SlideShare a Scribd company logo
1 of 8
Trustworthiness
=
Credibility + Reliability +
Intimacy
Self-orientation
 Credibility relates to our words and is revealed in our credentials and
honesty
 Reliability relates to our actions and is revealed by keeping our
promises
 Intimacy relates to our emotions; people feel safe talking about difficult
agendas
 Self-orientation relates to our caring and is revealed in our focus (us or
them?)
The TRUST Equation
 A focus on the Client for the client’s sake, not just as a means to
one’s own ends.
 A collaborative approach to relationships. A willingness to work
together, creating both joint goals and joint approaches to getting
there.
 A medium to long term relationship perspective, not a short-term
transactional focus. The most profitable relationships for both parties
are those where multiple transactions over time are assumed in the
approach to each transaction.
 A habit of being transparent in all one’s dealings. Transparency
increases credibility, and lowers self-orientation, by a willingness to
keep no secrets.
The Four TRUST Principles
,
2
0
0
0
)
 Don’t tell lies, or even exaggerate. Ever.
 Love your topic.
 Introduce your clients to each other.
 When you don’t know, say so.
 Credentials: don’t try too hard (eg letters after your
name on business card)
 Relax, you know more than you think.
 Do your homework on the client; make sure its up to
date.
 Don’t show off.
,
2
0
0
0
)
 Make specific commitments around small things
 Send meeting materials in advance
 Make sure meetings have clear goals (not just
agendas)
 Liaise and negotiate, confirm
,
2
0
0
0
)
 Don’t be intimidated, or use intimidation – it is always
compensating for something.
 Business is about people, don’t fall for the ‘business is
business’ mantra.
 Engage the person, be alert to their interests.
 Repeat often: “Really, what happened next?” and
“Interesting, what’s behind that?”
,
2
0
0
0
)
 Self-consciousness
 A need to appear on top of things
 A desire to look intelligent
 Preoccupied with a long do-list
 An inclination to jump to the solution
 A need to win the argument, be right, be seen to be right
 A desire to be seen to be adding value
 Fears: of not knowing, not having an intelligent answer, of
being rejected
,
2
0
0
0
)
 A tendency to relate stories to themselves of their
experience
 A need to appear clever, witty
 An inability to provide clear direct answers
 An unwillingness to confess lack of knowledge
 Name dropping
 Reciting qualifications
 Tendency to want to have the last word
 Closed questions early on
 Passive listening
 Treating the client as a source of data
s
,
2
0
0
0
)
 Opposite of all previous
 Asking the client what is behind a certain issue
 Focus on defining the problem, not guessing the solution
 Learning to tell the client’s story before we write our own
 Adapt to the client’s culture re terminology, style, formats,
hours etc.
 Resisting the clients invitation to offer a solution too early
on
 Be available
 Anticipate needs and respond
 Communicate
 Communicate

More Related Content

What's hot

The Trusted Advisor
The Trusted AdvisorThe Trusted Advisor
The Trusted AdvisorMatthijsLugt
 
IMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUST
IMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUSTIMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUST
IMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUSTRishabh Bhatia
 
Trusted Advisor Pres_Training
Trusted Advisor Pres_TrainingTrusted Advisor Pres_Training
Trusted Advisor Pres_TrainingJim McDonough
 
Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Richard Riche
 
Toolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving Feedback
Toolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving FeedbackToolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving Feedback
Toolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving FeedbackNext Jump
 
Building and Sustaining Trust for Leaders
Building and Sustaining Trust for LeadersBuilding and Sustaining Trust for Leaders
Building and Sustaining Trust for LeadersKris Mailepors, MBA
 
#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted Advisor
#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted Advisor#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted Advisor
#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted AdvisorKerry Townsend
 
How to succeed in Difficult Conversations
How to succeed in Difficult ConversationsHow to succeed in Difficult Conversations
How to succeed in Difficult ConversationsThe Apprentiice
 
Influencing skills
Influencing skillsInfluencing skills
Influencing skillsoyestontech
 
Crucial confrontations
Crucial confrontationsCrucial confrontations
Crucial confrontationsYves Hanoulle
 
Crucial Conversations
Crucial ConversationsCrucial Conversations
Crucial ConversationsAndrea Kempf
 
The Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R Merrill
The Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R MerrillThe Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R Merrill
The Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R MerrillSunilraj1968
 
The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow
The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow
The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow The Pathway Group
 
Having Difficult Conversations
Having Difficult ConversationsHaving Difficult Conversations
Having Difficult ConversationsPhil Wylie
 
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
The Five Dysfunctions of a TeamThe Five Dysfunctions of a Team
The Five Dysfunctions of a TeamGreg
 
Your customers aren't difficult! They're just different!
Your customers aren't difficult!  They're just different!Your customers aren't difficult!  They're just different!
Your customers aren't difficult! They're just different!Training Trailblazer
 
The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback
The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback
The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback GovLoop
 

What's hot (20)

The Trusted Advisor
The Trusted AdvisorThe Trusted Advisor
The Trusted Advisor
 
IMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUST
IMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUSTIMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUST
IMPORTANCE OF BUILDING TRUST
 
Trusted Advisor Pres_Training
Trusted Advisor Pres_TrainingTrusted Advisor Pres_Training
Trusted Advisor Pres_Training
 
Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Dealing with difficult conversations at work
Dealing with difficult conversations at work
 
Toolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving Feedback
Toolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving FeedbackToolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving Feedback
Toolkit for Employees: Giving and Receiving Feedback
 
Building and Sustaining Trust for Leaders
Building and Sustaining Trust for LeadersBuilding and Sustaining Trust for Leaders
Building and Sustaining Trust for Leaders
 
#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted Advisor
#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted Advisor#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted Advisor
#DF16 Steps to become a Trusted Advisor
 
Tips For Delivering Difficult Conversations
Tips For Delivering Difficult ConversationsTips For Delivering Difficult Conversations
Tips For Delivering Difficult Conversations
 
How to succeed in Difficult Conversations
How to succeed in Difficult ConversationsHow to succeed in Difficult Conversations
How to succeed in Difficult Conversations
 
Influencing skills
Influencing skillsInfluencing skills
Influencing skills
 
Speed of Trust
Speed of TrustSpeed of Trust
Speed of Trust
 
Crucial confrontations
Crucial confrontationsCrucial confrontations
Crucial confrontations
 
Crucial Conversations
Crucial ConversationsCrucial Conversations
Crucial Conversations
 
The Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R Merrill
The Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R MerrillThe Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R Merrill
The Speed of Trust by Stephen M R Covey & Rebecca R Merrill
 
Psychological safety in teams
Psychological safety in teamsPsychological safety in teams
Psychological safety in teams
 
The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow
The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow
The Trust Equation - A presentation by Javan Bramhall at Pathway2Grow
 
Having Difficult Conversations
Having Difficult ConversationsHaving Difficult Conversations
Having Difficult Conversations
 
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
The Five Dysfunctions of a TeamThe Five Dysfunctions of a Team
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
 
Your customers aren't difficult! They're just different!
Your customers aren't difficult!  They're just different!Your customers aren't difficult!  They're just different!
Your customers aren't difficult! They're just different!
 
The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback
The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback
The Art of Giving and Receiving Feedback
 

Viewers also liked

Trusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client Relationships
Trusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client RelationshipsTrusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client Relationships
Trusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client RelationshipsTrip Allen
 
Step 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation Elements
Step 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation ElementsStep 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation Elements
Step 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation ElementsPMSD Roadmap
 
Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014
Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014
Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014Andrea Lee
 
Equation de la confiance
Equation de la confianceEquation de la confiance
Equation de la confianceSebastien Cobut
 
Building Value
Building ValueBuilding Value
Building ValueBob Hafer
 
PASOS PARA HACER SELLO
PASOS PARA HACER SELLOPASOS PARA HACER SELLO
PASOS PARA HACER SELLOGizZe Noemi
 
Understand, transform, empower
Understand, transform, empowerUnderstand, transform, empower
Understand, transform, empowerDerek Winter
 
Selling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the share
Selling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the shareSelling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the share
Selling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the shareAnderson Hirst
 
Leadership communication spectrum
Leadership communication spectrumLeadership communication spectrum
Leadership communication spectrumDerek Winter
 
The Customer Journey
The Customer JourneyThe Customer Journey
The Customer JourneyFred Hess
 
Building a trust - Emotional Bank Account
Building a trust - Emotional Bank AccountBuilding a trust - Emotional Bank Account
Building a trust - Emotional Bank AccountEka Putra
 
The good the bad and the ugly - dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...
The good the bad and the ugly -  dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...The good the bad and the ugly -  dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...
The good the bad and the ugly - dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...Anderson Hirst
 
October webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved Risks
October webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved RisksOctober webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved Risks
October webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved RisksAltify
 
Work Smarter, Not Harder
Work Smarter, Not HarderWork Smarter, Not Harder
Work Smarter, Not HarderSebastien Cobut
 

Viewers also liked (17)

Trusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client Relationships
Trusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client RelationshipsTrusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client Relationships
Trusted Advisor Four Levels Of Client Relationships
 
The Age of Trust
The Age of TrustThe Age of Trust
The Age of Trust
 
Step 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation Elements
Step 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation ElementsStep 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation Elements
Step 5 Training Materials - Trust Equation Elements
 
Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014
Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014
Securing Your Role as a Trusted Advisor - April 2014
 
Equation de la confiance
Equation de la confianceEquation de la confiance
Equation de la confiance
 
Building Value
Building ValueBuilding Value
Building Value
 
PASOS PARA HACER SELLO
PASOS PARA HACER SELLOPASOS PARA HACER SELLO
PASOS PARA HACER SELLO
 
Understand, transform, empower
Understand, transform, empowerUnderstand, transform, empower
Understand, transform, empower
 
Selling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the share
Selling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the shareSelling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the share
Selling to procurement - sharing the spoils or spoiling the share
 
Leadership communication spectrum
Leadership communication spectrumLeadership communication spectrum
Leadership communication spectrum
 
Story boarding
Story boardingStory boarding
Story boarding
 
Active Listening
Active ListeningActive Listening
Active Listening
 
The Customer Journey
The Customer JourneyThe Customer Journey
The Customer Journey
 
Building a trust - Emotional Bank Account
Building a trust - Emotional Bank AccountBuilding a trust - Emotional Bank Account
Building a trust - Emotional Bank Account
 
The good the bad and the ugly - dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...
The good the bad and the ugly -  dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...The good the bad and the ugly -  dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...
The good the bad and the ugly - dirty tricks in negotiation. Selling Interac...
 
October webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved Risks
October webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved RisksOctober webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved Risks
October webinar How to Win more Sales by Overcoming Buyer Percieved Risks
 
Work Smarter, Not Harder
Work Smarter, Not HarderWork Smarter, Not Harder
Work Smarter, Not Harder
 

Similar to The TRUST Equation

Building trust at work and in personal life
Building trust at work and in personal lifeBuilding trust at work and in personal life
Building trust at work and in personal lifekwame Oduro Amoako (PhD)
 
Persuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docx
Persuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docxPersuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docx
Persuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docxmattjtoni51554
 
Effective Public Dealing
Effective Public DealingEffective Public Dealing
Effective Public DealingAnchalmandhir1
 
Candid new 2
Candid new 2Candid new 2
Candid new 2coolkerg
 
The speed of trust
The speed of trustThe speed of trust
The speed of trustkerrigans
 
Short salesman guide to success
Short salesman guide to successShort salesman guide to success
Short salesman guide to successTapio Meskanen
 
Presentation tips
Presentation tipsPresentation tips
Presentation tipsnymufti
 
The Speed Of Trust
The Speed Of TrustThe Speed Of Trust
The Speed Of Trustbeaulapoint
 
Interpersonal Skills
Interpersonal SkillsInterpersonal Skills
Interpersonal SkillsSyeda Azra
 
Importance of building credibility in your projects pip frank moore
Importance of building credibility in your projects  pip frank mooreImportance of building credibility in your projects  pip frank moore
Importance of building credibility in your projects pip frank moorelionsleaders
 
Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23
Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23
Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23MikeBnntt
 
Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)
Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)
Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)1508 A/S
 
WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015
WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015
WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015Patty Auger, CA, CFP
 
AN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staff
AN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staffAN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staff
AN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staffIdowu Ayoola
 

Similar to The TRUST Equation (20)

Importance of trust
Importance of trustImportance of trust
Importance of trust
 
Building trust at work and in personal life
Building trust at work and in personal lifeBuilding trust at work and in personal life
Building trust at work and in personal life
 
Persuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docx
Persuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docxPersuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docx
Persuasive Speaking Chapter 18Foundation.docx
 
Effective Public Dealing
Effective Public DealingEffective Public Dealing
Effective Public Dealing
 
Building Trust
Building TrustBuilding Trust
Building Trust
 
The Speed Of Trust
The Speed Of TrustThe Speed Of Trust
The Speed Of Trust
 
Candid new 2
Candid new 2Candid new 2
Candid new 2
 
The speed of trust
The speed of trustThe speed of trust
The speed of trust
 
Short salesman guide to success
Short salesman guide to successShort salesman guide to success
Short salesman guide to success
 
Ways to Manage Conflict Productively
Ways to Manage Conflict ProductivelyWays to Manage Conflict Productively
Ways to Manage Conflict Productively
 
Presentation tips
Presentation tipsPresentation tips
Presentation tips
 
The Speed Of Trust
The Speed Of TrustThe Speed Of Trust
The Speed Of Trust
 
The speed of trust
The speed of trustThe speed of trust
The speed of trust
 
Week 7 Communicate
Week 7 CommunicateWeek 7 Communicate
Week 7 Communicate
 
Interpersonal Skills
Interpersonal SkillsInterpersonal Skills
Interpersonal Skills
 
Importance of building credibility in your projects pip frank moore
Importance of building credibility in your projects  pip frank mooreImportance of building credibility in your projects  pip frank moore
Importance of building credibility in your projects pip frank moore
 
Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23
Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23
Madoff Rotary Presentation Apr23
 
Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)
Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)
Trust as a design material morgen booster (2)
 
WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015
WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015
WINK Calgary - Negotiate this - November 24, 2015
 
AN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staff
AN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staffAN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staff
AN OUTSTANDING STAFF; 21 secrets for becoming the most outstanding staff
 

Recently uploaded

Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...
Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...
Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...Seta Wicaksana
 
Organizational Structure Running A Successful Business
Organizational Structure Running A Successful BusinessOrganizational Structure Running A Successful Business
Organizational Structure Running A Successful BusinessSeta Wicaksana
 
Case study on tata clothing brand zudio in detail
Case study on tata clothing brand zudio in detailCase study on tata clothing brand zudio in detail
Case study on tata clothing brand zudio in detailAriel592675
 
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCR8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCRashishs7044
 
International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...
International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...
International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...ssuserf63bd7
 
Global Scenario On Sustainable and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...
Global Scenario On Sustainable  and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...Global Scenario On Sustainable  and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...
Global Scenario On Sustainable and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...ictsugar
 
2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis Usage
2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis Usage2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis Usage
2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis UsageNeil Kimberley
 
Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03
Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03
Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03DallasHaselhorst
 
Call Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City Gurgaon
Call Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City GurgaonCall Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City Gurgaon
Call Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City Gurgaoncallgirls2057
 
Memorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQM
Memorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQMMemorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQM
Memorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQMVoces Mineras
 
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCR8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCRashishs7044
 
Kenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby Africa
Kenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby AfricaKenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby Africa
Kenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby Africaictsugar
 
Islamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in Islamabad
Islamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in IslamabadIslamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in Islamabad
Islamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in IslamabadAyesha Khan
 
Innovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdf
Innovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdfInnovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdf
Innovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdfrichard876048
 
Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737
Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737
Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737Riya Pathan
 
Contemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptx
Contemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptxContemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptx
Contemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptxMarkAnthonyAurellano
 
Digital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdf
Digital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdfDigital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdf
Digital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdfJos Voskuil
 
India Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample Report
India Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample ReportIndia Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample Report
India Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample ReportMintel Group
 

Recently uploaded (20)

Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...
Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...
Ten Organizational Design Models to align structure and operations to busines...
 
Organizational Structure Running A Successful Business
Organizational Structure Running A Successful BusinessOrganizational Structure Running A Successful Business
Organizational Structure Running A Successful Business
 
Case study on tata clothing brand zudio in detail
Case study on tata clothing brand zudio in detailCase study on tata clothing brand zudio in detail
Case study on tata clothing brand zudio in detail
 
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCR8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Kotla Mubarakpur Delhi NCR
 
International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...
International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...
International Business Environments and Operations 16th Global Edition test b...
 
Global Scenario On Sustainable and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...
Global Scenario On Sustainable  and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...Global Scenario On Sustainable  and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...
Global Scenario On Sustainable and Resilient Coconut Industry by Dr. Jelfina...
 
2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis Usage
2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis Usage2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis Usage
2024 Numerator Consumer Study of Cannabis Usage
 
Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03
Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03
Cybersecurity Awareness Training Presentation v2024.03
 
Call Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City Gurgaon
Call Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City GurgaonCall Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City Gurgaon
Call Us 📲8800102216📞 Call Girls In DLF City Gurgaon
 
Memorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQM
Memorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQMMemorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQM
Memorándum de Entendimiento (MoU) entre Codelco y SQM
 
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCR8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCR
8447779800, Low rate Call girls in Tughlakabad Delhi NCR
 
Kenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby Africa
Kenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby AfricaKenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby Africa
Kenya’s Coconut Value Chain by Gatsby Africa
 
Islamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in Islamabad
Islamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in IslamabadIslamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in Islamabad
Islamabad Escorts | Call 03070433345 | Escort Service in Islamabad
 
Enjoy ➥8448380779▻ Call Girls In Sector 18 Noida Escorts Delhi NCR
Enjoy ➥8448380779▻ Call Girls In Sector 18 Noida Escorts Delhi NCREnjoy ➥8448380779▻ Call Girls In Sector 18 Noida Escorts Delhi NCR
Enjoy ➥8448380779▻ Call Girls In Sector 18 Noida Escorts Delhi NCR
 
Innovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdf
Innovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdfInnovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdf
Innovation Conference 5th March 2024.pdf
 
Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737
Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737
Independent Call Girls Andheri Nightlaila 9967584737
 
Contemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptx
Contemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptxContemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptx
Contemporary Economic Issues Facing the Filipino Entrepreneur (1).pptx
 
Digital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdf
Digital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdfDigital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdf
Digital Transformation in the PLM domain - distrib.pdf
 
India Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample Report
India Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample ReportIndia Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample Report
India Consumer 2024 Redacted Sample Report
 
No-1 Call Girls In Goa 93193 VIP 73153 Escort service In North Goa Panaji, Ca...
No-1 Call Girls In Goa 93193 VIP 73153 Escort service In North Goa Panaji, Ca...No-1 Call Girls In Goa 93193 VIP 73153 Escort service In North Goa Panaji, Ca...
No-1 Call Girls In Goa 93193 VIP 73153 Escort service In North Goa Panaji, Ca...
 

The TRUST Equation

  • 1. Trustworthiness = Credibility + Reliability + Intimacy Self-orientation  Credibility relates to our words and is revealed in our credentials and honesty  Reliability relates to our actions and is revealed by keeping our promises  Intimacy relates to our emotions; people feel safe talking about difficult agendas  Self-orientation relates to our caring and is revealed in our focus (us or them?) The TRUST Equation
  • 2.  A focus on the Client for the client’s sake, not just as a means to one’s own ends.  A collaborative approach to relationships. A willingness to work together, creating both joint goals and joint approaches to getting there.  A medium to long term relationship perspective, not a short-term transactional focus. The most profitable relationships for both parties are those where multiple transactions over time are assumed in the approach to each transaction.  A habit of being transparent in all one’s dealings. Transparency increases credibility, and lowers self-orientation, by a willingness to keep no secrets. The Four TRUST Principles
  • 3. , 2 0 0 0 )  Don’t tell lies, or even exaggerate. Ever.  Love your topic.  Introduce your clients to each other.  When you don’t know, say so.  Credentials: don’t try too hard (eg letters after your name on business card)  Relax, you know more than you think.  Do your homework on the client; make sure its up to date.  Don’t show off.
  • 4. , 2 0 0 0 )  Make specific commitments around small things  Send meeting materials in advance  Make sure meetings have clear goals (not just agendas)  Liaise and negotiate, confirm
  • 5. , 2 0 0 0 )  Don’t be intimidated, or use intimidation – it is always compensating for something.  Business is about people, don’t fall for the ‘business is business’ mantra.  Engage the person, be alert to their interests.  Repeat often: “Really, what happened next?” and “Interesting, what’s behind that?”
  • 6. , 2 0 0 0 )  Self-consciousness  A need to appear on top of things  A desire to look intelligent  Preoccupied with a long do-list  An inclination to jump to the solution  A need to win the argument, be right, be seen to be right  A desire to be seen to be adding value  Fears: of not knowing, not having an intelligent answer, of being rejected
  • 7. , 2 0 0 0 )  A tendency to relate stories to themselves of their experience  A need to appear clever, witty  An inability to provide clear direct answers  An unwillingness to confess lack of knowledge  Name dropping  Reciting qualifications  Tendency to want to have the last word  Closed questions early on  Passive listening  Treating the client as a source of data
  • 8. s , 2 0 0 0 )  Opposite of all previous  Asking the client what is behind a certain issue  Focus on defining the problem, not guessing the solution  Learning to tell the client’s story before we write our own  Adapt to the client’s culture re terminology, style, formats, hours etc.  Resisting the clients invitation to offer a solution too early on  Be available  Anticipate needs and respond  Communicate  Communicate