Young people bear witness to challenging or traumatic events in current events, media, and our local communities. Their thoughts, feelings, and reactions enter school spaces whether we introduce conversations or not. We adults have a natural instinct to protect our children from harsh realities and yet prepare them to navigate this complex world - is it possible to do both? What are ways to talk about identity, difference, and justice in age appropriate ways? How do you reinforce school values without shutting down perspectives? How do you facilitate authentic and respectful dialogue across difference? Engage in these questions and more through this interactive session.

1. The Children’s School
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
Seattle Girls’ School
Talking to Young People
About Complicated and Heated Topics
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2. About Seattle Girls’ School
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3. Agenda
 Current Realities
 Young People’s Experience
 How to Talk to Youth
 How to Facilitate Conversations
 Questions and Answers
 Resources
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4. Current Realities
 #MeToo, Time’s Up, Etc.
 Immigration, DACA, Etc.
 School Gun Violence
 Nuclear Tensions
 Russia Probes
 Climate Change and Denial
 Black Lives Matter
 And More…
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5. Young People’s Experience
 Increase in Anti-Group Sentiment
 Increased Uncivil Discourse
 Rise in Sadness, Fear, and Anxiety
 Increased Acting Out
 And More…
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6. How to Talk to Young People
About Current Events
 What have you heard?
 How do you feel?
 What questions do you have?
 How can I support you?
 Here are our values.
 What positive action can you take?
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7. How to Talk to Young People
About Hate and Extremism
 Prepare Yourself
 Be Alert
 Listen
 Reassure
 Be Honest
 Share Your Values
 Take Action
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8. How to Talk to Young People After
Personal Incidents
 “I want to help you feel strong.”
 Affection, correction, protection
 Emotions are always right; not all
action is always right
 Avoid either/or thinking
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9. Helping Young People Talk to One Another
 Create Safety and Courage
 Express Feelings
 Generate Questions
 Share Facts
 Learn More
 Complicate Thinking
 Take Action
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10. Sharing the Challenges,
Sharing the Wisdom
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11. Sharing the Challenges,
Sharing the Wisdom
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 A challenge we couldn’t strategize well
around was…
 A great approach we discussed was…
 I have a question about…
 What if…

12. Questions and Comments
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13. Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
6th Faculty and
Professional Outreach
Seattle Girls’ School
2706 S Jackson Street
Seattle WA 98144
(206) 805-6562
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
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14. Practice Makes
Less Anxiety-Inducing
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15. Sample Topic: NFL Protests
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 What makes you nervous?
 What makes you hopeful?
 You are walking through the dining hall. You
notice the kids in an argument. As you get
closer you overhear a jumble of comments.
“Protesting against flags is wrong!” “It’s free
speech!” “My favorite player is taking a knee!”
“The President says it’s wrong!”
– How do you intervene?
– What do you need to keep in mind?
– What do you want to avoid doing?

16. Takeaways
 What did you learn today
that was new, helpful, or
thought provoking?
 What are some goals or
strategies you would like to
apply with your students?
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