sport, personal development, travel, meditate, read, friends v.s. watching tv and playing computer games “Where the hell are some OTHER men?” Be that man!!!
  119. 119. I've failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed. Michael Jordan
  120. 120. You as a baby when you learned to walk: „I fell down, crap, I should give up“  you would still crawl parents: „Behave yourself!“ teacher: „don‘t make any mistakes now!“ We are punished for mistakes and get bad marks
  121. 121. You only learn by making mistakes You only get better by making mistakes The most successful people failed over and over again At the beginning you will make a lot of mistakes
  122. 122. It is impossible to get better in your interactions with women without making mistakes!!! run risks  make mistakes  have success
  123. 123. one short wink in the present It was just in the past Future in a few seconds Countless alternatives Countless possibilities
  124. 124. This moment, as short and as unimpressive it might be determines the rest of your whole life. …You live in the moment. There is only this moment. This woman in this moment could be your dream woman. How would you decide in this moment?

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