Six steps on how to reinvent yourself, no matter what! After a bitter and protracted custody battle, declining mental health and three subsequent suicide attempts, I was diagnosed with a serious mental illness. Though fearful of the consequences of exposing myself, I decided I would turn my life around and help others who had suffered as I had. The next few years were spent testifying to members of Congress, speaking at local support groups and at thought leader conferences to offer my support, hope and encouragement that recovery was possible. My YouTube Channel grew to 700,000 views, I published six short books, one of which was translated into Japanese, and developed a certification training program for others who wanted to peer coach. During this time, I was estranged from most of my five children. The pain of the separation pushed me even further to learn how to stay healthy. My goal was to be the very best mother I could be should they ever return to my care. After many years, I was reconciled with all my children and got married. I gave birth to my son, Hunter, at the age of 48, and had my twin girls at the age of 50. My story is a story of redemption and second chances and this workshop is about the nuts and bolts of what one can DO give themselves a fresh start and live a new, intentional life. Thanks for stopping by! With love, Tami

3. How to get the most from this
workshop!
1. Do the work.
2. Close your door.
3. Turn off phone and other browsers and apps.
4. Ask questions.
5. Stay until the end! (Plus you get
free bonus!) S

4. I'm thrilled you're here because we're a
lot alike, you and me. We're both trying to
make a life out of what we love to do.
We all have to reinvent ourselves many
times through life.

5. Sometimes its because something
awesome has happened.
And sometimes its because you lose
everything and are a zero.

6. Every day you
reinvent yourself.
You’re always in
motion.
But you decide every
day: forward or

7. It doesn’t matter if you:
Z Lost your mind in public: Brittany Spears
Z Tried to kill yourself: Owen Wilson, Halle Berry
Z Went to jail: Teresa (real housewives), Fatburger CEO
Andrew Wiederhorn, Martha Stewart
Z Got fired: Steve Jobs
Z Nobody believes you: Jesus
Z Were left for a younger woman Ivana Trump
Z Sex tape: Kim Kardashian
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8. In September of 2013, Diana Nyad became the first person
to swim the 110 miles from Cuba to Florida without a shark
cage.
As a 64-year-old,she had tried and
failed to complete this swim on four different occasions.

9. .
Recognize this guy?
Four corporate bankruptcies in 1991, 1992, 2004 and 2009.
Lost a LOT in his divorce when it was revealed he had an affair.

10. In my late thirties and
early forties:
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I had my house foreclosed on.
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Lost custody of my children.
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Sunk into a deep depression.
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Tried to kill myself three times.
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My children stopped speaking to me.
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Became isolated and couldn't find my way out.

11. When I reached my
lowest,
I opened up my arms
and became willing to do
anything, be anything, to
make it better.
That is when my

12. The result:

I testified to Members of Congress.

Have had over 700,000 YouTube
channel views.

Have spoken to and coached 1000's
on how to regain your mental health
and how to take back your life.

13. I've had six short books published,
including one that was translated into
Japanese.
And invented a mental health
certification program to train others
to do what I did.

14. Best of All:

Reconciled with all five of my
children.

Got married.

Had a baby with my new husband at
the age of 48.

Had twin girls at the age of 50.

Improved all my relationships.

15. Now I will show you how
I changed my life.
And how you can, too.

17. It’s okay to get
disillusioned. That’s
what failure is about.

19. We have to modify our
identities as we go
through life," says Ravenna Helson, a
professor of psychology at the University of California,
Berkeley.
She directed the Mills Study, which followed some 120
women over 50 years, proving in the process that it's never
too late to reinvent yourself.
In the study, about a dozen

20. It may be painful to accept a
few things.
But you will suffer if you aren't
willing to accept.

21. To stop suffering,we must accept
and move on.
What are you not accepting?

24. Imagination!

25. Researchers from the University of Rochester found
that people working toward things are:
S personally fulfilled
S less depressed
S and more
satisfied
with their lives than those who are striving primarily
to impress the outside world.

26. According to a series of studies led by Ken Sheldon, a psychology
professor at the University of Missouri, they are also:
S more likely to achieve
personal goals,
S the most likely to make
steady progress.
S more likely to devote
sustained effort despite

27. Close Your Eyes...

29. Twirling:
Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy
and see the world differently.
AHA

30. Twirling:
Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy
and see the world differently.
1. Get a piece of paper.

31. Twirling:
Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy
and see the world differently.
1. Get a piece of paper.
2. Fold it in half.

32. Twirling:
Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy
and see the world differently.
1. Get a piece of paper.
2. Fold it in half.
3. Write down everything you don't like about your life and
what has happened to you.

33. Twirling:
Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy
and see the world differently.
1. Get a piece of paper.
2. Fold it in half.
3. Write down everything you don't like about your life and
what has happened to you.
4. Write down every negative thing you can think of.

34. Twirling:
Spinning round and round until you fall down dizzy
and see the world differently.
1. Get a piece of paper.
2. Fold it in half.
3. Write down everything you don't like about your life and
what has happened to you.
4. Write down every negative thing you can think of.
5. Twirl it!

35. Success is better than
failure but the biggest
lessons are found in
failure.

37. Hugging
A hug can indicate support, comfort, and
consolation, particularly where words are
insufficient.

38. Simple Definition of hug
: to put your arms around someone especially as
a way of showing love or friendship
: to hold (something) tightly with your arms
: to stay close to (something)

40. Embrace what you most
despise.

42. Dealing with what
people think about you
is the biggest thing.
Get over it.
Be who you are.
It's beautiful.

45. Jigsaw puzzle pieces. Let's recap!
1. What you know you need to
accept from Step 1.
2. What you've learned you want
from Step 2.
3. What you dream your life will be
from Step 3.
4.Who and what you will hug from

46. “You have to give yourself
enough timeto actually accomplish your
goal."
-Art Markman, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas
at Austin and the author of Smart Change.

47. "It's the big picture things that give life
meaning," he says, "like parenting or becoming an
expert at something."

48. “If you don't have long-term goals”, Markman warns, “you run the
risk of doing lots of little things every day cleaning the house,
sending emails, catching up on TV, without ever making a
contribution to your future. That can leave you feeling
restless and unfulfilled.”

51. Playing
Z Make concentric circles. You’re at the middle.
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52. Playing
Z The next circle is friends and family.
J

54. Playing...
Z The next circle is online communities.

56. Playing...
Z The circle after that is meet-ups, support groups and
coffees.

57. Playing...
Z The circle after that is mentors.

58. Playing...
Z The circle after that is followers.

60. Playing...
Z The circle after that is conferences and thought
leaders.

61. Blaise A. Aguirre, MD, instructor in psychiatry at Harvard Medical
School.
"Tami Green's life story of Borderline Personality Disorder recovery
offers hope and inspiration to those asking the question, "Can I have a
life with joy even though I have Borderline Personality Disorder?"
Anthony W. Bateman, MA, MD, FRCPsych
"Tami is supportive of others, listens carefully, and provides excellent
information about the roles that family members can play in helping their
loved ones to seek help and to recover. She not only gives hope to
others but also provides effective practical advice about how patients can
progress to recovery with the help of services and family members. We
use her small book on self-help for managing the symptoms of
Borderline Personality Disorder in my unit in the United Kingdom and our
patients love it."
Dr. Glen Gabbard, Professor of Psychoanalysis and Professor and
Director, Baylor Psychiatry Clinic
"I think your book, Self Help for Managing the Symptoms of Borderline
Personality Disorder, is an extremely helpful and practical guide for
people with the disorder. You are probably going to help a lot of people

62. John G. Gunderson, MD, Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School
"Tami Green is living proof what our research states: that those with BPD can and
do get better and stay better. Her encouragement to others to expect positive
results from treatment is to be applauded.".
Perry D. Hoffman, PhD, President of the National Education Alliance for
Borderline Personality Disorder (NEA-BPD)
"Tami Green has a unique ability to put an articulate and hopeful face on what, for
many years, was thought to be an untreatable clinical condition. She is to be
applauded for her commitment and courageous efforts to reach out to the BPD
community, clinicians, family members and consumers alike, with the banner of
hope and good news that a happy, meaningful life with BPD is possible."
John M. Oldham, MD, MS, Past President, American Psychiatric Association
(APA)
"Tami Green is an inspiration to us all, demonstrating that with courage,
persistence, and the right treatment, persons with Borderline Personality Disorder
can recover. Her mission, to spread the word that new research supports a picture
of optimism and hope, is just the right one."

63. Playing...
Z The circle after that is customers.

64. Three types of mentors
1.Direct. Someone who is in front of you who will
show you how they did it.
.

65. Three types of mentors
2.Indirect. Books.
.

66. Three types of mentors
3.Everything is a mentor. Look around.

67. “Seek out people
who have already
achieved the dreamto
which you aspire”, suggests Harvard psychology
professor Daniel Gilbert in his book, Stumbling on
Happiness.
“We dream about our documentary being acclaimed at
Sundance without considering the toil of producing it. We
all dream of victory celebrations. Few of us fantasize
about practicing.
These successful achievers can share the reality with you
both good and bad.”

68. Time it takes to reinvent
yourself: five years.
Year One: you’re flailing and reading everything and just starting to DO.
Year Two:you know who you need to talk to and network with. You’re
Doing every day. You finally know what the monopoly board looks like in your new
endeavors.
Year Three:you’re good enough to start making money. It might not be a
living yet.
Year Four:you’re making a good living.
Year Five:you’re making wealth.

69. So, what if you really
could reinvent your
life?

Start a new business?

Find the perfect partner?

Start a family?

Lose weight?

Get your reputation back?

70. Are you readyto learn what success feels
like?
Are you confusedabout what to do
next?
Tiredof spending countless hours working
without seeing any results?
Frustratedby the lack positive
momentum?
If so, I am here to help.

71. I created an entire
course around this
material!
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72. What's inside:
One webinar with me each week for SIX
weeks!
Each module has:
Worksheets, Bonus Material, Podcasts,
Additional Videos
Philosphy: Roll up our sleeves and
dig deep, using the latest research and the
most effect tips and techniques.

73. Do you like FREEBIES like I do?
BONUS: 30 minute group Q and
A with me each week
BONUS: MP3 recordings of
each webinar to listen to in your car
EXTRA BONUS: Bundle of
my best infographics and picture quotes
to keep you inspired and to use on your
own social media.

74. The price? $497
What it's worth? It may be
the best investment you ever make.

75. Why I'm discounting the
course:
Because I am ON FIRE wanting to get this
information into your hands as quickly as
possible! It will change your life!
Why it will go up in price
soon:
Because I have had an overwhelming
response to this course. And as I get busier
and busier, my time will be at a premium.

76. The price will be
$597 after this
weekend.

77. There are so many, just
like you, who have
reinvented their lives.

78. Case Study:
Brooke Randolph of Indianapolis was a
typical twenty-something single woman
devoted to her career in social services,
but what she really wanted was to adopt a
child from abroad.
Last year, at 32, she adopted a 6-year-old
boy from Samoa.

79. Testimonials:
“Tami, working with you has changed
everything! My private practice is going
gangbusters. And guess what? Dave and I are
expecting a daughter next month!”
-Physician, Little Rock, AR

80. “I wasn't sure what life would look like after my
divorce, but I've found an amazing woman,
Annabelle, and we are getting married late this
year. And I am about to publish my next book. I
will never forget all you've done for me.”
-Public Speaker, Portland, OR

81. “I can't believe what a mess I was. You've really
helped me believe in myself. I am much more
confident now. And I'm going back to college
this fall.”
-Stay At Home Mom, San Marcos, TX

82. Perhaps you've put off doing this work
because you're not sure where to start. The
fear of the "unknown" might be preventing you
from moving forward.
Or maybe you're overwhelmed by the sheer
amount of material you'll have to work through.
Such fears are understandable, but you're
smart. That's why you're here.
S

83. The six week course:
#1
Learn to-optimize your reinvention efforts to gain
maximum traction.
#2
Understand how to attract more friends whose
efforts will help you reinvent yourself while you
sleep.
#3
Benefit from the knowledge of others ready to
make your dreams come true.

84. You already know you can't ignore
where you are in life.
Others are already reaping
the rewards of reinventing
their lives.
Why don't you?

85. I've done the hardest work for you,
streamlining a course which focuses on the
essentials of designing and achieving a new,
better life.
I will give you step-by-step guidance, holding
your hand through the entire process.
.

86. You need focused direction and insight from
someone who's been there and done it for
thousands of people JUST LIKE YOU.
S

87. If you order RIGHT NOW you will also
receive these HUGE BONUSES:

Private Facebook Group
with others on this journey. This member run private
Facebook group is a place to ask questions, exchange
ideas and connect with other like minded individuals, just
like you!

MP3 recordingof this webinar to
listen to in your car!

A Free Bonus webinarwith Q
and A!!


88. Here's what you'll learn:

How to create the life of your dreams, no matter what
has happened.

The weekly strategy for doing the work, broken down
into bite-sized chunks.

How to become more focused, so you have more time
to work on what really matters to you.

The key to making the action steps seem more like
play.

How to increase your happiness, using a proven
strategy that works.

How to attract positive people into your life.

89. If you're just starting out, this is THE
BEST program to do it.
As one of the foremost reinvention
experts, I will provide the mentorship
you need to succeed in your life.
It can be the turning
point in your life.

90. Bonus I promised if you
stay until the end:
tamigreenlifecoach.com/
notes
You will also receive a link to a replay of this webinar in
an email tomorrow!

91. Q and A