This document provides 10 ways to instantly become more attractive. They include being real, talking with purpose, listening, laughing, smiling, walking with your head up, making eye contact, not complaining, feeling attractive, and being open. The overall message is that physical appearance is not the main driver of attractiveness and that radiating confidence, connecting with others, and showing positivity are easy ways to appear more attractive.
2. If you’re like many, you believe
physical appearance is the driving
force behind attractiveness. If you hold
that belief, you’d be wrong
3. A lot of people hide their
true self by putting on false
persona. When you do this,
you not only obstruct your
true self, you also create
false relationships
Be real
4. Talk with purpose
Talk with purpose
There’s something attractive about
those who have a purpose with their
words. Don’t simply talk for the sake of
filler. When you talk, speak with
authority
“Better to keep your mouth closed and be thought a
fool than to open it and remove all doubt.” -
Abraham Lincoln
5. ListenIn an increasingly
opinionated world,
the skill of genuinely
listening has become a
lost art. When you
talk, really talk and when
you listen, really listen.
Suspend judgment, and
open your heart and
mind to listen.
The person who really
knows how to listen is
magnetic
6. When you laugh, you radiate an
inner beauty. While it’s possible to
overdo it, laughing is virtually
always positive. Plus, a sense of
humour is alluring. No one likes to
be around a grouch
Laugh
7. SmileCombined with laughing, smiling is one
of the easiest ways to radiate
attractiveness. When you smile, you
connect with everyone around
you. Did you know the most successful
individuals are the ones that smile the
most? It’s true
8. your head up
Walk with
How do you walk with your head
down? A simple shift in the way you
walk will do wonders in how you are
seen by others. Confidence goes a
long way. Look up and observe the
beauty of the world, and in turn you will
radiate it
9. Look people in the eye
The ability to look others in the eye
displays a certain confidence. It also
allows for a better connection with
others. Practice making eye contact
with those you’re around.
Acknowledge them. Looking them in
the eyes shows you care
10. Don’t complain
Complaining is like a rocking chair. At
first it feels comfortable and you feel
like you’re accomplishing something,
but you don’t end up getting
anywhere. Do everything in your power
not to complain
11. Feel attractive
How can you expect to be attractive if
you don’t feel like you are? Each of us
overflows with natural beauty. When
you feel attractive, you release
attractiveness
12. Be open
When you allow others to connect with
you, you instantly become more
appealing. Be real, open and willing,
and watch your authentic relationships
manifest themselves