5. ATTITUDE
1) is an internal characteristic that influences both how you
see things and how you react to events. It plays a major
role in determining both your actions and the reactions
you get from others.
2) Person point of view towards something.
Belief: is a person opinion about something.
7. If you are aggressive
If you are arrogant
If you are nervous
People become defensive
People will get annoyed
people will take advantage.
8. If you are friendly
If you are enthusiastic
If you are positive
people will respond accordingly
people will share in your enthusiasm
people will be positive in return.
15. IQ v/s EQ
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16. IQ v/s EQ
The research
shows that IQ can
help you to be
successful to the
extent of 20
percent only in
life. The rest of 80
percent success
depends on your
EQ.
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80% EQ
20% IQ
17. “Anyone can be angry—that is easy. But to be
angry with the right person, to the right
degree, at the right time, for the right
purpose, and in the right way — that is not
easy.”
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19. Emotional intelligence
Emotional Intelligence is the
ability of an individual to
deal successfully with other
people , to motivate other
people, understand their own
feelings and appropriately
respond to the everyday
environment .
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Doesn't mean being soft – it
means being intelligent about
emotions – a different way of
being smart.
Ability to acquire and apply
knowledge from your emotions
and the emotions of others.
Emotional intelligence
21. Characteristics of a High EQ Person
Ñ A time to wait and a time to watch,
Ñ A time to be aggressive and a time to be passive,
Ñ A time to be together and a time to be alone,
Ñ A time to fight and a time to love,
Ñ A time to work and a time to play,
Ñ A time to cry and a time to laugh,
Ñ A time to speak and a time to be silent,
Ñ A time to be patient and a time to decide.
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22. Characteristics of a low EQ Person
“If only I had a different job … …”
“If only I had finished graduation … …”
“If only I had been handsome/beautiful …”
“If only my spouse had stopped drinking …”
“If only I had been born rich and famous…”
“If only I had good contacts…”
“If only I had better friends …”
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23. CAN EQ BE DEVELOPED?
YES. You can develop your EQ
by upgrading your emotional skills.
The popular thinking that EQ is
entirely inherited is incorrect. There
is no emotional intelligence genes
as such . It is something you
Learn.
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25. LEARN TO LISTEN !
is a structured form of listening and responding that focuses
the attention on the speaker. The listener must take care to
attend to the speaker fully, and then repeats, in the listener-s
own words, what he or she thinks the speaker has said. The
listener does not have to agree with the speaker--he or she
must simply state what they think the speaker said. This
enables the speaker to find out whether the listener really
understood. If the listener did not, the speaker can explain
some more.
# 1
26. Membaca situasi
Dengan memperhatikan lingkungan
sekitar, kita akan mampu
mengetahui situasi sebenarnya dan
mengetahui apa yang sebenarnya
terjadi sehingga mampu mengambil
keputusan dengan emosi yang
terkendali.
“Life is change. Growth is optional.
Choose wisely”
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27. NEVER GIVE UP !
"Our greatest glory is not in never failing,
but in rising up every time we fail".
- Ralph Waldo Emerson -
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28. komunikasi
Ñ Komunikasi à jalan keluar
untuk menyelesaikan masalah
Dengan membiasakan
mengkomunikasikan masalah
dengan baik, dapat
meningkatkan kecerdasan
emosi dan menghindarikan dari
kesalah pahaman yang tidak
penting
Be honest with yourself and the way you act when you hear music. That way, when people watch, they'ʹll
see something from your heart and soul, and as a result will communicate your feeling and thought much
be?er. -‐‑ Billy Sheehan -‐‑
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29. Emphaty to Others
Ability with many different definitions. They cover a broad
spectrum, ranging from caring for other people and having a
desire to help them, to experiencing emotions that match
another person's emotions, to knowing what the other person
is thinking or feeling, to blurring the line between self and
other.
Hodges, S.D., & Klein, K.J. (2001)
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31. Berpikiran positif
# 7
“Give the world the best that you have, and the best will come back
to you.”
- Madeline Bridges
32. Forgiveness
# 8
The weak can never forgive.
Forgiveness is the a45ibute of the st5ong.
-‐ Gandhi
33. Living in Different
# 9
Stephen Covey
“St$eng(h lies in differences,
not in similarities.”
34. Keep Smile
# 10
If at times you feel you want to cry,
And life seems such a trial;
Above the clouds there'ʹs a bright blue sky,
So make your tears a smile.
As you travel on life'ʹs way,
With its many ups and downs;
Remember its quite true to say,
One smile is worth a dozen frowns.
Among the world'ʹs expensive things,
A smile is very cheap;
And when you give a smile away,
You get one back to keep.
Happiness comes at times to all,
But sadness comes unbidden;
And sometimes a few tears must fall,
Among the laughter hidden.
So when friends have sadness on their face,
And troubles round them piled;
The world will seem a be?er place,
And all because you smiled!
~ Author Unknown ~
