The document discusses a marriage contract and the rights of women in Pakistan. It notes that the presenter did not see her own marriage contract and was unaware of her legal rights. Her goal is to educate women about their rights in marriage contracts, such as rights to divorce, maintenance, and property. She aims to make terms more favorable for women by explaining these rights and having couples or their representatives directly involved in the contract signing. The presenter has been successful in advising women on marriage contracts to help secure their legal rights, such as reasonable payment for Mahr.
2. BACKGROUNDBACKGROUND
My InspirationMy Inspiration
I did not see my marriage contract, nor did II did not see my marriage contract, nor did I
know my rights before signing it.know my rights before signing it.
Legal Rights vs. Custom/CultureLegal Rights vs. Custom/Culture
Strike-out clauses that give women legal rightsStrike-out clauses that give women legal rights
Delays in legal case; no financial rightsDelays in legal case; no financial rights
Studied law and fought my own case.Studied law and fought my own case.
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3. Legal Vs. Custom
(13) Amount of Mahr. Rs. 32/-
(Less than
half a dollar.)
(14) Amount of Mahr Prompt and
amount to be paid later.
Later
(15) Was any amount of Mahr paid
at the time of marriage. If paid
how much?
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__________
(16) If property given in lieu of
Mahr. Details & particulars of
property.
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_________
(17) If any other condition laid. ___________
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(18) Whether the husband has delegated the
power of divorce to the wife, if so,
under what conditions?
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(19) Whether there is condition on the
husband’s right of divorce in any way
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(20) Whether any document was drawn up at the time of
marriage relating to dower, maintenance,
etc. If so contents thereof in brief.
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(21) Whether the bridegroom has any existing wife, and if so,
whether he has secured the permission of
the Arbitration Council, under the Muslim Family Law
Ordinance, 1961, to contract another marriage.
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________________
________________
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(22) Number and date of the communication conveying to the
bridegroom the permission of the Arbitration Council to
contract another marriage.
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5. OBJECTIVEOBJECTIVE
To create awareness about theTo create awareness about the
marriage contractmarriage contract
To secure more favorable terms forTo secure more favorable terms for
women in marriage.women in marriage.
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6. The ProblemThe Problem
Women suffering from unfavorableWomen suffering from unfavorable
marriage conditions.marriage conditions.
Causes:Causes:
Lack of AwarenessLack of Awareness
Elder men handle the marriage contractElder men handle the marriage contract
signingsigning
Couples are uninformedCouples are uninformed
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7. Strategy For ChangeStrategy For Change
Lecture in homes, schools, colleges, vocationalLecture in homes, schools, colleges, vocational
centers, First Women Bank, hospitals,centers, First Women Bank, hospitals,
professional & non-professional women clubsprofessional & non-professional women clubs
Explain the marriage contractExplain the marriage contract
Highlight the bride’s right to:Highlight the bride’s right to:
A representative or lawyer;A representative or lawyer;
Divorce;Divorce;
Place conditions on divorce from husbandPlace conditions on divorce from husband
Maintenance, allowanceMaintenance, allowance
Certificate of divorce/deedsCertificate of divorce/deeds
Role of Arbitration CouncilRole of Arbitration Council
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8. Strategy For ChangeStrategy For Change
Identify Obstacles To ChangeIdentify Obstacles To Change
Question & Answer SessionQuestion & Answer Session
Cultural ObstaclesCultural Obstacles
Techniques to Overcome ObstaclesTechniques to Overcome Obstacles
Engage family membersEngage family members
Avoiding tampering of contractAvoiding tampering of contract
Know Your Legal RightsKnow Your Legal Rights
Family Courts ActFamily Courts Act
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9. OutcomeOutcome
Success StoriesSuccess Stories
I am invited to marriages in order to assistI am invited to marriages in order to assist
filling out the marriage contract. As afilling out the marriage contract. As a
result, I have been able to help ensure theresult, I have been able to help ensure the
bride’s right to divorce and reasonablebride’s right to divorce and reasonable
Mahr payable on demand.Mahr payable on demand.
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