This document lists 18 signs of high emotional intelligence. These include having a robust emotional vocabulary, being curious about people and embracing change, knowing your own and others' strengths and weaknesses, being a good judge of character and accepting others, not being easily offended, giving without expectation of return, listening and paying attention without holding grudges, dealing effectively with toxic people, not seeking perfection but appreciating what you have, disconnecting when needed, getting enough sleep, stopping negative self-talk, maintaining joy despite others' attempts to limit it, and letting go of mistakes.