1. Don't Do This 1 Thing
When He Pulls
Away...
What NEVER to say or do to your man...
2. Have you ever wondered why some men
treat their women like a princess even
well PAST the dating phase?
Even after many years these guys STILL
buy flowers, they remember EVERY
special occasion and they give their
women their FULL attention when they
are with them.
3. They NEVER retreat to the
garage, NEVER ignore them to watch the
football game on TV and NEVER
disappear for hours on end to play golf
with their “buddies”.
Well recent reports from relationship
scientists (yes, those do exist!) say that
you can actually get that exact SAME
love, attention and warmth from your
man, regardless of how long you’ve been
together or how rocky your relationship
may be.
4. The Secret to Getting Your Man to Treat
YOU Like a Princess...
The secret to unlocking this same love
and affection from your man is probably
something you’ve never considered.
But once you know the secret, you can
literally change your man and influence
him to treat you better...even like a
princess.
5. Now before you accuse me of heresy, let
me explain by asking you a question:
Is there something you or your man does
that REALLY gets him going?
You know what I’m talking about...
maybe it’s a word, or a certain
look, maybe a flick of the hand or a
shoulder shrug – something that REALLY
gets under his skin?
Whatever it is you KNOW it drives him
batty and the result is typically the same.
6. Within milliseconds, his face turns the
color of a boiled lobster; his heart
practically leaps out of his chest and he
either explodes with rage, he runs away
to the garage and you don’t see him for
hours, or he just sits there...stone-
faced, not saying a word.
WHAT just happened?
His Brain Was Just Hijacked...
7. Familiar with the fight or flight response?
Well, you just witnessed it and it’s the reason
why a simple argument can turn into an all-out
war.
Every one of us has a little internal guard on
duty 24/7 in our brain. It’s called the amygdala
and it’s a small walnut-sized part of your brain
responsible for alerting the body to danger.
The amygdala processes incoming information
and automatically searches your memory bank
to determine if it recognizes the information as
friend or foe.
8. All of this happens instantly, and if the brain has
memory of that word or action and the memory
is bad... the body goes into an automatic
negative response over which you have almost
NO control.
It’s called neural hijacking and it literally stops
love, warmth and intimacy from being able to
enter the relationship.
And this automatic negative response is
triggered by those little shoulder shrugs, those
eye rolls...and anything else you may do that
has conditioned your man to react negatively.
9. And once this happens, it’s game over –
your man won’t listen to ANYTHING you
say after this and you’ll both go round
and round with finger-pointing, name-
calling and laying blame on each other.
How to Eliminate these Triggers and
Establish a Deep Emotional Connection...
The good news is that you can uncover
what these triggers are (for BOTH of
you) and set the stage for both of you to
plant, nurture and harvest new feelings
of love and intimacy.
10. Here’s exactly what you do:
First, think of a few actions you know set
him off. Be specific. You know what they
are, if you dig deep enough -- you use a
“tone,” you make a face, you have a
specific phrase you say when discussing
a touchy subject, whatever.
11. And when you use any of these
things, you get a negative response out
of him. Write those down now and
remember them.
Second, go straight to the source: ask
him what you do that sets off his
emotional firebombs. But don’t get
defensive...let him have his say...just
listen.
12. He may feel reluctant at first to share, or
maybe he’s not even aware that there
might be something specific linked to his
going off. Regardless, after you begin
compiling your list here is what you do...
Avoid those words or actions at ALL
COSTS.
13. It’s as simple as that.
Unless you really want to end up a
divorce statistic or you really enjoy
sifting through dating sites, avoid doing
those behaviors or saying those words
that cause problems in your relationship.
Once these are gone...your partner won’t
have those mental blocks or love
filters, and you’ll have a much easier
time building intimacy and affection
again.
14. This really works and I’ve been using this
tip and several others for 25
years, teaching it to every woman who
comes to me wanting to know how to
melt her man’s heart...and in
return, have her man treat her like he
did when they first started dating – like a
princess!
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