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Coaching Them as People:
Using Sports to Teach Healthy Gender and Sexuality Identity

        Montclair Kimberley Academy Coaches
                      Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
                       Seattle Girls’ School
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About Seattle Girls’ School




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Agenda
•   Sprint Learning – Gender Bias
•   Most Valuable Players –
    Opportunities as Coaches
•   What’s Your Coaching Philosophy?




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Disclaimers and
Other Food for Thought




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Gender Differences




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Gender Bias
Brash                                                  Intuitive
Troublemaker                                     Well-Behaved
Strong                                                 Delicate
Competitive                                       Cooperative
Physical                                            Emotional
Silent                                                   Verbal
Clever                                                   Pretty
Mistake-Prone                                           Perfect
Belligerent                                                Nice
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Girls and Gender Bias
    Where Does it Lead?




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The “Good Girl” in Conflict




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The “Good Girl” in the Workplace and Home




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The “Pretty Girl” on Beauty
          Beauty




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Boys and Gender Bias
     Where Does it Lead?




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The “Tough Guy” in Conflict




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The “Tough Guy” in the Workplace and the Home




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Psychic Dissonance, Health, and Violence




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Gender and Sexuality Paradigm




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Process Break
Please turn to a nearby neighbor or form
  small groups to discuss the following:

How do you experience gender? What
 pressures do you feel, and what messages
 do you get? What happens as you conform
 or defy gender norms? Think about your
 experiences growing up, as well as now.




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Coaches:
           Most Valuable Player
• Students spend more time with you than almost any
  other adult at the school.
• Students WANT to be there, have to earn their place
  there, and have to work to keep their place there.
• Students are with you for several years.
• Students who have a healthy relationship to school
  sports are more physically fit, have better grades,
  have better self esteem, are less likely to engage in
  risky behavior, and more.
• Students who have a healthy relationship to school
  sports report the experience as the most influential
  teacher of life skills.

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What Can We Do for Girls?
  • Help her connect to her
    physical power.
  • Teach her how to separate
    professional and personal.
  • Teach her how to express
    herself directly.
  • Help her bounce back from
    constructive criticism.
  • Help her connect to other
    girls as teammates and
    community members rather
    than competition or enemies.

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              Rosetta
What Can We Do for Boys?
                                   • Teach the difference
                                     between strong and
                                     tough.
                                   • Help him understand
                                     power separate from
                                     domination.
                                   • Talk about feelings and
                                     relationships.
                                   • Teach him respect for
                                     women.
                                   • Help him understand
                                     societal homophobia.
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              Rosetta
What Can We Do for All?
     • Help them develop strong interaction and social skills.
      • Help them connect to values bigger than themselves.
        • Create strong team culture and accountability to it.
               • Emphasize gender and sexuality inclusivity.
                    • Respect and nurture their true selves.
                                       • Share your stories.
                                          • Model the way.




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              Rosetta
Process Break
Please turn to a nearby neighbor or form
  small groups to discuss the following:

What is part of your coaching philosophy or
 approach that helps youth be their best
 selves in and out of sports? What is one
 thing you can add to your coaching
 philosophy or approach to help even more?




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Undoing Gender and
  Sexuality Bias




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Questions and Comments




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Presenter Information
       Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
       6th Faculty and
       Professional Outreach
       Seattle Girls’ School
       2706 S Jackson Street
       Seattle WA 98144
       (206) 805-6562
       rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
       http://tiny.cc/rosettalee

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Resources
• Joshua M. Aronson, Ph.D., “Improving Achievement &
  Narrowing the Gap,” Learning and the Brain
  Conference, Cambridge, MA, November 2003
• Allan G. Johnson, Privilege, Power, and Difference.
• Miss Representation, documentary film on media and
  women
• United Nations Population Fund Statistics on Gender
  Equality as of 2005
  http://www.unfpa.org/swp/2005/presskit/factsheets/facts
  _gender.htm
• Learning to be critically literate of mass media
  http://www.medialit.org/
• Media Guide for Parents and Educators
  http://www.commonsensemedia.org/

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Gender Specific Resources
• Jennifer Bryan, various trainings and publications on
  gender and sexuality diversity, From the Dress Up
  Corner to the Senior Prom
• JoAnn Deak, Ph.D., Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confident
  and Courageous Daughters, How Girls Thrive
• Jackson Katz, Tough Guise, Wrestling with Manhood,
  The Macho Paradox
• John Medina, Talaris Research Institute, various studies
  on early gender differences in competition and play
• Mary Pipher, Ph.D., Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves
  of Adolescent Girls
• Rachel Simmons, Odd Girl Out, Odd Girl Speaks Out,
  Curse of the Good Girl
• Michael Thompson, Raising Cain, Speaking of Boys, It’s
  a Boy!
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Coaching Youth on Healthy Gender Identity

  • 1. Coaching Them as People: Using Sports to Teach Healthy Gender and Sexuality Identity Montclair Kimberley Academy Coaches Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Seattle Girls’ School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 2. About Seattle Girls’ School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 3. Agenda • Sprint Learning – Gender Bias • Most Valuable Players – Opportunities as Coaches • What’s Your Coaching Philosophy? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 4. Disclaimers and Other Food for Thought Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 5. Gender Differences Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 6. Gender Bias Brash Intuitive Troublemaker Well-Behaved Strong Delicate Competitive Cooperative Physical Emotional Silent Verbal Clever Pretty Mistake-Prone Perfect Belligerent Nice Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 7. Girls and Gender Bias Where Does it Lead? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 8. The “Good Girl” in Conflict Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 9. The “Good Girl” in the Workplace and Home Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 10. The “Pretty Girl” on Beauty Beauty Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 11. Boys and Gender Bias Where Does it Lead? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 12. The “Tough Guy” in Conflict Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 13. The “Tough Guy” in the Workplace and the Home Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 14. Psychic Dissonance, Health, and Violence Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 15. Gender and Sexuality Paradigm Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 16. Process Break Please turn to a nearby neighbor or form small groups to discuss the following: How do you experience gender? What pressures do you feel, and what messages do you get? What happens as you conform or defy gender norms? Think about your experiences growing up, as well as now. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 17. Coaches: Most Valuable Player • Students spend more time with you than almost any other adult at the school. • Students WANT to be there, have to earn their place there, and have to work to keep their place there. • Students are with you for several years. • Students who have a healthy relationship to school sports are more physically fit, have better grades, have better self esteem, are less likely to engage in risky behavior, and more. • Students who have a healthy relationship to school sports report the experience as the most influential teacher of life skills. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 18. What Can We Do for Girls? • Help her connect to her physical power. • Teach her how to separate professional and personal. • Teach her how to express herself directly. • Help her bounce back from constructive criticism. • Help her connect to other girls as teammates and community members rather than competition or enemies. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Rosetta
  • 19. What Can We Do for Boys? • Teach the difference between strong and tough. • Help him understand power separate from domination. • Talk about feelings and relationships. • Teach him respect for women. • Help him understand societal homophobia. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Rosetta
  • 20. What Can We Do for All? • Help them develop strong interaction and social skills. • Help them connect to values bigger than themselves. • Create strong team culture and accountability to it. • Emphasize gender and sexuality inclusivity. • Respect and nurture their true selves. • Share your stories. • Model the way. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Rosetta
  • 21. Process Break Please turn to a nearby neighbor or form small groups to discuss the following: What is part of your coaching philosophy or approach that helps youth be their best selves in and out of sports? What is one thing you can add to your coaching philosophy or approach to help even more? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 22. Undoing Gender and Sexuality Bias Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 23. Questions and Comments Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 24. Presenter Information Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee 6th Faculty and Professional Outreach Seattle Girls’ School 2706 S Jackson Street Seattle WA 98144 (206) 805-6562 rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org http://tiny.cc/rosettalee Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 25. Resources • Joshua M. Aronson, Ph.D., “Improving Achievement & Narrowing the Gap,” Learning and the Brain Conference, Cambridge, MA, November 2003 • Allan G. Johnson, Privilege, Power, and Difference. • Miss Representation, documentary film on media and women • United Nations Population Fund Statistics on Gender Equality as of 2005 http://www.unfpa.org/swp/2005/presskit/factsheets/facts _gender.htm • Learning to be critically literate of mass media http://www.medialit.org/ • Media Guide for Parents and Educators http://www.commonsensemedia.org/ Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 26. Gender Specific Resources • Jennifer Bryan, various trainings and publications on gender and sexuality diversity, From the Dress Up Corner to the Senior Prom • JoAnn Deak, Ph.D., Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confident and Courageous Daughters, How Girls Thrive • Jackson Katz, Tough Guise, Wrestling with Manhood, The Macho Paradox • John Medina, Talaris Research Institute, various studies on early gender differences in competition and play • Mary Pipher, Ph.D., Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls • Rachel Simmons, Odd Girl Out, Odd Girl Speaks Out, Curse of the Good Girl • Michael Thompson, Raising Cain, Speaking of Boys, It’s a Boy! Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)