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GOOD PARENTING
6 THINGS
THAT YOU
SHOULD NOT
SAY TO
YOUR CHILD

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THAT’S
RIDICULOUS!
STOP
BEHAVING
LIKE A CHILD.
• Children are sensitive
and putting down their
emotions and feelings is
the last thing that you
can do. At their level,
they give importance to
things that may not
seem important to you.
But try to understand
what they are going
through.

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• This is totally unfair as
individuals are different.
Also by comparison
between siblings, you are
giving rise to rivalry and
causing a rift between
them. Even comparing with
peers is not fair to the child
and should not be done.
WHY
CAN’Y
YOU BE
MORE LIKE
YOUR
BROTHER?

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• The message that you send
out here is that the child is
worthless and incapable.
This may actually make
your child feel so and lead
to underperformance. It
humiliates your child but
does not lead to any
positive change.
YOU ARE
SUCH A
LOSER! YOU
DO
EVERYTHIG
WRONG.

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• Although you may be hurt
because of your child’s
actions, do not say things
that will cut him off. The
child depends on the
parents and cutting him off
will lead to insecurity. Also
he will feel that he can do
anything now as he is
outside your jurisdiction.
I DON’T
WANT TO
HAVE
ANYTHING
TO DO
WITH YOU
ANYMORE!

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• Sometimes you may feel
totally defeated and resort
to such kind of statements.
This sends out a negative
message and makes the
child feel unwanted.
Resolve the issue but do
not make it more volatile.
I WISH
YOU
HADN’T
BEEN
BORN!

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• Saying things to this effect
will have a very negative
effect on your child. You
are not his peer but his
parent and this will make
him believe that he is
repulsive as he holds his
parents to be the harbinger
of truth. Don’t lose your
maturity.
I
HATE
YOU!

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UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN
RESOLVE ISSUES
• Take a deep breath and pause from saying something hurtful.
• Refocus and get things done instead of giving vent to anger.
• Leave the situation by saying ‘We will talk about this later’.
• If you are very angry simply leave the room.
• Arguing with your child will make him or her lose respect.
• Say things only once and do not yell as this shows your
desperation.
• Cut out privileges like television or pocket money instead of
answering back when your child is very rude to you.
• Never ignore your child. Show that you care.
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