This presentation helps you to understand why right and positive attitude is important, how one can identify negative attitude, what are attitude changers, what is the impact of attitude. It also gives you a pledge to maintain a positive attitude. It also sums everything with a simple poem. The summation of attitude word with a full 100 score has also been shown.
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Think
• Can you sing while coming back on
a lifeboat after being just saved
from a wrecked ship.
• Are you able to smile back quickly
when someone really annoyed you.
• Do you always feel lucky that you
are born in a great family that
gave you more values than the
freedom of spending a lot of
money.
• Do you re-initiate talks with a
person with whom you had a bitter
tiff sometime back.
• Did you ever felt that it is you who
get things with lot of struggle, but
others get it relatively easily.
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Not Reacting to Apology
Someone is making a repeated apology. I do
not accept it and starts digging even more
things from his past. Is this Attitude.
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Not Apologising
I know that I have made a mistake, but I am
programmed for not accepting them. Is this
habitual or I need attitude correction.
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Not Helping
I can provide some
genuine help due to my
skills or ability, but I
pretend as if I can not.
Am I showing my
attitude.
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Passing the buck
I didn't listen, didn't speak, didn't see. Someone
else might have. Is it gandhian philosophy or
attitudinal issue.
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Avoid Everything
Break risk by avoiding everything. Do not contribute to
any thing, just avoid and be free. Surely an attitudinal
trait. When it works, when it doesn't, you never know.
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What is attitude for different people
• The way I behave with others or other
behave with me.
• Positive or negative thoughts about
something.
• The way I react to different situations.
• My ability to mix with people.
• My way to communicate that I am
different.
• Thinking positively even during
negative environment.
• My capacity to change surrounding
around me.
• Once ability to impress others.
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What ATTITUDE Actually is
• Responses of an individual to
given situations due to certain
beliefs or notions.
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OUTLINE
• A small truth about Attitude.
• Understanding attitude.
• Identifying Negative Attitude.
• Attitude Changers.
• Impact of Positive Attitude.
• References .
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And ….
• L+O+V+E would be
12+15+22+5 = 54%
• L+U+C+K would be
12+21+3+11 = 47%
(probably you thought this
would be most important)
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Then what makes 100% ?Then what makes it 100%
• Is it MONEY
M+O+N+E+Y
13+15+14+5+25 = 72% NO!!!
• L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P
12+5+1+4+5+18+19+9+16 = 89%
Still NO!!!
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But It must have a solution
• Yes fortunately it has.
IT IS
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E
1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%
• It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life
and Work that makes OUR Life
100% ! ! !
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• CHANGEABLE: Attitude is based on
beliefs, thus it can be changed with
persuasion or experience.
• PERCEPTION OF OTHERS THAT
RELATES TO YOUR VALUE: Adding
value to oneself can change perception of
others. Thus it gets changed.
For. E.g. if you learn singing and others
start enjoying when you sing. You
generally oblige them when you are
asked to sing. You are perceived as
having a positive attitude.
Understanding Attitude - 1
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Understanding Attitude - 2
• IT IS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE:
Positive one represents liking of a
person, place, thing or event while
negative one is vice-versa. This can
be called optimism or pessimism.
• IT IS IMPLICIT OR EXPLICIT:
Responses may be indirectly depicted
(implicit) or they me directly
expressed (explicit).
• IT IS CONCIOUS OR UNCONSCIOUS:
The attitudinal response may be
result of a conscious activity or an
unconscious activity.
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Negative Attitude is Because
YOU DID NOT CARED ABOUT
• Limited Knowledge.
• Limiting Beliefs.
• Negative people around you.
• Circumstances during early
phase of life.
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Typical attitude problems.
• Publicly expressing the dislikes
about a person.
• Always telling stories about
your success or you did that or
you did this.
• Switching yourself off (being
ignorant) when someone is
telling you something.
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Typical attitude problems.
• Avoiding to greet people or
having eye contact with them.
• Playing pranks with people, even
when they don't like it.
• Not coming forward to help
people, even when you are in a
position to do so.
• Delaying work, with a thought
that if I deliver fast more work
will be loaded on me.
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Issues that are not related to attitude.
• Not following the path that
everybody else follows.
• Not being able to demonstrate a
skill when it is most required.
• Being a slow worker due to lack of
knowledge.
• Being a bad
speaker/communicator.
• Giving examples of same things
again and again.
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Understanding Who/What should change
• YOU
Because others will not.
• YOUR BELIEFS
To change you.
• YOUR ENVIRONMENT
Your perception will change it.
• YOUR KNOWLEDGE
Because it really helps.
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The message to change is
Understand
yourself
before being
understood by
others.
- Stephen R. Covey
(Writer of “The 7 Habits of Highly
Effective People")
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Attitude Change Process
• Identification
Difficult but starting point.
• Selection
Select the one to work on first.
• Action
Plan action and start the process.
• Correction
Go deep and work for correction of every
aspect of it.
• Verification
Need to measure it. Friends and family can
help you verify if your actions are working
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Attitude Change Tips
• Join right social forums around you.
• Read good books regularly.
• Learn to avoid time wasters.
• Practice mock-sessions of positive
thinking with your friends and
families.
• Think everyday, can I do one thing
today to make at least one person
happy.
• Invite criticism for your work.
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Impact of Positive Attitude
If there is no fun in it, something
is wrong with all you are doing.
- Norman Vincent Peale
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Belief Change Chain Begins
• Positive attitude generates a
chain of change of beliefs.
• Your start thinking new things
that you will be surprised you
never thought earlier.
• Training helps to do the same.
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People around you starts changing
• Your perception towards
people change, so you feel as
if other people are now
changed.
• Remember existence of other
people around you is the
biggest boon to change
attitude.
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Enjoyment begins
• Positive thinking has been
medically proved to change
your body chemistry towards
better health and general well
being.
• It is a WIN-WIN situation for
you and everyone around you.
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Attitude Poem
सही रवैया रखने से ,
मन के भाव हैं रहते साफ़ |
सरल ज िंदगी रहती अपनी,
गलती होतीिं सारी माफ ||
होता खुद से शुरू रवैया,
मेरी ये पहचान बताता |
आसपास सब अच्छा लगता,
खुद को ब मैं बदल हूँ
पाता ||
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PLEDGE.
• I _________ take a pledge, that I will do
my best, to identify problems within
myself, that are, related to attitude.
I will also try to find, a suitable, action
and correction mechanism, for solving it,
and will truly act upon it, in
a pre-defined time period.
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