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LISTENING
• DEFINITION OF LISTENING
• IMPORTANCE OF LISTENING
• STAGES OF EFFECTIVE LISTENING
DEFINITION
OF
LISTENING
•Listening is often confused
with hearing. While hearing is a
biological process that can be
scientifically explained, listening is
a neurological cognitive regarding
the processing of auditory stimuli
received by the auditory system.
Roland Barthes, a linguist,
distinguishes between
hearing and listening,
stating, "Hearing is a
physiological phenomenon;
listening is a psychological
act." Barthes also states
that "whereas for centuries
listening could be defined
as an intentional act of
audition.”
Hearing is always occurring,
most of the time subconsciously.
Listening is the interpretative
action taken by the listener in
order to understand and
potentially make meaning out of
the sound waves.
THE
IMPORTANCE
OF
LISTENING
The Importance of Listening as
Individual
The importance of listening extends far
beyond academic and professional
settings. Understanding how to practice
good communication even in your day
to day life, among friends, family, and
significant others, is important for a
number of reasons: fostering good self-
esteem, maximizing productivity,
improving relationships, and even
becoming a better speaker.
It’s easy to mistake listening as
a simple, passive task, but it
requires more than just the
ability to absorb information
from someone else. Listening is
a process, and an active one.
The Importance of Listening in
one’s Profession (as a Teacher)
Teacher must have patience, compassion, the
ability to inspire good listening skills. Listening
skills are an incredibly important skills for
teachers. It is difficult for a teachers to know what
needs to be taught unless he can hear what is
missing, what needs clarification and what is
understand. If a class of any age feels the teacher
does not hear them, their needs or their concerns,
then the learning will suffer whether the teacher
knows it or not.
1. Active Listening
It is important for teachers to
actively listen to the class in a
sincere and meaningful way
during instruction, the teacher
who uses open dialogue should
listen to each student’s
contribution. This promotes
participation & helps the
students feel secure while
learning in the classroom.
2. Passive Listening
Passive teaching is part of the art of teaching.
A teacher must listen to the entire class during
their activities apart form the active listening
done during pure instructional time. If a
teacher gets involved in students’ conversations
from time to time during these moments, it will
alert the students to a constant teacher presence
that is attentive to their needs as well as
maintaining discipline among them. If the
students know the teacher is aware, listening
and concerned, random acts of unkindness are
less likely to occur.
STAGES
OF
EFFECTIVE
LISTENING
The listening process can be broken
up into five distinct stages: receiving,
understanding, remembering,
evaluating, and responding.
This is the model most commonly
referred to when analyzing good
communication, because it helps
isolate the necessary skills required
at each individual step in the process.
1. Receiving
This is the first and most basic
stage of the listening process: the
act of actually absorbing the
information being expressed to
you, whether verbally or non-
verbally.
No matter how you’re
communicating with another
person, the key at this stage is
to pay attention.
Focus all of your energy on
them, by following these three
simple tips:
Avoid distractions. This is obvious. Don’t have your
cellphone out, or your iPod in, or the television on.
Don’t try to divide your attention between the speaker
and something else. You might think you’re good at
multi-tasking, and perhaps you are, but demonstrating a
commitment to the act of listening will make you a
more respected person among your peers.
Don’t interrupt the speaker. You might want to
make an assumption about what the speaker is saying,
or what they’re about to say – don’t. It’s rude, and you
may find your assumption was wrong, which is
beneficial to no one. You can, however, practice
nonverbal feedback cue, such as nodding, to
demonstrate your attention.
Don’t rehearse your
response. Not yet. At this stage,
your job is only to listen. If you
start to plan a speech while the
other person is speaking, you’re
going to miss certain points and
not be able to respond to their
larger message when it’s your turn
to talk.
2. Understanding
This is the point in the listening
process where you’re able to plan your
response. Understanding takes place
after you’ve received the information
from the speaker, and begin to process
its meaning.
You can do this by asking questions,
or rephrasing parts of the speaker’s
message. This allows you to
demonstrate your active engagement
with their words, and help you better
understand their key points.
3. Remembering
Remembering is about
retaining that information,
and the most effective way
to do so in an important
conversation is to move the
key elements of a message
from your short-term
memory, and into your long-
term memory.
There are numerous
methods for doing this:
Identify the fundamental points. By converting
a collection of small details into a central theme,
you’re able to create something potentially
complicated into an easy-to-grasp general concept.
The details will remain in your short-term memory,
but isolating the main ideas will help you understand
them better, and remember them longer.
Make the message familiar. Relate that main
idea to something you already know. This should be
easy to do – there aren’t many new ideas out there,
and chances are the discussion you’re having will
trigger old memories and past experiences. Use those
to help you retain incoming information.
4. Evaluating
It’s at this stage where
you can begin to prepare
for your response, but
remember: you’re still a
listener, not a speaker.
After the message has
been absorbed, processed,
and remembered, you can
begin to sort the
information into pieces.
5. Responding
If you’ve completed the receiving,
understanding, remembering, and
evaluating portions of the listening
process, responding should be easier
than ever. You’ll be prepared to address
the speaker’s most important points,
with an awareness of the circumstances
and context surrounding their words.
It’s important to understand the
transition between listening and
speaking though, and be aware of the
ways responding is still a part of the
active listening process.
EFF LISTENING

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EFF LISTENING

  • 1. LISTENING • DEFINITION OF LISTENING • IMPORTANCE OF LISTENING • STAGES OF EFFECTIVE LISTENING
  • 3. •Listening is often confused with hearing. While hearing is a biological process that can be scientifically explained, listening is a neurological cognitive regarding the processing of auditory stimuli received by the auditory system.
  • 4. Roland Barthes, a linguist, distinguishes between hearing and listening, stating, "Hearing is a physiological phenomenon; listening is a psychological act." Barthes also states that "whereas for centuries listening could be defined as an intentional act of audition.”
  • 5. Hearing is always occurring, most of the time subconsciously. Listening is the interpretative action taken by the listener in order to understand and potentially make meaning out of the sound waves.
  • 7. The Importance of Listening as Individual The importance of listening extends far beyond academic and professional settings. Understanding how to practice good communication even in your day to day life, among friends, family, and significant others, is important for a number of reasons: fostering good self- esteem, maximizing productivity, improving relationships, and even becoming a better speaker.
  • 8. It’s easy to mistake listening as a simple, passive task, but it requires more than just the ability to absorb information from someone else. Listening is a process, and an active one.
  • 9. The Importance of Listening in one’s Profession (as a Teacher) Teacher must have patience, compassion, the ability to inspire good listening skills. Listening skills are an incredibly important skills for teachers. It is difficult for a teachers to know what needs to be taught unless he can hear what is missing, what needs clarification and what is understand. If a class of any age feels the teacher does not hear them, their needs or their concerns, then the learning will suffer whether the teacher knows it or not.
  • 10. 1. Active Listening It is important for teachers to actively listen to the class in a sincere and meaningful way during instruction, the teacher who uses open dialogue should listen to each student’s contribution. This promotes participation & helps the students feel secure while learning in the classroom.
  • 11. 2. Passive Listening Passive teaching is part of the art of teaching. A teacher must listen to the entire class during their activities apart form the active listening done during pure instructional time. If a teacher gets involved in students’ conversations from time to time during these moments, it will alert the students to a constant teacher presence that is attentive to their needs as well as maintaining discipline among them. If the students know the teacher is aware, listening and concerned, random acts of unkindness are less likely to occur.
  • 13. The listening process can be broken up into five distinct stages: receiving, understanding, remembering, evaluating, and responding. This is the model most commonly referred to when analyzing good communication, because it helps isolate the necessary skills required at each individual step in the process.
  • 14. 1. Receiving This is the first and most basic stage of the listening process: the act of actually absorbing the information being expressed to you, whether verbally or non- verbally.
  • 15. No matter how you’re communicating with another person, the key at this stage is to pay attention. Focus all of your energy on them, by following these three simple tips:
  • 16. Avoid distractions. This is obvious. Don’t have your cellphone out, or your iPod in, or the television on. Don’t try to divide your attention between the speaker and something else. You might think you’re good at multi-tasking, and perhaps you are, but demonstrating a commitment to the act of listening will make you a more respected person among your peers. Don’t interrupt the speaker. You might want to make an assumption about what the speaker is saying, or what they’re about to say – don’t. It’s rude, and you may find your assumption was wrong, which is beneficial to no one. You can, however, practice nonverbal feedback cue, such as nodding, to demonstrate your attention.
  • 17. Don’t rehearse your response. Not yet. At this stage, your job is only to listen. If you start to plan a speech while the other person is speaking, you’re going to miss certain points and not be able to respond to their larger message when it’s your turn to talk.
  • 18. 2. Understanding This is the point in the listening process where you’re able to plan your response. Understanding takes place after you’ve received the information from the speaker, and begin to process its meaning. You can do this by asking questions, or rephrasing parts of the speaker’s message. This allows you to demonstrate your active engagement with their words, and help you better understand their key points.
  • 19. 3. Remembering Remembering is about retaining that information, and the most effective way to do so in an important conversation is to move the key elements of a message from your short-term memory, and into your long- term memory. There are numerous methods for doing this:
  • 20. Identify the fundamental points. By converting a collection of small details into a central theme, you’re able to create something potentially complicated into an easy-to-grasp general concept. The details will remain in your short-term memory, but isolating the main ideas will help you understand them better, and remember them longer. Make the message familiar. Relate that main idea to something you already know. This should be easy to do – there aren’t many new ideas out there, and chances are the discussion you’re having will trigger old memories and past experiences. Use those to help you retain incoming information.
  • 21. 4. Evaluating It’s at this stage where you can begin to prepare for your response, but remember: you’re still a listener, not a speaker. After the message has been absorbed, processed, and remembered, you can begin to sort the information into pieces.
  • 22. 5. Responding If you’ve completed the receiving, understanding, remembering, and evaluating portions of the listening process, responding should be easier than ever. You’ll be prepared to address the speaker’s most important points, with an awareness of the circumstances and context surrounding their words. It’s important to understand the transition between listening and speaking though, and be aware of the ways responding is still a part of the active listening process.