The document discusses using sports coaching to teach healthy gender and sexuality identity in youth. It addresses how gender biases can negatively impact both girls and boys, leading them to conform to restrictive roles. As coaches spend significant time with students and can be influential role models, they are in a strong position to help youth develop self-esteem and respect for all identities. The presentation provides strategies for coaches to support students, including emphasizing inclusiveness and helping them connect to their personal strengths beyond gender norms.
1. Coaching Them as People:
Using Sports to Teach Healthy Gender and Sexuality Identity
Montclair Kimberley Academy Coaches
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
Seattle Girls’ School
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16. Process Break
Please turn to a nearby neighbor or form
small groups to discuss the following:
How do you experience gender? What
pressures do you feel, and what messages
do you get? What happens as you conform
or defy gender norms? Think about your
experiences growing up, as well as now.
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17. Coaches:
Most Valuable Player
• Students spend more time with you than almost any
other adult at the school.
• Students WANT to be there, have to earn their place
there, and have to work to keep their place there.
• Students are with you for several years.
• Students who have a healthy relationship to school
sports are more physically fit, have better grades,
have better self esteem, are less likely to engage in
risky behavior, and more.
• Students who have a healthy relationship to school
sports report the experience as the most influential
teacher of life skills.
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18. What Can We Do for Girls?
• Help her connect to her
physical power.
• Teach her how to separate
professional and personal.
• Teach her how to express
herself directly.
• Help her bounce back from
constructive criticism.
• Help her connect to other
girls as teammates and
community members rather
than competition or enemies.
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19. What Can We Do for Boys?
• Teach the difference
between strong and
tough.
• Help him understand
power separate from
domination.
• Talk about feelings and
relationships.
• Teach him respect for
women.
• Help him understand
societal homophobia.
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20. What Can We Do for All?
• Help them develop strong interaction and social skills.
• Help them connect to values bigger than themselves.
• Create strong team culture and accountability to it.
• Emphasize gender and sexuality inclusivity.
• Respect and nurture their true selves.
• Share your stories.
• Model the way.
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21. Process Break
Please turn to a nearby neighbor or form
small groups to discuss the following:
What is part of your coaching philosophy or
approach that helps youth be their best
selves in and out of sports? What is one
thing you can add to your coaching
philosophy or approach to help even more?
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22. Undoing Gender and
Sexuality Bias
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24. Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
6th Faculty and
Professional Outreach
Seattle Girls’ School
2706 S Jackson Street
Seattle WA 98144
(206) 805-6562
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
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25. Resources
• Joshua M. Aronson, Ph.D., “Improving Achievement &
Narrowing the Gap,” Learning and the Brain
Conference, Cambridge, MA, November 2003
• Allan G. Johnson, Privilege, Power, and Difference.
• Miss Representation, documentary film on media and
women
• United Nations Population Fund Statistics on Gender
Equality as of 2005
http://www.unfpa.org/swp/2005/presskit/factsheets/facts
_gender.htm
• Learning to be critically literate of mass media
http://www.medialit.org/
• Media Guide for Parents and Educators
http://www.commonsensemedia.org/
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26. Gender Specific Resources
• Jennifer Bryan, various trainings and publications on
gender and sexuality diversity, From the Dress Up
Corner to the Senior Prom
• JoAnn Deak, Ph.D., Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confident
and Courageous Daughters, How Girls Thrive
• Jackson Katz, Tough Guise, Wrestling with Manhood,
The Macho Paradox
• John Medina, Talaris Research Institute, various studies
on early gender differences in competition and play
• Mary Pipher, Ph.D., Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves
of Adolescent Girls
• Rachel Simmons, Odd Girl Out, Odd Girl Speaks Out,
Curse of the Good Girl
• Michael Thompson, Raising Cain, Speaking of Boys, It’s
a Boy!
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