90 minute presentation delivered to the middle school girls of Holy Rosary School. What are the root causes of alternative aggression or "girl bullying"? What are the long term consequences of these behaviors? How can young women contribute to healthy school climate AND their future success?

1. Holy Rosary School Middle School Girls Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Sugar and Spice but Not Always Nice: Gender, Bias, and Aggression in Adolescent Girls Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

2. About Seattle Girls’ School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

4. Gender Differences Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

6. Adolescence and Changes Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

8. Special Considerations Sexy --- Slutty Powerful --- Bitchy Smart --- Bookish Cheerful --- Uncool Confident --- “All That” Athletic --- Jocky Close to Friends --- Lesbian Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

9. At the Crossroads Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

11. Relational Aggression includes acts that “harm others through damage (or the threat of damage) to relationships or feelings of acceptance, friendship, or group inclusion.” Relational Aggression Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

12. Indirect Aggression allows the perpetrator to avoid confronting the target directly, making it seem as though there is no intent to harm. Indirect Aggression Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

13. Social Aggression Social Aggression is intended to damage self esteem or social status within a group. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

14. Process Break Does any of this information feel true for you or your peer group? How do you see it in your everyday life? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

15. Friends and Frienemies Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

17. What are the Differences? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

18. Why Keep Them Around? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

22. What CAN You Do? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

29. Debrief • What information was new, useful, or interesting to you? • What other questions do you have? Who in your life can help you figure out the answers? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)

30. Questions, Comments, Concerns? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/)