In some ways, sameness is great - we have same hobbies, we go to the same school, etc. But in what ways does sameness get us into trouble? How does sameness lead to stereotypes, bullying, and other things we don't want to see in the world? Learn how appreciating differences and becoming allies to one another can make a difference.

1. The Trouble with Sameness
Grades 4 - 5
Meridian School
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

2. Picture a…
close your eyes and quickly visualize who
comes to mind when you think of the
following:
• Police Officer
• House Cleaner
• Fire Fighter
• Babysitter/Nanny
• Mechanic
• Doctor
• Teacher
• Garbage Picker-Upper
• Scientist
• Basketball Player
• Singer
• Model
• Criminal
• Dancer
• Construction Worker
• Lawyer
• Receptionist
• Nurse
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

3. Let’s compare!
• What similarities do you see?
• Why do you think most of us
thought of the same kinds of
people?
• If you DIDN’T see what most
of us thought, why was that,
do you think?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

4. Details, Details
Turn to nearby neighbors and talk
about messages in society about
what girls are, what they like,
what they don’t like, what activities
do they do, what they wear, what
they become when they grow up,
etc.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

5. Details, Details
Turn to nearby neighbors and talk
about messages in society about
what boys are, what they like,
what they don’t like, what activities
do they do, what they wear, what
they become when they grow up,
etc.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

6. How Did We Get There
From Here?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

7. How Do We Do It To
Ourselves?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

8. What It’s Called in Adult World
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

9. Words Matter
• “That’s retarded.”
• “I can’t believe you listen to that music.”
• “That’s so gay!”
• “Your name’s weird.”
• “I can’t believe she would wear that in public.”
• “Sissy”
• “That’s so lame.”
• “Your food stinks!”
• “Crybaby!”
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

10. How Do We Stop It?
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

11. An Ally Is…
“a person who is a member of the dominant or
majority group who works to end oppression in
his or her personal and professional life
through support of, and as an advocate with
and for, the oppressed population”
Washington and Evans, Becoming an Ally
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

12. An Ally Is…
“Someone who doesn’t have to stand up for
someone else, who might even lose something
if they do, but they do it anyway because they
know it’s the right thing to do”
Anna, 6th Grader
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

13. Bystander to Ally
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
Karen Bradberry, PhD
Active Passive Passive Active
Agent Bystander Ally

14. How Will I Be an Ally?
Turn to nearby neighbors and
brainstorm ways we are already
allies and ways can be better allies
to one another at the school and
beyond.
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

15. “Be the change you wish to
see in the world.”
Gandhi
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)

16. Have a Great Day!
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)