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©2018 Colle McVoy
April 12, 2018
Sorry, Not Sorry with Courtney Deer
THIS IS
COURTNEY
She’s a customer experience designer at
Target HQ and co-founder of chat app,
Hello Mom. Recently she stopped by Colle
McVoy to share her thoughts on the art of
being NOT SORRY.
©2018 Colle McVoy
©2018 Colle McVoy
I’m not sorry. I’m a woman.
WOMANLY
WISDOM
©2018 Colle McVoy
ON CONFIDENCE
©2018 Colle McVoy
Being able to trust myself and believe in the skills
I had to offer was a huuuuuge thing.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Reinforce to yourself who you are
and what makes you great.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Surround yourself with people who build you up.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Socializing with colleagues during the work day
can help you feel comfortable to be yourself.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Take a beat before you answer a question.
Evaluate how you really feel about what’s being asked.
©2018 Colle McVoy
ON CHANGE
©2018 Colle McVoy
I used to worry about being seen as difficult. Now I just
think to myself, “Actually, I’m just doing my job.”
©2018 Colle McVoy
Change starts with the voices in your head.
©2018 Colle McVoy
You can’t really control anyone but yourself.
What you can control is your reaction
to what they say or how they act.
©2018 Colle McVoy
You need to teach other people how to treat you.
Show them by how you treat yourself.
©2018 Colle McVoy
ON BEING HEARD
©2018 Colle McVoy
Finding my voice was a big challenge.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Stop using qualifiers when you speak or present an idea.
Start using firm statements.
©2018 Colle McVoy
You shouldn’t have to change who you are
in order to be heard.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Think of giving your opinion as being like
giving a gift to those around you.
©2018 Colle McVoy
FOR MALE LEADERS
©2018 Colle McVoy
Let women lead things. Give them a shot.
And when you do, celebrate it.
©2018 Colle McVoy
If there’s a woman who’s on the quiet side, ask her opinion.
It will go a long way.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Ask questions that demonstrate your interest
in their thought process and point of view.
©2018 Colle McVoy
Don’t overcompensate in your praise
or approach to managing women. It’s patronizing.
©2018 Colle McVoy
©2018 Colle McVoy
Feminism isn’t about elevating women above men.
It’s about equality.
DON’T EVER
APOLOGIZE FOR
BEING YOU.
©2018 Colle McVoy
©2018 Colle McVoy

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